"Paul, you know we've not been out for a department piss-up since Terry left two months ago"
"OMG Steve, you're right. Has it been two months already?"
"Sure has, we should organise another one soon. I suggest going to the Airport Hotel. They have a really good Beer Garden there" Steve suggested.
"Lets make that in the afternoon" Andy couldn't contain the excitement at the prospect of another department piss-up "then we could go a pub crawl round the city after dark and be a little worse for wear all weekend."
"I guess we should invite HR and Sales as well?" Steve didn't really like big groups. When theres big groups, no one gets a round in and you end up drinking less.
"Remeber how they spoiled it last time, let's leave them out of it. We should go alone, keep it simple. Plus, if it's just us we can drink more and don't need to worry about everyone in the whole office knowing what we've beed getting up to" As the manager of the department people usually took Pauls decision as final.
"Good idea" said Andy. "You coming too Amy?"
"Hell yeah!" Said Amy almost as excited as Andy. "I am out with my boyfriend tomorrow, but who cares. If I'm hungover he can go out with his mates"
"What about you Jo?" Andy had taken charge of rounding everyone up. "You coming this time?"
"Nah - I think i'll give it a miss. Me and Tahir don't really like drinking as much as you lot do"
"I don't drink. Full stop. I just don't see the fun in going out with £100 and coming home with nothing not knowing where you spent it, having forgotten most of the night AND have a bad headache the next day."
"Oh come on Tahir," Steve chimed in "I drink more than all these and can handle it better than they do too. I NEVER have a headache. It's all about practice. In fact, I think I'll probably have a headache if DON'T drink"
"Yeah, be that as it may, I’d still rather respectfully decline your invitation. If we were going out for a meal and a chat, a 'quiet evening' some might say, I'd be up for that. But this 'drink till you're in the gutter' thing is not really my idea of a good evening out"
"Tahir, I'm going to ask you two questions. You don't have to answer them. Just something for you ponder"
"OK - fire away"
"Question 1 - If you KNEW you were going to die tomorrow would your outlook on today be any different? and Question 2 - Are you sure that you ARE going to be alive tomorrow?"
"Yeah!! Good one Steve." looks like Andy's woken up from his daydream of drinking "if I knew for sure I'm dying tomorrow I'd drink till tomorrow. Ha Ha Ha..."
I did give his questions some thought. Some serious thought. For the whole afternoon as a matter of fact.
I thought, what happens after death? You have a funeral, get put into the ground and life above ground goes on as if you had never existed. Then I thought 'is that all?'
Nah - it's not all. While the living carry on living, you are being judged by your creator on HOW you lived while you were there with them, while you were 'one of them'.
If I was CERTAIN that I'm going to die tomorrow what would I do different? I'd probably go home, get cleaned up read namaz, read Quran, read nafl, read more namaz, read more Quran. Praise the lord, the creator, the one who has given me health, wealth and all the rest. And I'll carry on doing this until the angel of death finally came to taky my soul out of my body. And even then I'll try to get out a few more words of ibadah.
Then I suddenly remembered his second question. "Are you sure that you ARE going to be alive tomorrow?"
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There were a few students who were talking about their nights out and apparently they spend like £140 on drinks. They said they buy expensive ones so perhaps it's not that expensive for everyone but I was still shocked though! What a total waste of money, you're just going to be liking it out!! :/
It seems like your colleagues were suggesting you should live a little by mentioning what you'd if you knew when you were going to die. It's sad that people place such importance to drinking and think it's so fun. We finish school soon and my friend said her other friends are going to go drunk but she doesn't want to do that so she's coming out with us instead iA
Yep, I'd be on the prayer mat for most of the time, if I knew when I was going to die, and depending on how much time I have left, ensuring I carry out all my other duties (e.g towards family, friends) properly too and just do everything to correctly to my best ability.
May Allah help us live like every day is our last!
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
Good one, 'Tahir' for sticking to what you believe in and not falling for any of these 'common' activities! Theres definitely more to life, than simply 'drinking'. If only more people understood that. Even when they know all the health risks, they seem to ignore it, then what was the point of researches trying to investigate the effect of alcohol? It only backs up the Islamic case that alcohol is forbidden.
Have any of you, actually, like physically, felt like you'd die any second? (Trust me, scary feeling. Don't want to go through that again!) Like TPOS mentioned, I really should treat each day like my last. If only i took that more seriously and realised it could happen to anyone. We don't have the choice of saying 'Wait, i need hours to prepare to say my good-byes, ask for forgiveness, do more Ibaadah and fit in as many good deeds as I can'. It would just happen, within seconds!
Yes. It was honestly scary. The weeks and month that followed, I actually cried when I'd think about it. Really makes you re-evaluate your priorities.
Its wierd how i did pretty much the same. It really makes you think about what your actually doing in life, what your gaining from it, and what you 'should' be doing.
Do you think life can be summarised as an 'eschatological preparation'?
A what?
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
Its like, everything you do in your life is based around being judged on Qiyaamah and preparing for that. Your body/soul is resurrected and if you've done good in life, you gain reward, so for Muslims, its Jannah, and if you haven't acted accorded to the correct teachings, then you'll be punished in Jahannam. (Thats as simple as it gets).
yes. im glad i read this post. after you read this stuff it sombers you down. like...i wouldn go watch a movie after reading this. imagine dying in such a position...
but...could you maybe change the title? its a bit awkward to have such a title appearing in your history...
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
JAzakAllahukhairan.
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?