Hi, Im a new member to this site and glad i found it actually, as it seems perfect for what i was looking for ...

This is a problem i have faced for a good few years now so its nothing new, but even years on i still am not any clearer on what i think/beleive in and i really need to hear some feedback from others to see if its just me who faces this or what ....

I dont want to be blasted by all the fully-practising Muslims if i say something you dont agree with because thats the whole point of this post ... I am confused and am looking for a bit of clarity, so please respect that and dont just tell me im 'wrong' like a few people have done when ive asked for advice elsewhere. because thats just useless to me !