Submitted by Angel on 24 January, 2008 - 00:17 #92
"Noor" wrote:
mine don't have a clue, never said it to them and probabaly never will! (well not just yet )
the way i see it is, you're gona get married to the person and not your parents. so i dont see why they but in. a lot of muslims are racists. bring the deen into it and they cant win.
Most parents want whats best for their children, if you parents know you well enough then they can suggest a good future partner.
It's shame, Allah (swt) didnt place these restrictions but muslims do :evil:
Submitted by MuslimBro on 24 January, 2008 - 00:20 #93
My parents are cultural so it goes something like this.
Muslim -> Sunni -> Hanafi -> Bengladeshi -> Sylheti (part of Bangladesh)
I bet they made the list even before I was born and the flowchart must go on and on. But anyway yeah when you bring religion in they can't argue with that.
Submitted by Bliss on 24 January, 2008 - 01:06 #97
"MuslimBro" wrote:
Not to worry.
Parents will be in for a big surprise.
If u did ever get hitch to someone other then a Bengali do u think your parents would disown u, or are they not that extreme ?
—
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
Submitted by Snoopz on 24 January, 2008 - 01:09 #98
"Noor" wrote:
mine don't have a clue, never said it to them and probabaly never will! (well not just yet )
the way i see it is, you're gona get married to the person and not your parents. so i dont see why they but in. a lot of muslims are racists. bring the deen into it and they cant win.
i can have a word with your popz noory
—
To be beautiful is to expect nothing in return.
Submitted by MuslimBro on 24 January, 2008 - 01:18 #99
"Bliss" wrote:
If u did ever get hitch to someone other then a Bengali do u think your parents would disown u, or are they not that extreme ?
Naahhhh, they wouldn't do that... or would they. Hmmm....
I don't think they would. They would miss me too much :oops:
Submitted by Bliss on 24 January, 2008 - 01:21 #100
You don't have to answer , just out of curiosity here are u actually thinking of getting married to a arab girl? I would say go for it.
—
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
Submitted by star on 24 January, 2008 - 01:42 #101
"Noor" wrote:
has anyone every come across a deo and brolly couple?
yeah, my hubbys a brelvi ....
Submitted by MuslimBro on 24 January, 2008 - 01:46 #102
Tell us more.
Do you argue... if so what about. If not, why not
That's if you want to.
Submitted by star on 24 January, 2008 - 01:53 #103
Naa, we dont argue over the deo brelwi issues,
why? cos he hasnt got his visa yet :twisted: really cos nothings ever come up yet.
Submitted by Bliss on 24 January, 2008 - 01:53 #104
"Bliss" wrote:
You don't have to answer , just out of curiosity here are u actually thinking of getting married to a arab girl? I would say go for it.
I take it your not going to tell
—
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
Submitted by MuslimBro on 24 January, 2008 - 01:56 #105
Oh sorry, I didn't know you required an immediate answer
Well, I like dreaming....
Submitted by Bliss on 24 January, 2008 - 01:59 #106
"MuslimBro" wrote:
Oh sorry, I didn't know you required an immediate answer
Well, I like dreaming....
lol sorry i can get a little nosey :oops:
—
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
Submitted by Sirus on 24 January, 2008 - 11:55 #107
wedding planning is a nightmare
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Sirus on 24 January, 2008 - 12:02 #108
"An email i got" wrote:
Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?
It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!
It's funny when people discuss Love Marriage vs Arranged.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or being murdered
It is difficult to understand GOD. He makes such beautiful things as women
and then he turns them into Wives
If you are married please ignore this message,
If not married : Happy Independence Day
There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic
banking. It's called marriage
Fact of life: One woman brings you into this world crying & the other
ensures you continue to do so for the rest of your life!
Q: Why doesn't law permit a man to marry a second woman?
A: Because as per law you cannot be punished twice for the same offence!
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Courage on 24 January, 2008 - 14:18 #109
"Courage" wrote:
It's gonna be difficult to find someone compatible to me from "back home" because my values are fairly different.
another point i agree on. The ppl in Pakistan have a completely different upbringing to us. Personally i think its easier for a guy to marry a women from back home and be compatiable then for a women.[/quote]
Naz, why do I get the impression that you STILL think I'm a girl?
You know, actually I wouldn't mind marrying a girl who's slighlty older than me.
—
Chin up, mate! Life's too short.
Submitted by Funzo on 24 January, 2008 - 18:06 #110
Of course your going to agree with yourself.
—
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
Its just some of the stuff you come out with it just sounds a bit girly.
good to see you writing in full sentences makes it easier to read. Just need to work on your spelling and then it will be perfect
—
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
Submitted by Courage on 28 January, 2008 - 11:12 #118
"Naz" wrote:
"M4k4v3l1" wrote:
shez easily confused with different genderz. ini naz?
Till this day i still think you type like a girl. There aint nothing remotely manly about your typing.
As for courage i think i might have assumed that he was a girl coz of the fruity tunes he listens to lol.
Thank you, Naz, but those "fruity tunes" are ones that I personally learn from, you know they have a meaning. Well, I said that I'm a 16 year od GUY, when you said in another thread that we need more sisters in the legal profession. Not that I disagree.
Well, anyway, let's move on.
shez easily confused with different genderz. ini naz?
Till this day i still think you type like a girl. There aint nothing remotely manly about your typing.
As for courage i think i might have assumed that he was a girl coz of the fruity tunes he listens to lol.
Thank you, Naz, but those "fruity tunes" are ones that I personally learn from, you know they have a meaning. Well, I said that I'm a 16 year od GUY, when you said in another thread that we need more sisters in the legal profession. Not that I disagree.
Well, anyway, let's move on.
sorry i didnt mean to offend you. Your right i remember now i just assumed coz you didnt correct me.
Admin can we get smilies like these to avoid confusion. I saw them on another forum. Pretty cool dont you think.
want / have. different meanings Angel :roll:
Most parents want whats best for their children, if you parents know you well enough then they can suggest a good future partner.
It's shame, Allah (swt) didnt place these restrictions but muslims do :evil:
My parents are cultural so it goes something like this.
Muslim -> Sunni -> Hanafi -> Bengladeshi -> Sylheti (part of Bangladesh)
I bet they made the list even before I was born and the flowchart must go on and on. But anyway yeah when you bring religion in they can't argue with that.
aye big shame. it wont be like that with the next generation of mozlems
Not to worry.
Parents will be in for a big surprise.
too right
If u did ever get hitch to someone other then a Bengali do u think your parents would disown u, or are they not that extreme ?
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
i can have a word with your popz noory
To be beautiful is to expect nothing in return.
Naahhhh, they wouldn't do that... or would they. Hmmm....
I don't think they would. They would miss me too much :oops:
You don't have to answer , just out of curiosity here are u actually thinking of getting married to a arab girl? I would say go for it.
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
yeah, my hubbys a brelvi ....
Tell us more.
Do you argue... if so what about. If not, why not
That's if you want to.
Naa, we dont argue over the deo brelwi issues,
why? cos he hasnt got his visa yet :twisted: really cos nothings ever come up yet.
I take it your not going to tell
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
Oh sorry, I didn't know you required an immediate answer
Well, I like dreaming....
lol sorry i can get a little nosey :oops:
A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil
wedding planning is a nightmare
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
another point i agree on. The ppl in Pakistan have a completely different upbringing to us. Personally i think its easier for a guy to marry a women from back home and be compatiable then for a women.[/quote]
Naz, why do I get the impression that you STILL think I'm a girl?
You know, actually I wouldn't mind marrying a girl who's slighlty older than me.
Chin up, mate! Life's too short.
Of course your going to agree with yourself.
Those who danced were thought to be quite insane, by those who couldn't hear the music...
lolzz
"ThiS WoRlD Iz A PrIsOn 4 A BeLiVeR AnD PaRaDiSe 4 A NoN-BeLiVeR.........."
your not oooops :oops:
im sure you said you were a girl (not that it makes a difference to me, you could be an alien for all i care).
Plus i agreed with your point not coz i thought you were a girl but coz i genuinely did agree with it.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
shez easily confused with different genderz. ini naz?
"ThiS WoRlD Iz A PrIsOn 4 A BeLiVeR AnD PaRaDiSe 4 A NoN-BeLiVeR.........."
Is that a hint :twisted:
Till this day i still think you type like a girl. There aint nothing remotely manly about your typing.
As for courage i think i might have assumed that he was a girl coz of the fruity tunes he listens to lol.
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
hq can u type like a gurl?
"ThiS WoRlD Iz A PrIsOn 4 A BeLiVeR AnD PaRaDiSe 4 A NoN-BeLiVeR.........."
Its just some of the stuff you come out with it just sounds a bit girly.
good to see you writing in full sentences makes it easier to read. Just need to work on your spelling and then it will be perfect
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
Thank you, Naz, but those "fruity tunes" are ones that I personally learn from, you know they have a meaning. Well, I said that I'm a 16 year od GUY, when you said in another thread that we need more sisters in the legal profession. Not that I disagree.
Well, anyway, let's move on.
Chin up, mate! Life's too short.
sorry i didnt mean to offend you. Your right i remember now i just assumed coz you didnt correct me.
Admin can we get smilies like these to avoid confusion. I saw them on another forum. Pretty cool dont you think.
[img]http://www.islamicboard.com/images/element/misc/gender_Brother%20In%20Is...
[img]http://www.islamicboard.com/images/element/misc/gender_Sister%20In%20Isl...
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
:?
Hhmm... I don't like them.
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