Before you can help others (as a therapist, friend, parent...)
Salamu Alaykom wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh,Before you can be a decent therapist,
or a facilitator... and this is really important for
parenting too, by the way...Before you can be a good therapist, you need
to have gotten over a substantial portion of
your own luggage.And since no one is perfect, and you'll
always have faults... you need to have a system
whereby you can cleanse and enrich yourself.This starts with loving yourself.
Then it proceeds to you feeling so self sufficient
that you begin to host others.