My son

Published by YouShutup on 24 September, 2009 - 12:03

Aslm all,

Straight in... My son is not well. Please do Dua for him.

It is not life threatening- Alhumdulillah, never the less I am extremely worried and anxious.

May Allah reward you all,

Submitted by You on 24 September, 2009 - 12:04

May Allah (swt) grant him shifaa and a long healthy and upstanding life.

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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Submitted by Noori (not verified) on 24 September, 2009 - 12:24

^aameen.

Submitted by TPOS on 24 September, 2009 - 15:54

You wrote:
May Allah (swt) grant him shifaa and a long healthy and upstanding life.

Ameen!

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"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi

Submitted by RI_RS on 4 October, 2009 - 12:31

This is too weird :s

the capitalised 'You' in the name, with the same car profile picture o.0

[i'A your son's better btw]

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#Before you look at the thorns of the rose , look at it's beauty. Before you complain about the heat of the sun , enjoy it's light. Before you complain about the blackness of the night, think of it's peace and quiet... #

Submitted by You on 4 October, 2009 - 17:01

He may have thought that I was too shouty when he chose that username.

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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Submitted by RI_RS on 8 October, 2009 - 20:29

You wrote:
He may have thought that I was too shouty when he chose that username.

HE?!

I thought it was blatantly a female o.0

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#Before you look at the thorns of the rose , look at it's beauty. Before you complain about the heat of the sun , enjoy it's light. Before you complain about the blackness of the night, think of it's peace and quiet... #

Submitted by You on 8 October, 2009 - 20:34

hm... no idea. could be. Doubt it though. What made you think that?

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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Submitted by TPOS on 8 October, 2009 - 22:33

I thought he was a guy too...

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"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi

Submitted by Suhail (not verified) on 8 October, 2009 - 23:18

Ameen.

Submitted by YouShutup on 19 October, 2009 - 12:31

I'm male.

My son has been diagnosed with a disability. Alhumdulillah, there is a solution for it, but it isn't ideal.

This really has tested me, but nevertheless my imaan is intact and maybe even stronger. IA.

Maybe, in time, with stem cell research there will be a cure for it.

No disease or ailment without a cure right.

JazakAllah for the duas. Much appreciated.

Submitted by Hajjar on 19 October, 2009 - 23:56

may Allah make things easy for your son, I hope a cure is found soon to make life easier.

i have 2 family members with illnesses that make life difficult for them so i can understand what you're going through to some extent. But it's completely different when you are a parent, a parent would do anything to relieve their child of a burden. Just keep strong Allah answers the prayers of the righteous and the prayers of a parent for his child.

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“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]

Submitted by You on 20 October, 2009 - 00:40

Aameen to the above.

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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Submitted by Imaani on 20 October, 2009 - 21:46

YouShutup wrote:
I'm male.

My son has been diagnosed with a disability. Alhumdulillah, there is a solution for it, but it isn't ideal.

This really has tested me, but nevertheless my imaan is intact and maybe even stronger. IA.

Maybe, in time, with stem cell research there will be a cure for it.

No disease or ailment without a cure right.

JazakAllah for the duas. Much appreciated.


Inshallah everything will work out well for you and all your family. May Allah (swt) bless you all with the very best of health and the strongest of emaans. I don't really know what to say, I have a friend who is currently going through a testing time with her child too. May Allah (swt) make it easy for you.
Submitted by YouShutup on 21 October, 2009 - 12:20

Thanks for the messages.

It is very trying and pushes your imaan very hard but Allah SWT says:

DID PEOPLE THINK THAT THEY WILL BE LEFT FOR SAYING WE BELIEVE WITHOUT BEING TRIED AND TESTED * AND WE HAVE TESTED THOSE BEFORE THEM, SO THAT ALLAH MAY KNOW THOSE WHO ARE TRUTHFUL AND KNOW THE LIARS

So this is what it is.

But its a hard test and it will be a hard test for my child as he grows, but it hurts because without a seconds thought I would take this problem on myself, if it meant my child be spared.

Alhumdulillah, I know other parents with kids in harder situations or some who have lost their children. So I'm pretty lucky!

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