It’s important to for a mother to be healthy…mentally, physically and spiritually in order to bring up children.

Personally, I’m in favour of having fewer children and so that you’re totally able to be there for them and all their demands…rather than having loads and thus neglecting a few without meaning too..

Even when I work in schools, without meaning to I pay more attention to the naughty or loud kids. :?

Bringing Up Kids!

Yikes! Man that just brings back so many memories not that iv got a kid but iv brought up my neices and am doing the same now with my lil baby sis who's 4yrs old cuz my step mom isn't always well.

Neways its funny though to watch someone dealing with a lil kid and thinking to yourself 'I can do better than that or they shouldn't react like that its wrong'.

Typical asians are so funny man, you know for example when your mom or sis in law tries brushing the lil kids hair and then the kid tries getting away, aint it funny the way they just yank them back by the hair. OUCH man thats gota hurt and you'd think the parent wud've realised their mistake and not do it again but what the heck they do it neway, huh?

Some next lady was telling us yesterday that just the other day she did exactly this but in her case she realised what she'd done and rectified hersel with her child. But the point that she made was interesting. She goes in this country most young parents can realise the way they're acting with their kids aint right but if it were to happen in Pakistan o Bangladesh etc then the parents wouldnt careless they'd jus shout and do it again, y?

Is it coz we benefit by living in this country and know the rights of the child or is it coz we have to abide by the laws of this country?

Do you think a young parent who lives in this country and abides by the rules in bringin up a kid would act the same if they were backhome in their own country?

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