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I never took it out on anyone in particular - it was complicated.
point is-ur back
admit it-u cant live without us
how long before u left did u start having withdrawal symptons? :twisted:
lol well after about 3 weeks I started checking to see how people were.
thats either ur view or the view of ur teachers
but who cares-most people here follow the teachers of "ahle biddah" (ur words/teachers words-not mine)
and they dont hold the view that u have to cover ur face
so I doubt most girls here would agree with u
Lets not break out the ahle bidah stuff just yet - he just got back
lol and am I the only person here that doesn't think med is evil?!
yes you do dave
i have now dissasociated myself with the Ahlul Biddah, and my allegiances lie with the Gajar ka Halwa. By us, we prefer to be called Ahlul Halwa
If there is any fault in my Halwa, it is by me and not Jamie Oliver.
I pray we all learn to cook the beloved Halwa in such a manner that pleases our Ustaad's
AMEEEN YA RABBUL ALAMEEEN
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
LOL!!!!!!!!!!
ur the man Hayder
tell it like it is
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
http://www.therevival.co.uk/newsblog/?p=35
so the niqab has been banned at Imperial and Kings College in London... and im not sure how i feel about it...
i dont think Muslims should get all mad and confrontational - obviously ppl have this security concern now, we should be calm and explain... rather than cursing the unis and getting into headlock with them, like ive seen some ppl suggest...
the unis have got a fair point. we're nowhere near france and i think we've had things increasingly tolerant up to now in England. its our turn to give in a little, and seeing as how niqab isnt considered fard by the majority of muslims, i dont see y not. theyv said religious reasons will be considered tho. so its not set in stone, girls can appeal for their individual cases if they feel the need. IMO its nothing to bang our heads over.
and no-one can say i'm anti-niqaab because i'm a part-time niqaabi myself.
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
I dont think sticking up a pic of an xwomen with her face covered constitutes being a "part time niqabi"!
[size=7]joke yeh[/size]
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
I agree. Its not like hijaab has been banned or Muslims are asked to eat pig. Its just the Niqab which sometimes invites trouble.
My sister in law took her one off after she was abused whenever she went out wearing it.
so i signed the petition.
more for the Prayer facillities than for niqab - people seem to have their priorities mixed up, i mean what's more important?! :roll:
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
lol
i stopped going into town for a while after the july bombings, for safety concerns. But since then i've decided i can't let it restrict me. Although i rarely go town, if i need to i go early morning and don't hang around wasting time. So generally i don't get abuse. I may get the odd mumbles or looks but that's inevitable even if you're wearing a headscarf, or traditional ethnic clothing. So what am i gonna do change who i am, what i believe in just coz of the ignorant few. When something bad happens ask of God, and He will deal with the offenders appropriately. I'm not saying curse these ppl, but rather ask of Allah. Allah can give us such comfort, that the next day you'll be thinking so what if i got abused, i'm soo over it.
I wonder if a woman who got abused coz her skirt was too short would start wearing longer ones to avoid abuse...somehow i doubt many would.
not funny. :roll:
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
whats a part time niqabi sis, i musta missed your comment. Do you mean sisters who wear the niqab to lectures, wedding gatherings etc?
yeh i'm a 'part-time niqabi' - as in i wear it when i feel the need, such as when i'm going to mixed gatherings, going out with make-up on, etc.
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
I totally agree with you Aasiyah...but thats only cos I don't consider the Niqab Fard.
However, I think those who do percieve the Niqab as Fard would look at the situation differently.
Yeah because for them its like tellin someone who dont do niqab(those who dont consider it fard) to take off their hijab (if that makes sense :? )
I rate sister's who the niqab! I tried it once it looks cool
Exactly..
Though I don't strongly have an issue with the ban...sometimes it does attract dodgy/abusive attention. :?
But I'm not in a position to talk cos I don't wear one.
ofcourse, but there's always the option to appeal on religious grounds for the girls who consider it fardh.
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
nah but personally i dont think thats a good enuf reason to stop wearing it - if someone is islamophobic enough to abuse a niqabi, there's nothing to stop them abusing a hijabi or jilbabi. we shouldnt live our lives according to what others may think, but by what we see as right.
if i'm destined to get mugged or sworn at, it'll happen regardless of whether i'm wearing hijab or niqab. (which is y i learnt karate!)
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
Lol-I've go out with my Niqaabi friend a lot...I wear the Hijaab and she wears the Niqab.
I'm often ignored whilst she is verbally abused. Even she admits that sometimes its safer not to wear the Niaqab...
I believe that if you are abused a LOT because of it and it bothers you.... and you don't consider it Fard...you might as well take it off.
i've noticed i get ignored a lot, the next sales assistant who blatantly ignores me is gona feel all the wrath, poor gal best take her day off soon. I mean whenever i go shopping with my husband in town, i'm the one purchasing the garment. It's so obvious coz it's a ladies shop, but the sales assistant will blatantly make eye contact with my husband, ask him for the money, when i'm the one with the money? The other day the lady said to my husband would you like a store card, earn points etc etc, she never once looked at me. I turned around and said actually i've already got one of them, don't use it. She said oh really, like gals with niqabs can't get store cards huh!
Wat would my husband want with a store card from a ladies shop! :x
wow thats wierd (that they ignore u and not her) but i guess ppl do see the niqab as more 'threatening' or something.
true, there's nothing stopping us from taking it off if we dont believe it's fardh, but different people wear it for very different reasons... i started wearing niqab for the first time to my co-ed college, i explained my reasons in the sisters forum i think, and they were important enough for me to keep it on regardless of any abuse i got (alhumdulillah i didnt get much).
so it does depend on one's reasoning and conviction.
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LOL. but gosh yeh, that can get SO annoying. :evil:
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
you know karate !! wicked LOL....
is there anything tomboyish u havent done ?
lol youre a really interesting girl
Women who observe hijab are to be congratulated. It is indeed a great virtue for a person born/brought up in the lap of indecency and immodesty to adopt the way of modesty and bashfulness.
Those women who observe the hijab should observe it in all cases.
Going to the city centre, or going to the local shops.
Opening the door or going into the front garden.
Emerging in daytime and in the nightime.
In this country or backhome.
In ALL cases the hijab observing believing lady should be constant and steadfast.
What is th point of having the face closed in the day but leaving it open at night? Or keeping it closed in UK but having it open in Pak/Bangdsh/Saudia etc.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
u wouldnt understand because ur a guy - the reasons behind y women wear the niqab are wide and varied, each is influenced by their personal experiences/environment.
naj, there isnt really anything particularly tomboyish about karate - IMO its more important for girls than it is for guys.
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
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