An Afghan woman jailed for adultery after being raped has told the BBC she is willing to wed her attacker if he finds a wife for one of her brothers.
The relative who raped her is still in prison
While Gulnaz does not necessarily want to marry the man who raped her, our correspondent says, it may be the only way to stop the families becoming enemies.
She said that she would do so for the good of her family's name.
If he can't find a wife for my brothers, I'm not crazy about marrying him.
Gulnaz said that the rapist - who is her cousin's husband - would also have to pay her brothers 1m Afghanis ($20,700/£13,300).
So it's OK to rape her as long as you pay her brothers for it?
Wow Islam is a great religion
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Tell me where Islam allows that.
Provide me any Islamic source that allows it.
This is cultural backwardness and not Islam (where the testimony of the rape victim alone cna be enough to convict the rapist).
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Why have you put 'Islamic law' in the title. It is not Islamic law, it is Afghnanistan's law.
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
I should add that my first reaction to this news was of anger and disgust
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
Wait a women needs 4 Shahadati [witnesses] to prove her rape if she can't produce the witnesses then the guy is conceded innocent, how can she produce 4 witnesses?
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We all share your sentiments
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No she doesnt.
4 witnesses are required to prove an extra marital affair.
That does not apply to rape and in early Muslim history people were at times punished on the simple word of the woman.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
read this
Surat An-Noor
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Four witnesses are required of good character for conviction, now how will you get 4 witnesses?
and they have to be male, why not female witnesses?
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coz females more emotional blah blah. but i dont know if it had to be male.
yes. the conditions are harsh so that the punishment is not easily applied and the couple can repent and the sin stays hidden.
the four witnesses have to witness the actual act so its highly unlikely. and if the couple want to turnthemselves in the judge is supose to turn away 3 times. just like the prophet (pbuh) did. and if the person comes back THEN we stone them.
and i read somewhere that if the person decides to run away during the stoning then we let them.
the stoning is a way of repenting for this sin in this life rather than in the hereafter. and inshaaAllah after being stoned the person is forgiven for that sin.
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
So it's commit the sin on purpose just because you fill like it and then repent?
That's the whole point this is a floored system that could never work in the favour of women
Why would you commit the same sin 3 times?
Oh I get it so you commit the crime and then you run away
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After being stoned the person is forgiven for that sin, Are you joking man the person is most likely dead
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huhh? why?
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
because stoning is a way for them to get forgiven and if their faith aint high enough for them to take it - aka they run - then who are we to force someone to repent?
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
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wouaw..talk about every single expressions about someone someone understanding something wrong (Sorry its late..but daaayyyymm..i couldnt even begin to chose one of them expressions for the above!)
anyway
if you wanted to have sex you'll just do it without repenting. the repenting bit is if you fear Allah and are truly sorry. conditions of repentance is sincerity. that means MEANING being sorry.
It's FLAWED system. and what are you talking about not working for women? its not about commiting the sin three times. the hadith goes. she commited zina and got pregnant. she came to prophet (pbuh) all repentful and wanted the punishment to be applied. he (pbuh) sent her away until she gave birth. then she came back and he sent her away to breastfeed the baby for 2 years. then she came back again. (not because she felt like it but because she was truly sorry and wanted forgiveness) so now the prophet (pbuh) had no excuse to send her away so he had to get her stoned. and someone made a remark about her while they were stoning her and he silenced them. i'll try and find the hadith.
dead but inshaaAllah forgiven for that sin.
the run away bit is coz your faith isnt high enough. Im not an expert on this okay! so do some research or something!
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
Stoning was not the general case and it was something that was eliminated more or less too.
In the hadith on stoning you mentioned before, not only is it clear that the prophet did not want the person to confess, but when he was told that the person had changed his mind, the prophet said his punishment should not have been carried out.
(and AFAIK there is no ahadith where a MUSLIM was punished for adultery in such a way - the Jews and teh christians had their own law they were held to and cases where the eprson may have been Muslim are also suspected by some to be cases of rape and not adultery).
the witness rulings where more women are required than men is a specific requirement for ONLY financial transactions (and maybe even limited to communities where women are not involved in business) and not a general ruling to be applies elsewhere.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
i dont know if the info in the note is trustworthy. which i should check. but gotta be up at dawn tomorrow so i'm off.
read full article - capital punishment in Islam - here
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
What if you meant it then and you forgot about that instance and it's feeling
Am I missing something here?
so lets say a men has forced a women to have sex with him ie rape and he claims it as adultery then what? in that case how can the women find four eye witnesses? and would anyone want to be an eye witness for a women? the person might get threats and what not
Why should you worry about breast feeding a harm B child born out of wedlock that child should be aborted as it was born out of wed lock
No point
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no point? this is a matter of spending the rest of your life in hell or not.
and if he claims its adultery when it was rape then he's going to die too. and the witnesses are to witness that it WAS adultery. not that is wasnt....
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
It'll be ok because I'll have your company
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Don't you think that it's too late by then?
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to both: WHAT?
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
What if that person was destined for hell anyway because of his other sins so the rape is just cherry on top of the cake in a wider sense
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I meant it's to late he has committed the sin and the women has suffered in this life it would have only been comforting for the women if she saw him being punished there and then in this life, how long after the rape would she be faced with after life? she might have been died for so long that she’s forgotten about the rape?
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lollywood im not pronouncing or assumin anything aboutyour faith but are your muslim simple question no intention to offend. why do ask?, because i am totallly offended and disgusted by ur comments if you are, more so than the article. yes islam is a great religion the greatest religion on this earth and no other comes above it. the fact is this is a cultural issue so take your gripe to the afghan men who create these absurd laws!
“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]
also u have mentioned many insanely. correct statements in this thread. u are mixjng adultery laws with rape. u are saying Allahs laws are unfair and favoured towards men. the most erronous thing u said was why did the propht saw send the woman who got pregnant from adulterous affair breastfeed, according to ur laws the bab should have been killed because it was out of wedlock? who are you to decide? the baby is innocent in all of this only under rape and other dire circumstances can a bab be aborted. just coz the baby is out of wedlock it doesnt make that baby tainted. also our prophet saw was correct he only follows allahs laws, the child has a right to the breastmilk.
“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]
funny thing i heard this headline on bbc radio and they said it was according to pashtun laws, yet here u are doing a trash tabloid spin on it islamic law? loool
“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]
Simple answer yes
There are other faiths in Pakistan but they are not treated well just look at the case of
Asia Noreen (Urdu: آسیہ نو رین,[1] better known as Asia Bibi,born c. 1971)[1] is a Pakistani Christian woman who was convicted of blasphemy by a Pakistani court receiving a sentence of death by hanging. The verdict, which would need to be upheld by a superior court, has received worldwide attention. If executed, Noreen would be the first woman in Pakistan to be lawfully killed for blasphemy.
Christian minister Shahbaz Bhatti and Pakistani government politician Salmaan Taseer were both killed for opposing the blasphemy laws
In June 2009, Asia Noreen, a farm hand from the village of Ittan Wali in Sheikhupura District was asked to fetch water; she complied, but some of her Muslim fellow workers refused to drink the water as they considered Christians to be "unclean
I'm not highlighting this case because of her faith I'm highlighting this because they considered Christians to be "unclean which is unfair, if a Christian said that about a Muslim it would also be unfair just the same so please don't think that I'm a Pakistani Christian because I'm not
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ok if u say u are muslim i believe u. and i agree christians nor anyone should be badly treated in islamic countries, but this isnt islamic laws unfortunately its corruption by man. but in ur zeal to defend the rights of others don't commit sin urself. dont attribute things to islam snd Allah which are simply are not true, the media do this all the time and it angers us. we dont expect muslims to cast stones in the same direction
“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]
Men can marry women of the book women can't marry men of the book
Men can have multiple wives women cant have multiple husbands
The Quran says that women are inferior to men
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Then why are we not allowed to have children out of wedlock if you think it's OK? why is it frowned upon in our society?
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its sinful because our relationships should be conducted within a marriage not outside. but any child born out of wedlock is not a sinner, the people who had the relationship out of wedlock are the sinners, the child is innocent.
society frowns upon it due to cultural reasons, and if u notice its more frowned upon in non western cultures now ie asian cultures
“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]
But the child it's self was born out of a sinful act, in other words it’s a living sin according to Asian cultures so how could it be innocent in that sense?
It's due to cultural reasons as well as religious
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"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
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