depends if hes alwayz at it or not....but anyway reminds me of a story,
When Hadhrat Ayoob [i]alahi salam[/i] fell ill his entire body was engulfed with sickness,that everyone stayed away from him, however his wife remained in his service and bore all the difficulties tending to him.
but out of anger Hadhrat Ayoob [i]alahi salam [/i]took an oath that when he recovers he will give her 100 strikes with a stick.when he recovered, he decided to fulfill his oath.Out of his mercy ALLAH ordered him to take a broom which has 100 bristles and to strike her once (in this way he will fulfil his oath)
LESSON: see how patient she was despite her husbands critical condition she remained in his service, and the oath he took due to his temperment she overlooked it due to his illness. On account of her service and patience ALLAH saved her from the hundred strikes, and from this we can see she was very much liked by ALLAH that he lightened the punishment for her.
cant believe how obedient she was and how she endured it all. such people are said to be beloved in the sight of ALLAH
to me best husband gives wife all her rights. some men deny rights to wife. this is not allowed in sharia. even if wife is disobedient still she should not be denied her rights
—
Ayatollah rightly named America as "Great Satan". www.presstv.ir
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
Best husband is one who cater to your every demand.
I'm not sure if a woman can respect such a man.
Probably true.
IMO the main thing is that both are considerate of each other. After all each should make their own decisions in the way they see best...
—
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Omrow on 12 January, 2006 - 02:17 #76
Salam
"Ramz" wrote:
Best husband is one who cater to your every demand. Your pleasure is their pleasure.
Obviously, Ramz has a mouse in mind, rather than a REAL man.
We aren't human credit cards here to buy you more shoes!!!
Then put ur foot down and say No and be a MAN :roll:
She never takes me seriously when I do that - I don't get it... other people do.
Instead i've had to rely on being charming and sneaky with her
Submitted by Angel on 13 January, 2006 - 17:00 #84
If a man can afford what his wife wants then he should buy it and please his wife, also a women should take into consideration the financial state of her household and us girls should rember if we spend excessively then we will be questioned for it, its hard i knw!
Submitted by Medarris on 13 January, 2006 - 17:06 #85
"Andoverpolo" wrote:
Instead i've had to rely on being charming and sneaky with her
in other words you have to act like a woman to get what u want?
No thats just good acting. :twisted:
Back in BLACK
And the bad acting award goes to Seraphim!!
Hip hip hurreh!!
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
I havnt done anything to deserve an award yet...
but when the time comes... be ready
i'll be expecting that award.
Back in BLACK
oh don't you worry you will get that award all right!!
(Laugh) Ha! Ha! Ha! (Sideshow Bob style)
Who is the cat of the Forum? MEZ!
Your damn right!
depends if hes alwayz at it or not....but anyway reminds me of a story,
When Hadhrat Ayoob [i]alahi salam[/i] fell ill his entire body was engulfed with sickness,that everyone stayed away from him, however his wife remained in his service and bore all the difficulties tending to him.
but out of anger Hadhrat Ayoob [i]alahi salam [/i]took an oath that when he recovers he will give her 100 strikes with a stick.when he recovered, he decided to fulfill his oath.Out of his mercy ALLAH ordered him to take a broom which has 100 bristles and to strike her once (in this way he will fulfil his oath)
LESSON: see how patient she was despite her husbands critical condition she remained in his service, and the oath he took due to his temperment she overlooked it due to his illness. On account of her service and patience ALLAH saved her from the hundred strikes, and from this we can see she was very much liked by ALLAH that he lightened the punishment for her.
cant believe how obedient she was and how she endured it all. such people are said to be beloved in the sight of ALLAH
if that was me i dont know what i'd do..
to me best husband gives wife all her rights. some men deny rights to wife. this is not allowed in sharia. even if wife is disobedient still she should not be denied her rights
Ayatollah rightly named America as "Great Satan".
www.presstv.ir
Salam
http://observer.guardian.co.uk/magazine/story/0,11913,1678568,00.html
Mr Karnage ?
Omrow
hmmmm....
This is an avenue worth pursuing....
No man can handle a stroppy Diva
its no wonder she aint found her Mr Right yet
What is "stroppy"
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=stroppy
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
Hmm... that description sounds familiar.
Best husband is one who cater to your every demand. Your pleasure is their pleasure.
I'm not sure if a woman can respect such a man.
Probably true.
IMO the main thing is that both are considerate of each other. After all each should make their own decisions in the way they see best...
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Salam
Obviously, Ramz has a mouse in mind, rather than a REAL man.
Omrow
Not tru-
no woman wants a dog who says "how high" when asked to jump
but no woman also wants a oppressive dictator who dont listen to his wifes reasonable demands-
the answer lies in the middle-
but for most men-thats asking too much :roll:
Salam
Don't push it furbal.
You know, as well as I, that most women don't even know the meaning of the word reasonable.
To them having 18 pair of shoes is very reasonable.
And yet they insists on asking their men why was it is necessary to buy a third tie.
God !!
Omrow
If her man can afford it then asking for another pair of shoes is a reasonable demand.
"reasonable" is debatable
common sense is not
Salam
See that boys. You have just witnessed a classic female tactic there: Defend own behaviour at all costs, no matter what.
I know. I know. We men have bear with it patiently.
Omow
?!!??!?!!!!?!!!?!?!??!?!
We aren't human credit cards here to buy you more shoes!!!
Then put ur foot down and say No and be a MAN :roll:
She never takes me seriously when I do that - I don't get it... other people do.
Instead i've had to rely on being charming and sneaky with her
If a man can afford what his wife wants then he should buy it and please his wife, also a women should take into consideration the financial state of her household and us girls should rember if we spend excessively then we will be questioned for it, its hard i knw!
in other words you have to act like a woman to get what u want?
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
It works.
lol.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
lol right...
And exactly how much experience with women do real men like you have?
lool.
Its all theoretical, but dont worry when I put it into practice you'll be the first to know how well its going!
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
in your case how bad its goin, a woman doesn't liked to be bossed around!
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