What is Emotional Detachment?

Castiel —

 

1. This is an inability to connect with others in a deep and meaningful way.

2. Thus, although the person may be physically present, they are not emotionally present in the relationship.

3. In fact, sometimes the person will dissociate, or experience emotional numbing.

4. Emotional detachment makes it hard for the individual to empathize with others, to share their own feelings (which they may be unaware of), or to appear emotionally engaged in a conversation or relationship.

5. Often the person will intellectually analyze situations, but they will not be able to identify, understand or share any feelings.

the yellow car

LookingToSee —

on my road there is a yellow sports car. very funky. very sporty.

then i came home while it was dark outside, and the streetlights were on and the funky yellow sports car looked boring and not so very yellow.

 

theres a wisdom in this somewhere. not sure where though

The three types of people we shld make sure we arent and the obligatory jealousy

LookingToSee —

– Three People Will Not Enter Paradise

Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar(rA) reported that the Prophet ﷺ said:

“Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)

Ad-Dayooth is the man who permits women for whom he is responsible (eg: mother, wife, sister etc.) to engage in illicit sexual relations, or to display their beauty to strange men, thereby stimulating their sexual desires.

Getting hooked up? - With Allah.

Hummus —

 

On the authority of Abu Hurairah (R) who said that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: Our Lord descends each night to the Earth's sky when there remains the final third of the night and He says: 'Who is saying a prayer to Me that i may answer it? Who is asking something of Me that i may give it him? Who is asking forgiveness of Me that i may forgive him?'. - Bukhari.

Let's hook up with Allah, and Allah will hook us up! Let's hook up with prayer and supplication. Let's hook up with the Qur'an. Let's hook up with our community work and all the possible good deeds that we can do. Let's have that certainty that when we struggle to please Allah Almighty, He, Ash-Shakoor, is the Most Appreciative of our work and will undoubtedly reward us accordingly. 

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strength before technique

LookingToSee —

in martial arts, you need to build strength and power before learning techniques.
i believe in this whole "strength before technique" thing there is also a metaphor for other things in life. im a bit tired to figure out. feel free to speculate aaaway
also, if you come across any links abt power/muscle/strength building for smaller people throw them this way ^_^ muscle building for girls n that.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNCG8PQGhwU halal dreams are okay. iwe just musnt get distracted. thats hard.