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She is a very pleasing person.
Salaam
There was this group of Sufi’s who never used to raise their hands in supplication…in other words they never asked for anything.
They saw this as showing displeasure at the decree of Allah (swt). Such was the extent that they had submitted to the divine decree.
They were pleased and content in all situations.
Wasalaam
reference pls if available.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
The Mathanawi of Jalaluddin Rumi; Volume 3-4
Owned
thank you.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
I don't think Med was challanging her.
Lol
you remind me of a college mate, he got thrown out of a Sociology class once for shouting "BOOYAH!" when the teacher told him his test result.
Gentleness and kindness were never a part of anything except that it made it beautiful, and harshness was never a part of anything except that it made it ugly.
Through cheating, stealing, and lying, one may get required results but finally one becomes
Salaam
Nothing in life happens without Allah (swt) permission…we can spend our entire life chasing something, but if God has not destined it for us it won’t happen.
However, whilst this should fill a true believers heart with happiness…people with weak Iman (belief) become stressed.
In life, we’re all going to get what’s coming to us….but it’s so hard to keep ones emotions and feelings out of this (esp if you’re a woman).
I’m a very passionate person…whatever I want or strive for in life I REALLY, really want it…and always totally give my all in pursuit of it…and when I don’t get what I want, I have a serious problem with getting over it.
I can’t deal with failure or unfortunate circumstances.
A true believer is the one who is happy and content in ALL situations…
Some Sufi’s never even used to raise their hands in prayer because they were so satisfied with the decree of Allah (swt).
Unfortunately, we have not submitted ourselves to the decree of God as much as we should have.
Wasalaam
I personally can deal with failure, what i mean is that once everything is done, I am ok with it, well I have been in the past not sure how i will deal with it now.
But the thing that does get me is the thought of failure then the actual failing. I seem to stress alot over this for some reason, Maybe this is my way of trying to adapt myself to failure as when i do actual fail, it never seem as bad as i thought it will and it like I am constantly preparing myself for the worse case senario anyway.
But whatever it is, it does show a lack of faith IMO, but saying that when you stress you do seem to find more time for Allah swt as well, so it not all bad i guess.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
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Very true!
Allah (swt) is always found in stressful situations. And sometimes, this is why Allah (swt) places his servents in stressful situations.
The dark paladin quoted this hadith in a another thread.
"If The Lord loves a servant then he sends suffering upon him. For through suffering his rank is increased and he gains closeness to his Lord."
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