Who would make the best Husband?

Seraphim —

Sup

They say you can marry a man for:

a.) his beauty (aka he's a pretty boy)

b.) his wealth

c.) piety

Its recommended you go for (c) but which one, or which other characteristics would you prefer?

PS Cooking isn't a characteristic its a skill.

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Seraphim — Sat, 7 Jan 2006 - 17:45

[quote="Mez"][quote="Seraphim"]
hahaha.... and the best part is .... she'll never know.... hahahahaha

😉 8)[/quote]

I will know if he is in a bad mood by the way he acts or bits your head of!![/quote]

No thats just good acting. :twisted:

Seraphim — Sat, 7 Jan 2006 - 18:01

[quote="Mez"]And the bad acting award goes to Seraphim!!

Hip hip hurreh!! :D[/quote]

I havnt done anything to deserve an award yet...

but when the time comes... be ready

i'll be expecting that award.

Mez — Sat, 7 Jan 2006 - 18:27

[quote="Seraphim"][quote="Mez"]And the bad acting award goes to Seraphim!!

Hip hip hurreh!! :D[/quote]

I havnt done anything to deserve an award yet...

but when the time comes... be ready

i'll be expecting that award.[/quote]

oh don't you worry you will get that award all right!!

(Laugh) Ha! Ha! Ha! (Sideshow Bob style)

star — Sat, 7 Jan 2006 - 19:19

[quote="sham"]if your husband has a tempa would you argue[/quote]

depends if hes alwayz at it or not....but anyway reminds me of a story,

When Hadhrat Ayoob [i]alahi salam[/i] fell ill his entire body was engulfed with sickness,that everyone stayed away from him, however his wife remained in his service and bore all the difficulties tending to him.

but out of anger Hadhrat Ayoob [i]alahi salam [/i]took an oath that when he recovers he will give her 100 strikes with a stick.when he recovered, he decided to fulfill his oath.Out of his mercy ALLAH ordered him to take a broom which has 100 bristles and to strike her once (in this way he will fulfil his oath)

LESSON: see how patient she was despite her husbands critical condition she remained in his service, and the oath he took due to his temperment she overlooked it due to his illness. On account of her service and patience ALLAH saved her from the hundred strikes, and from this we can see she was very much liked by ALLAH that he lightened the punishment for her.

cant believe how obedient she was and how she endured it all. such people are said to be beloved in the sight of ALLAH

if that was me i dont know what i'd do..

malik — Sat, 7 Jan 2006 - 21:10

to me best husband gives wife all her rights. some men deny rights to wife. this is not allowed in sharia. even if wife is disobedient still she should not be denied her rights

You — Thu, 12 Jan 2006 - 00:48

[quote="MuslimSister"][quote="Ramz"]

Best husband is one who cater to your every demand.

[/quote]

I'm not sure if a woman can respect such a man.[/quote]

Probably true.

IMO the main thing is that both are considerate of each other. After all each should make their own decisions in the way they see best...

Omrow — Thu, 12 Jan 2006 - 02:17

Salam

[quote="Ramz"]Best husband is one who cater to your every demand. Your pleasure is their pleasure.[/quote]

Obviously, Ramz has a mouse in mind, rather than a REAL man.

Omrow

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 11:49

[quote="Ramz"]Best husband is one who cater to your every demand. .[/quote]

Not tru-

no woman wants a dog who says "how high" when asked to jump

but no woman also wants a oppressive dictator who dont listen to his wifes reasonable demands-

the answer lies in the middle-

but for most men-thats asking too much :roll:

Omrow — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 11:57

Salam

Don't push it furbal.

You know, as well as I, that most women don't even know the meaning of the word reasonable.

To them having 18 pair of shoes is very reasonable.

And yet they insists on asking their men why was it is necessary to buy a third tie.

God !!

Omrow

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 12:00

[quote="Omrow"]

To them having 18 pair of shoes is very reasonable.

[/quote]

If her man can afford it then asking for another pair of shoes is a reasonable demand.

"reasonable" is debatable

common sense is not

Omrow — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 12:06

Salam

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Omrow"]
To them having 18 pair of shoes is very reasonable[/quote]

If her man can afford it then asking for another pair of shoes is a reasonable demand.

"reasonable" is debatable

common sense is not[/quote]

See that boys. You have just witnessed a classic female tactic there: Defend own behaviour at all costs, no matter what.

I know. I know. We men have bear with it patiently.

Omow

Dave — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 13:28

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Omrow"]

To them having 18 pair of shoes is very reasonable.

[/quote]
[b]
If her man can afford it then [i]asking [/i]for another pair of shoes is a reasonable [u]demand[/u].[/b]

"reasonable" is debatable

common sense is not[/quote]

?!!??!?!!!!?!!!?!?!??!?!

We aren't human credit cards here to buy you more shoes!!!

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 15:41

[quote="Andoverpolo"]

?!!??!?!!!!?!!!?!?!??!?!

We aren't human credit cards here to buy you more shoes!!![/quote]

Then put ur foot down and say No and be a MAN :roll:

Dave — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 16:32

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Andoverpolo"]

?!!??!?!!!!?!!!?!?!??!?!

We aren't human credit cards here to buy you more shoes!!![/quote]

Then put ur foot down and say No and be a MAN :roll:[/quote]

She never takes me seriously when I do that - I don't get it... other people do.

Instead i've had to rely on being charming and sneaky with her

Angel — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 17:00

If a man can afford what his wife wants then he should buy it and please his wife, also a women should take into consideration the financial state of her household and us girls should rember if we spend excessively then we will be questioned for it, its hard i knw!

Medarris — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 17:06

[quote="Andoverpolo"]
Instead i've had to rely on being charming and sneaky with her[/quote]

in other words you have to act like a woman to get what u want?

Dave — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 17:14

[quote="Med"][quote="Andoverpolo"]
Instead i've had to rely on being charming and sneaky with her[/quote]

in other words you have to act like a woman to get what u want?[/quote]

It works.

Dave — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 17:20

[quote="Med"]lol.

Real men, like me, dont need to go around decieving and tricking my woman.

Enough for her is I tell her to do something or I tell her no and she listens. Cos even she knows and says that Im the MAN.[/quote]

lol right...

And exactly how much experience with women do real men like you have?

Angel — Fri, 13 Jan 2006 - 17:26

[quote="Med"]lool.

Its all theoretical, but dont worry when I put it into practice you'll be the first to know how well its going![/quote]

in your case how bad its goin, a woman doesn't liked to be bossed around!