Homosexuality and Islam

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yeah theres a diff BUT what im saying is that even in the west in some places homosexuality is not acceptable

Tread Softly wrote:
In Muslim countries gays are getting their anuses superglued shut. There's a slight difference.

You have to also keep things in context.

Iraq has seen a alot of violence on many many things - the society has been torn apart and there is a lot of wanton descruction going on.

Currently you can get lynched there for many many things - being the wrong person in the wrong neighbourhood, having money, being foriegn, being not foriegn. Being linked in some way to the occupation. Being friendly with the wrong people. The list is endless.

Besides, none of the punishments were official or legal. They were mob rule.

Using that as an example of how things would be is unfair (and evne the taliban - both places came after societies were stripped bare and brutalised as a whole. The soviet invasion of Afghanistan was not one of roses and such things have consequences on the collective psyche of the people as cna be seen what happened there and Afghanistan amongst other places.)

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Tread Softly wrote:

Firstly to make clear my position - I have many gay friends and gay members of my family. My wife and I have supported a gay couple in their attempt to adopt.

So you are a gay lover too?

If you can, please tell us your views on important matters like each of these:
God, Heaven, Hell, Quran, Bible, Moses, Jesus, Mohammed, Terrorism, sex, marriage, gays, holocaust, Iran, Israel, nukes, Bush, Blair, Iraq war and of course, 9/11.

just tell me where you stand on these. Please give clear simple answers.

Ayatollah rightly named America as "Great Satan".

Tread Softly wrote:
Non-fundamentalist Muslims may be brave enough (until a few of them are killed for causing mischief or being gay) to raise a voice for moderation, but by then it would be too late as the fundamentalists would be in control.

What's the point in living anymore?!? We're doomed!!!

Aaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

malik wrote:
If you can, please tell us your views on important matters like each of these:
God, Heaven, Hell, Quran, Bible, Moses, Jesus, Mohammed, Terrorism, sex, marriage, gays, holocaust, Iran, Israel, nukes, Bush, Blair, Iraq war and of course, 9/11.

just tell me where you stand on these. Please give clear simple answers.

Dude, why don't you do the same?

And you can add Aljazeera to the list.

Tread Softly wrote:
Non-fundamentalist Muslims may be brave enough (until a few of them are killed for causing mischief or being gay) to raise a voice for moderation, but by then it would be too late as the fundamentalists would be in control.

You will not get (m)any Muslims to think that homosexuality is allowed - More, that would not be a moderate position either.

(Fundamentalism is a term that works for Christianity but not for Islam - here fundamentalism would fix many problems.)

Things always tend towards moderation over time unless there is some instigation that most people can be united against.

More, you will see that death does not cower people when they are in the right. Look at Pakistan - in the frontier provice (where most of the terrorist related acitivty has happened), people speaking against the taliban would at times have their future lives cut to jut a few short days. Yet you still get the leaders of tribes etc speaking up (and then getting gunned down).

Your post above is dealing lightly with their blood, even mocking it.

There will always be extremists, but as an overall problem, things will move towards moderation because to be extreme, there needs to be something "wrong", twisted. but over time (maybe not a fast enough rate), things will moderate.

Besides, being nice is cheaper than using force. Economics eventually will doom the latter.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

I'm a moderate, a peaceful man, until you print a cartoon of my prophet, THEN I'LL CUT YOUR ^&*(ING HEAD OFF!

Something like that? Or

I'm a moderate, peaceful man, until you sell arms to my King who I disagree with, THEN I'LL GET SOME HENCHMEN TO FLY PLANES INTO YOUR CITIES!

Perhaps the truth is that there was never any moderation to begin with?

If a wife does exactly what a husband wants of her, but the husband beats his wife with a stick whenever she doesn't meet his standards, can the husband say, "Well, I'm non-violent, she just shouldn't have pissed me off"?

Your suggestion that things will move to moderation unless there is something wrong is not necessarily true. There only needs to be a perception that something is wrong. Now do the extremists have a true world view or does it in fact bare little resemblence to reality? Hmmm, I know you know the answer to that.

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I take on board your comment on fundamentalism, I shall have to refine the term.

My comment about dissenters being killed for being gay is that the extremists won't be too fussy about the truth of charges if they silence a dissenter. I know you can't be gay and a Muslim, there's even a forum for all those who have left Islam because of their sexuality.

Tread Softly wrote:
I'm a moderate, a peaceful man, until you print a cartoon of my prophet, THEN I'LL CUT YOUR ^&*(ING HEAD OFF!

Something like that? Or

I'm a moderate, peaceful man, until you sell arms to my King who I disagree with, THEN I'LL GET SOME HENCHMEN TO FLY PLANES INTO YOUR CITIES!

Yes, something like that.

(Is that the level of discussion we want? Maybe I took your search for knowledge and insight far straighter than I should have?)

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

But its a valid point isn't it?

You seem to be suggesting that Islam is moderate until some unifying event happens to push the moderation out of the window, and that this somehow justifies the subsequent lack of moderation. "It's not our fault things get blown up, it's not our fault there is a rise in hateful Salafi doctrine (or whatever), it's those invading troop's fault."

I'm just saying that you can't expect to be called moderate if you're moderate one day and not moderate the next.

It's the sort of thing you get on the other forum. "We blew up that restaurant because the West have been killing Palestinian babies!"

edit/ ok i'm going to eat for a while, i can't keep up with your ninja editing to your posts lol Smile

he is just a gay lover and israeli sympathizer. his words seem to be nice but his dead heart is with gays.

Ayatollah rightly named America as "Great Satan".

I didn't know you could see into souls and read minds, Malik.

I prefer to take people as they are instead of weaving some bigger story around them.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

You wrote:
I didn't know you could see into souls and read minds, Malik.

wow.

 

1) Homosexuality is a great sin in Islam.
2) The punishment for homosexuality under a Sharia-principled government is death.
3) Numbers (1) and (2) are accepted as true by all mainstream Muslims.
4) Therefore to be a good Muslim you have to accept and support Numbers (1) and (2).

Is this correct?

And my next question, because I'm about to go on holiday for a week or so:

5) The principles of Sharia are to be accepted by all Muslims as the perfect governmental system.
6) The principles of Sharia are to be accepted by all Muslims as the best governmental system in practice, even if implemented by fallible men, assuming all of it is adhered to and non-Sharia cultural baggage is removed.

7) All Muslims should hope for Sharia across the world.
8.) All Muslims should seek to further the progress of Sharia across the world, rather than passively wait for this promised east-to-west Sharia to occur.
9) All Muslims should actively seek to change the government of any country to a Sharia government, whether now or at some future point.

Are these points correct? Any comments on these various points please?

Tread Softly wrote:
1) Homosexuality is a great sin in Islam.

Yes.

Tread Softly wrote:
2) The punishment for homosexuality under a Sharia-principled government is death.

No.

Tread Softly wrote:
3) Numbers (1) and (2) are accepted as true by all mainstream Muslims.
4) Therefore to be a good Muslim you have to accept and support Numbers (1) and (2).

Is this correct?

No.

From the 4 Madhabs, the most populous is the Hanafi school of thought. This does not specify the death penalty (or any other for that matter - it simpy, states that it is up to the judge).

More the burden of evidence would be four witnesses to the act of penetration.

Even Saudi - which is not Hanafi does not always use the death penalty - it only uses is when it feels the state is being threatened by nefarious means - for instance if people try to organise a movement. Otherwise it uses less severe punishment including imprisonment if homosexuality has been proven using whatever criteria it has set.

@ Tread SOftly, if you want to know why some people get angry, there is too.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Tread Softly wrote:
And my next question, because I'm about to go on holiday for a week or so:

5) The principles of Sharia are to be accepted by all Muslims as the perfect governmental system.
6) The principles of Sharia are to be accepted by all Muslims as the best governmental system in practice, even if implemented by fallible men, assuming all of it is adhered to and non-Sharia cultural baggage is removed.

7) All Muslims should hope for Sharia across the world.
8.) All Muslims should seek to further the progress of Sharia across the world, rather than passively wait for this promised east-to-west Sharia to occur.
9) All Muslims should actively seek to change the government of any country to a Sharia government, whether now or at some future point.

Are these points correct? Any comments on these various points please?

You are confusing principle and implementation in points 5 and 6. They are not the same thing. There can be various implementations of principles using various means with different degrees of success and failure.

If a place (country/state/other) states that it has "implemented Shariah law" that does not put the laws and the jurispudence above discussion.

You are wrong on 8 and 9.

7 is debateable depending on what you mean. For instance if you replace shariah with "justice", would you then be against it? All things to all people. Specifics matter - names are just names some times.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Tread Softly wrote:
1) Homosexuality is a great sin in Islam.
2) The punishment for homosexuality under a Sharia-principled government is death.
3) Numbers (1) and (2) are accepted as true by all mainstream Muslims.
4) Therefore to be a good Muslim you have to accept and support Numbers (1) and (2).

Is this correct?

what about you? do you agree or not with 1 and 2.

Ayatollah rightly named America as "Great Satan".

malik wrote:
Tread Softly wrote:
1) Homosexuality is a great sin in Islam.
2) The punishment for homosexuality under a Sharia-principled government is death.
3) Numbers (1) and (2) are accepted as true by all mainstream Muslims.
4) Therefore to be a good Muslim you have to accept and support Numbers (1) and (2).

Is this correct?

what about you? do you agree or not with 1 and 2.


I wouldn't imagine Tread Softly assents to a principle of capital punishment for homosexuals and I certainly don't, but I've only piped up to say that really, your bullying question, turning the thing personal, doesn't contribute anything. Tread Softly wants to understand what Islam believes, and has not asked what individual members' tendencies are.
  • It can never be satisfied, the mind, never. -- Wallace Stevens

Malik asked the questions knowing what the answers are. But at the same time, there is a distrinction between thinking homosexual acts are wrong/immoral and demanding capital punishment for them.

From my understanding, Tread Softly does not consider them wrong or immoral in any way either.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Tread Softly you are being dishonest with here.
why dont you tell us about your religion.
i just want to know what religion you follow. if you dont follow any religion, then we dont mind, just say so.

why you hiding?

Ayatollah rightly named America as "Great Satan".

Tread Softly has gone on holiday, Malik, I don't think to hide from you.

  • It can never be satisfied, the mind, never. -- Wallace Stevens

You wrote:
Malik asked the questions knowing what the answers are. But at the same time, there is a distrinction between thinking homosexual acts are wrong/immoral and demanding capital punishment for them.

From my understanding, Tread Softly does not consider them wrong or immoral in any way either.


I suppose the issue of morality in the first instance - which is to say adoption is a different matter - might concern the turning of straights who will then not have a traditional family and have in any case intrinsically ignored a heterosexual ethic. But that is not an issue in a case where two people who have established their preference as being gay establish a companionship together that, for whatever reason or none, makes their lives more bearable. It is not easy to see what harm there is in that choice, and a moral judgement on that choice is likely to - and does - result in persecution and irrational discrimination.

Having said which, society has lost its discretion. People do not responsibly keep their views to themselves, or hold them in abeyance and instead continue to lay down lines and fuel a two-way prejudice.

I do not see adoption as an automatic right for any two people but then, presented with an instance of an apparently happy adopted child, I would not be interested in, or have any reason to feel entitled to know, the sexual habits of the parents.

It is a difficult time for traditionalists who, rightly, are sceptical of much that is presented as progress. And that is because in the last 200 years we have encouraged support for the oppressed, gays most certainly among them. And suddenly beliefs that were the epitome of rectitude are seen as arrogant. That isn't easy on anyone, but it doesn't justify persecution.

I don't have a conclusion on the basis of discrimination in adoption, and perhaps a wiser mind can help to clarify, but I also think society doesn't have a singular opinion (whereas at one time it was: ooh, disgusting! Send him away...). Whatever we do arrive at I hope it isn't simply to revert to persecuting gays. I don't care what consenting gays do in private, I don't care what consenting straights do in private. So long as nobody means or commits a harm we've got to loosen our ownership of society's sexual preferences. Certain public behaviours are causing such great friction and concern for parents who don't want their little boy spending too much time with teacher who should know better, don't see it as persecuting anyone if they hope to see grandchildren in their lifetimes, or don't want their little girl getting pregnant, and don't want their kids to experience traumas they might never share and recover from - we need to have a certain balance of toleration and discretion and allow parents their degree of oversight, and that cannot mean arguing from the position that it is immoral for two men to fall in love.

I like to get to know the people around me, and to like them, and I notice that whereas many gays are equally sociable, the sensitivities put everyone a little on their guard. Same as having huge moral judgements on Muslims, for that matter. No vision of a perfect future depends on sadistic attitudes forcing everyone into line (and if you disagree with that, consider what you would say if, say, Hindus claimed the right to do that to you).

  • It can never be satisfied, the mind, never. -- Wallace Stevens

Tread Softly - atheist?

I'm sure he/she mentioned?

 

Hi Malik, back from holiday now. I'm atheist. An atheist has made a conscious decision that s/he has no belief in god (rather than believing there is no god). That is, atheism is not just another belief.

I study relgion. You may be interested to know that I haven't quite worked out which I find is the most horrible religion, Islam or Catholicism. I just fail to see though how anything good can come from the Koran or Haddith, apart from perhaps some directives to be nice to and honour your parents. I once asked a Muslim forum to show me the beauty in Islam and they could barely manage a dozen sura before exhausting themselves. I see only horrendous ugliness in every aspect of Islam, except for a few Sufi teachings, but I am here to learn and will alter my perspective based on what I learn.

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