Although I think the list is a bit unfair - associated with some there are at least a few good characterstic that often makes friendship with such people acceptable. Take 17 for instance, I am like that all the time - drives people insane, but at the same time I know people who are like that and I appreciate the fact that they care enough to be interested in my problems and actually want to help. Even if its a bit condescending and irritating.
Submitted by Angel on 13 January, 2006 - 16:28 #33
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
u also misseed out the LONG friend
the one who never returns ur calls or makes the effort to visit u-its always u who has to see them
thats me :?
I am like that too, its cuz u get busy/lazy and you just cant be bothered to....
As for Serpah's list none match for me - it aint excly a frends list more like how u treat your enemies! Good frends dont do any of those 21 things :?
I think the title should be '21 types of negative people'. Not friends. Far more accurate.
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Seraphim on 13 January, 2006 - 18:57 #35
Well im not a shrink... nor did i ever take shrink-ology...
But the list is an average... obviously there may be a few i've missed. And i think you'll find these characteristics are just as common among friends as they can be in enemies.
Which is why, when a friend turns on you they can hurt you alot more than any enemy could.
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Submitted by Angel on 14 January, 2006 - 09:40 #36
"Seraphim" wrote:
Which is why, when a friend turns on you they can hurt you alot more than any enemy could.
That above is true however i think those traits are more commonly found it primary school or secondary or rather they should only be found there. I think maybe i could have classified myself into some of those categories before but now i am not anythin like that, maybe cuz i knw what a true friend should be like.
There are many qualities which a good friend should have and out of those 21 none come under this category but then again we weren't really talkin bout "good" friends.
Krypton?
Oh boy... looks like i'm 4, 5, 9, 17 (big time)
Although I think the list is a bit unfair - associated with some there are at least a few good characterstic that often makes friendship with such people acceptable. Take 17 for instance, I am like that all the time - drives people insane, but at the same time I know people who are like that and I appreciate the fact that they care enough to be interested in my problems and actually want to help. Even if its a bit condescending and irritating.
I am like that too, its cuz u get busy/lazy and you just cant be bothered to....
As for Serpah's list none match for me - it aint excly a frends list more like how u treat your enemies! Good frends dont do any of those 21 things :?
I think the title should be '21 types of negative people'. Not friends. Far more accurate.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Well im not a shrink... nor did i ever take shrink-ology...
But the list is an average... obviously there may be a few i've missed. And i think you'll find these characteristics are just as common among friends as they can be in enemies.
Which is why, when a friend turns on you they can hurt you alot more than any enemy could.
Back in BLACK
That above is true however i think those traits are more commonly found it primary school or secondary or rather they should only be found there. I think maybe i could have classified myself into some of those categories before but now i am not anythin like that, maybe cuz i knw what a true friend should be like.
There are many qualities which a good friend should have and out of those 21 none come under this category but then again we weren't really talkin bout "good" friends.
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