I'll start with giving u my brothers and sisters Salaam, i hope u are all in the best of health. I am a new memeber and i really, really need some advice.

I'll briefly tel u my story,i went pakistan a last year and as they do, they asked for my hand in marriage for my cousin,who is not my type at all and i would never get married in Pakistan because there not on my level, most are more cultural then religous.
mum really wanted me too, and when i got back to England my aunty who's son they wanted me to get married went and told the whole family,that i got engaged to her son before i came back to England,which wasnt true.
so the whole family thinks we are engaged which isnt true so i stopped talking to family in pakistan because it really hurt me.