im not sure but most families i kno thats what is usually the scenario where women arent allowed to lead if a male is present but maybe its cultural thing
Mum has always led the dua in my house - even if my uncles/dad/grandad etc is present.
cos - she (IMO) is the most pious one out of them all. She also does the best duas and the rest usually dont want to do it.
It shouldnt be a gender thing though cos dua is different to leading Salah.
A woman cant lead Salah to a group of men.
This isnt the case for dua.
However, if non-mahram are present than thats a different issue altogether cos pardah issues arise.
Submitted by Funzo on 11 October, 2007 - 23:21 #32
the thing is i reckon it matter on situation because you can have a very noble and pious women then you have a man whos a drug dealer allah(swt) forbid in the same home who does the dua?
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Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
No. Nothing like that round where I live. Sounds good though.
you should organise one. we're doing ours tomorrow, gona be ace, got 5 mehndi ladies! gona have naats, food, gona get all dolled up, the lot! ooh im xcited
Submitted by Snoopz on 12 October, 2007 - 01:06 #44
"Noor" wrote:
"Imaani" wrote:
No. Nothing like that round where I live. Sounds good though.
you should organise one. we're doing ours tomorrow, gona be ace, got 5 mehndi ladies! gona have naats, food, gona get all dolled up, the lot! ooh im xcited
5? whos coming..
is bliss doing face painting again !!
—
To be beautiful is to expect nothing in return.
Submitted by Funzo on 12 October, 2007 - 20:31 #45
rent a car?!? im not old enuff
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Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
Submitted by Sirus on 12 October, 2007 - 23:56 #46
gona get dressed up and do nothing for eid except spend tym with teh family....which i did only yesterday....and few days before...and at least once a week
cousin has attempted to spice this eid up with Secret Eiddy (like secrent santa)
pick a name out of a hat, and you have to buy that person a gift....but its a secret who. everyone gets a gift like that, and element of surprise and fun
only thing is....i havnt got the secret person anything for 2mrw :oops:
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Sirus on 13 October, 2007 - 00:03 #47
how was eid muslimbro?
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
tutut, that aint very clever of ya is it? just run to the shops and get some chocolate, you can't go wrong!
anyhoo, chaand raat went really well, raised 300 quid from basic food and mehdi so that was good. gave eid cards and prezzies 2 frends 2day, gona dish them out to the family tomorrow when the gang comes ova.
woo, wid tmz!
Submitted by Sirus on 13 October, 2007 - 00:06 #49
it has to be 10quid in value tho!
and somat inventive, funny, nice not boring like chocs!
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
how about getting some ittar, a tasbeeh or a cd? oh, all islamic shops gona be closed tomorrow. erm, you'll have to go to the nearest shopping centre and find something.
Submitted by MuslimBro on 13 October, 2007 - 00:23 #51
"Sirus" wrote:
how was eid muslimbro?
It was a normal day.
Was supposed to wake up and go to the first eid jammah so I could have time to go to uni but I switched my alarm clock off and went back to bed and only woke up when I heard my mum shouting.
Went to the last eid jammah, didn't meet many friends, cousins. Went to Jummah prayer, treated everyone with mums money and played video games for most of the day, and did some reading. That's about it.
Let me know how your eid goes.... you didn't hire any car did you? I think most mosques where I live received a letter from the (met) police regarding people driving dangerously and speeding on eid.
Submitted by Sirus on 13 October, 2007 - 00:24 #52
gona be hard last minute!
like you said, gud shops will be closed.
ooooooh my mum and dad got a wicked present from my sis and brav in law....
a sword like Hazrat Ali (RA)'s with engraving on it
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
Mum has always led the dua in my house - even if my uncles/dad/grandad etc is present.
cos - she (IMO) is the most pious one out of them all. She also does the best duas and the rest usually dont want to do it.
It shouldnt be a gender thing though cos dua is different to leading Salah.
A woman cant lead Salah to a group of men.
This isnt the case for dua.
However, if non-mahram are present than thats a different issue altogether cos pardah issues arise.
the thing is i reckon it matter on situation because you can have a very noble and pious women then you have a man whos a drug dealer allah(swt) forbid in the same home who does the dua?
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
Eid mubarak esp the Oldhamers that i have offended with my comments. No hard feelings.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
When you celebrating Naz?
what about us bedford people jus becuase its named after a really crap proper small mini van
[img]http://www.bedfordrascal.com/img/homeimage_394.jpg[/img][/img]
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
Lol, hhmm that really is crap. Eid Mubarak anyway.
seing as its a van the size of my lil finger
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
Funzo how you spending Eid?
imaani, you having a chaand raat programme tomorrow or are you attending one?
No. Nothing like that round where I live. Sounds good though.
well probably go to luton with freinds have a good time
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
Have you hired a car?
you should organise one. we're doing ours tomorrow, gona be ace, got 5 mehndi ladies! gona have naats, food, gona get all dolled up, the lot! ooh im xcited
5? whos coming..
is bliss doing face painting again !!
To be beautiful is to expect nothing in return.
rent a car?!? im not old enuff
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
gona get dressed up and do nothing for eid except spend tym with teh family....which i did only yesterday....and few days before...and at least once a week
cousin has attempted to spice this eid up with Secret Eiddy (like secrent santa)
pick a name out of a hat, and you have to buy that person a gift....but its a secret who. everyone gets a gift like that, and element of surprise and fun
only thing is....i havnt got the secret person anything for 2mrw :oops:
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
how was eid muslimbro?
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
tutut, that aint very clever of ya is it? just run to the shops and get some chocolate, you can't go wrong!
anyhoo, chaand raat went really well, raised 300 quid from basic food and mehdi so that was good. gave eid cards and prezzies 2 frends 2day, gona dish them out to the family tomorrow when the gang comes ova.
woo, wid tmz!
it has to be 10quid in value tho!
and somat inventive, funny, nice not boring like chocs!
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
how about getting some ittar, a tasbeeh or a cd? oh, all islamic shops gona be closed tomorrow. erm, you'll have to go to the nearest shopping centre and find something.
It was a normal day.
Was supposed to wake up and go to the first eid jammah so I could have time to go to uni but I switched my alarm clock off and went back to bed and only woke up when I heard my mum shouting.
Went to the last eid jammah, didn't meet many friends, cousins. Went to Jummah prayer, treated everyone with mums money and played video games for most of the day, and did some reading. That's about it.
Let me know how your eid goes.... you didn't hire any car did you? I think most mosques where I live received a letter from the (met) police regarding people driving dangerously and speeding on eid.
gona be hard last minute!
like you said, gud shops will be closed.
ooooooh my mum and dad got a wicked present from my sis and brav in law....
a sword like Hazrat Ali (RA)'s with engraving on it
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
[size=18][color=violet][b]EID MUBARCK EVERYONE!!!!!!!![/b][/color][/size]
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
i got a few Eid texts this year, but i got one which made me EXTRA happy:
"May Allah shine his blessings and shower upon u and ur family his mercy. Eid Mubarak! Happy Eid and love from mum"
(i'm not gonna tell her you should put capital letters when you write 'His' )
Don't just do something! Stand there.
Oh my gosh, subhanallah that is so beautiful!!!! I think I'm gonna cry! Aaww that is just so sweet! Mashallah, lucky you.
PS I've had a really good day today too, alhamdulillah. Nothing amazingly great just nice.
so how was everyones eid? what did ya all get up to? get anything nice?
Salaam
A late Eid Mubarak to everyone!
I hope you all have had a very spiritual and blessed Ramadhaan.
P.S Brother Ya'qub as Imaani has sed that was very sweet and thoughtful of ur mum , May Allah swt open her heart towards Islam.
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
how old do u guys fink i am?
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
bout 15?
"ThiS WoRlD Iz A PrIsOn 4 A BeLiVeR AnD PaRaDiSe 4 A NoN-BeLiVeR.........."
I had 16, ginger, zits and milk bottle glasses, braces, short pants, suspenders and a big cheesy grin!
He who sacrifices his conscience to ambition, burns a picture to obtain the ashes!
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