If you found out that a family member was dealing drugs

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Suhail (not verified) — Wed, 2 Dec 2009 - 21:13

take drugs off them obv, tell them its wrong which they obviosully alread nw lol and lock them in a room without drugs,,,so they get off the drugs ...carry on explaining to them its wrong while locked up....and when they come out they be a changed person 😃 ... foolproof plan ey

TPOS — Wed, 2 Dec 2009 - 21:21

i dont think it is foolproof.

firstly there are such things as windows 😛

secondly if u did manage to keep them in a room without drugs they wouldnt listen to u if theyre addicted not that quickly anyway.

plus they could get withdrawal symptoms which dont do much good to the health

🙂

Abbas — Wed, 2 Dec 2009 - 23:30

Talk to them, explain how they impact on many peoples lives (not just the users) and try to support them in changing their ways for the better, including changing the types of people they may interact with.

If it doesn't work?

Call the police, again and again. A prison sentence can be a good wake up call. I know a number of brothers that have endured this route and learned for the better.

Obviously this does not and will not work for everyone.

My "two cents" worth.

Suhail (not verified) — Sat, 5 Dec 2009 - 01:40

[quote=Abbas]Talk to them, explain how they impact on many peoples lives (not just the users) and try to support them in changing their ways for the better, including changing the types of people they may interact with.

If it doesn't work?

Call the police, again and again. A prison sentence can be a good wake up call. I know a number of brothers that have endured this route and learned for the better.

Obviously this does not and will not work for everyone.

My "two cents" worth.[/quote]

i would never be able to grass a family member upto the police mn i see the locking up in a room a depriving of the drugs a better approach coz it can work and the police dont gotta nw

Suhail (not verified) — Sat, 5 Dec 2009 - 15:47

[quote=You]Same here, probably.

Kind of different to the general advice of reporting drug dealers. (St786 - you're still focussing on the drug taker, not the dealer.)[/quote]

o erm :s the dealer.....

Dawud — Sat, 5 Dec 2009 - 18:29

Dealer?

Oops, I missed that too.

Well it depends on how aware the family member was of what they were doing. If they had just been caught by the prospect of making money and had somehow glossed over the ethical issues then I would give them a deep talking to.

If that had no effect or if in the first place they didn't care and were going to keep dealing anyway, I'd threaten to grass them up to the police.

If that didn't work, I'd grass them up to the police AND I wouldn't tell the family member to make sure he couldn't hide his stash.

All this assumes they're a close family member, if they're distant I may well do nothing...but then maybe guilt would motivate me to act.