Appropriate amount of hours spent on the Net

1. How many of you waste your hours on the net when you could be doing something useful elsewhere?

2. At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away on the internet?

s.b.f wrote:
1. How many of you waste your hours on the net when you could be doing something useful elsewhere?

*hands up*
s.b.f wrote:

2. At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away on the internet?
none

"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE wrote:

s.b.f wrote:

2. At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away on the internet?
none

No, why?

Would you want your kid, teenager, spending most of their hours of time in the day on the internet?

 

erm i wouldn't thats why i said no :S

wait was ur question,
At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away from the internet?

or

At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away on the internet?

"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi

ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE wrote:
erm i wouldn't thats why i said no :S

wait was ur question,
At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away from the internet?

or

At what age, is it acceptable to spend hours away on the internet?

latter

 

1. i do, trying to reduce these days, but time FLIES at supersonic speed when you're staring at a screen

2. teenagehood. because thats when you actually WASTE WASTE time. (as you dont play games anymore) or you could get in trouble (chats etc..) raising awareness of timewasting in Islam should be key. Self control and/or block websites/not allowed on certain website/give time limit.

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

s.b.f wrote:
1. How many of you waste your hours on the net when you could be doing something useful elsewhere?

Me. I watch quite a few programmes online, although I rarely watch TV.

But days when I'm not online, I get alot done I've noticed. When doing coursework, atleast a good few hours I spend on YouTube or watching some programme.

If you are using the internet to avoid other stuff that is not the fault of the internet! As for whether it is useful at all that depends what you're doing. I find the internet a brilliant resource and could spend all week online without wasting any time. But I have wasted a lot of time online as well so, we should just individually look at whether we are properly using resources to accomplish what was intended or promised, or whether we use them for play and avoidance.

  • It can never be satisfied, the mind, never. -- Wallace Stevens

Joie de Vivre wrote:
If you are using the internet to avoid other stuff that is not the fault of the internet!

Who was blaming the internet?

Joie de Vivre wrote:

As for whether it is useful at all that depends what you're doing. I find the internet a brilliant resource and could spend all week online without wasting any time.

Unfortunately not all of us are as efficient with timing.

Joie de Vivre wrote:

But I have wasted a lot of time online as well so, we should just individually look at whether we are properly using resources to accomplish what was intended or promised, or whether we use them for play and avoidance.

Yep.

 

s.b.f wrote:
Joie de Vivre wrote:
If you are using the internet to avoid other stuff that is not the fault of the internet!

Who was blaming the internet?


I think it is implied by the observation that staying away from the internet helps get things done. That is obvious if you have things to do. Someone who spends all day marvelling at products in the supermarket but doesn't actually need anything has wasted a lot of time, whereas the other customers haven't. I thought that was a useful distinction to raise in the context of the question and one or two of the answers. :?
  • It can never be satisfied, the mind, never. -- Wallace Stevens

Can I - just in case people haven't noticed - that mention that I am ignoring this topic?

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Joie de Vivre wrote:
s.b.f wrote:
Joie de Vivre wrote:
If you are using the internet to avoid other stuff that is not the fault of the internet!

Who was blaming the internet?


I think it is implied by the observation that staying away from the internet helps get things done.

If you think so.

I get most my work done on the computer by using chats and stuff because my mind wanders a lot.

I was leading more in the direction of younger kids using the net too much when they should be doing other things. Don't ask me what other things mean.

 

s.b.f wrote:
I was leading more in the direction of younger kids using the net too much when they should be doing other things. Don't ask me what other things mean.

Oh, good - younger kids.. a straight ban til a reasonable age?

For one thing, homework that requires internet and research should be banned.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

You wrote:
s.b.f wrote:
I was leading more in the direction of younger kids using the net too much when they should be doing other things. Don't ask me what other things mean.

Oh, good - younger kids..

?

Don't think I'm letting you off here Blum 3

You wrote:

a straight ban til a reasonable age?

No.

Just be wise with the time you spend on the net. Don't waste time.

 

You wrote:

For one thing, homework that requires internet and research should be banned.

Why?

 

s.b.f wrote:
You wrote:

For one thing, homework that requires internet and research should be banned.

Why?

Homework should be based on books and what has been taught in school.

(and because I have at times been asked to help)

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

You wrote:
s.b.f wrote:
You wrote:

For one thing, homework that requires internet and research should be banned.

Why?

(and because I have at times been asked to help)

So don't help if it gets to you.

 

Ocean wrote:
What's wrong with internet? I don't get it. You just have to learn to become wise as to how you want to use your time.

As for homework or kids, you should have your computer where an adult can walk past and see if it is being used for what he/she asked for.

Ocean, what on earth does your signature mean?

 

Ocean wrote:
you should have your computer where an adult can walk past and see if it is being used for what he/she asked for.

wouah! if we did i would never have discovered Revival. or being on it so often. my mum always wonders what i type away like this, and why i've always got that weird smile on my face...

@YOU:STRAIGHT BAN? You are one mean, evil person!

edit: I agree with the online homework. you cant burn them and dance around them

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

Ocean wrote:

I don't know... it's just there because I want to make it famous! It's awesome right?

Once I figure out what it means, its awesomeness increases!

 

You wrote:

(and because I have at times been asked to help)

sorry.

"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi

I also know of a kid 8/9 who has g=his own email address/facebook account.

He finds/found it funny to send people emails with "YOU'RE GONNA DIE" or "I WILL KILL YOU" written in large letters.

As long as its just to people who know him... and you never know, he may be being supervised etc. I do doubt its safe for young kids to be online alone.

I didn't really use the internet til my 20's I think.

Then again, I also only recently started eating chicken and chips. I probably had it a handful of times before then.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Just to add to that, one of the big wigs thinks that soon when people reach maturity, they will need to start changing their names in order to escape their online histories where they may have done stupid things as kids.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

You wrote:
I didn't really use the internet til my 20's I think.

That's understandable, in your days dial-up probably just came out Blum 3

MuslimBro wrote:
That's understandable, in your days dial-up probably just came out Blum 3

i was thinking along those lines too...but what to think of the fish and chips? Shok

Yes, changing name...how much does it cost?

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

Lilly wrote:
...but what to think of the fish and chips? Shok

Chicken and chips.

Lilly wrote:
Yes, changing name...how much does it cost?

No idea.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

Lilly wrote:
Yes, changing name...how much does it cost?

I changed mine.

If you write out the deed yourself then the solicitor can't really charge you for that. If you don't then expect a hefty fee.

They'll just charge for proof-reading it and giving their signature at the bottom of the deed.

Can't remember how much though as I changed mine ages ago.

Thats pretty cool. Did you change your name for the reason we're talking about?

Chiken and Chips, apologies. ohh..Havent had it in ages..actually i dont really like it if i buy it outside...sometimes the chicken isnt cook properly

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

Lilly wrote:
Did you change your name for the reason we're talking about?

No. It was actually parents who wanted to change it.

alright.

MY friend wants to change her name to Elliot.

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

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