Too much Respect?

rulings on standing, bowing, kneeling to other people, kissing and touching their feet?

when is it permissible, when is it not?

difference of opinion?

back up every points please (with links/ahadith etc...)

People can unknowingly worship other people, yes we should have respect (or admiration) but it shouldn't go as far as making more effort pleasing that person than pleasing Allah (swt).

In my humble opinion, we shouldn't be bowing down except when in prayer.

Kissing feet? I could be wrong but i'm pretty sure the Prophet (p.b.u.h) didn't ask for his feet to be kissed and apart from Allah (swt) no one ranks higher than him so why would we kiss the feet of 'normal' people? Although i do understand that it is in some cultures to do this but i personally wouldn't.

Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah

Narrated by Anas(Radhiallaho anho):
Allah's Messenger (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) said, "Allah will
say to that person of the (Hell) Fire who will receive the least
punishment, 'If you had everything on the earth, would you give it as
a ransom to free yourself (i.e. save yourself from this Fire)?' He
will say, 'Yes.' Then Allah will say, 'While you were in the backbone
of Adam, I asked you much less than this, i.e. not to worship others
besides Me, but you insisted on worshipping others besides me.' "

Sahih Al-Bukhari Vol. 4 : No. 551

Jihad of the Nafs (The Struggle of the Soul)

The hadiths in which the Companions (ra) kissed the foot or feet of the Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, are known. Imam Muslim asked for permission to kiss the foot of Imam al-Bukhari.

However, there are more details re this.

MuslimBro wrote:
The hadiths in which the Companions (ra) kissed the foot or feet of the Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, are known. Imam Muslim asked for permission to kiss the foot of Imam al-Bukhari.

However, there are more details re this.

What i mean is he didn't ask for his feet to be kissed, he didn't expect it - whereas now people expect it to happen.

Jihad of the Nafs (The Struggle of the Soul)

So if someone doesn't expect it, that's fine?

MuslimBro wrote:
The hadiths in which the Companions (ra) kissed the foot or feet of the Prophet, upon him blessings and peace, are known.
copy/paste min fadlik?

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

Lilly wrote:
min fadlik?

what does that mean?

 

MuslimBro wrote:
So if someone doesn't expect it, that's fine?

Well personally i only kiss my nephew's feet (just because he's adorable and his feet are soft and tiny and lovely).

Kissing the person's hands or cheeks to show respect would be better than kissing the person's feet.

*Just my opinion with no Hadith back up*

Jihad of the Nafs (The Struggle of the Soul)

Lilly wrote:
please.

I didn't know that, and had to look it up in the dictionary :oops:

As long as you acknowledge the ahadith of kissing the feet, that's fine. will go to great lengths to hide ahadith's about kissing the feet. Video starts properly from 1:23

MuslimBro wrote:
Lilly wrote:
please.

I didn't know that, and had to look it up in the dictionary :oops:

min = from
fadli = kindness or something, its too early for me to think
ka= your

literal meaning: from your kindness/generosity. aka please.

which reminds me of your question i never answered, i have a french/arabic dico but dont often use it, cnt remember what it is called. will let you know when i look it up. i usually just google it or something..

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

You don't need to break it down, I know what you meant.

I have come across the word fadlun before, but it was translated as bounty, fudool (pl.)

i like breaking it odwn, reminds me of my days of i'raab
were you at East London Mosque/center today?
if yes, is it always THAT busy?

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

I wasn't at ELM today, but yes it can get really busy some days.