What do you do when your sad?

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"Saadia Khan" wrote:
i usually end up to lisenin to mellow songs, sad songs, not that it always helps lol actually makes things worse!!!!!!

one of my mates does that too - on purpose! :shock: i'm always telling her she's mad... :roll: Wink coz she knows it'll increase (wot she calls) her 'depression', she likes to wallow in her sorrow... :?

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"*DUST*" wrote:
"Saadia Khan" wrote:
i usually end up to lisenin to mellow songs, sad songs, not that it always helps lol actually makes things worse!!!!!!

one of my mates does that too - on purpose! :shock: i'm always telling her she's mad... :roll: Wink coz she knows it'll increase (wot she calls) her 'depression', she likes to wallow in her sorrow... :?

But you know what at times it makes one feel more better.....cos there was a time i used to turn to soppy songs when being upset and it helped me to get over whateva kinda. But if it increases ones depression then doing that is mad.

I cant turn to family when im sad or upset....when they ask i get more peed off grrr...so i turn to oda stuff

I like to be on my own when I'm upset. i won't detail what i do, but in times of affliction, sorrow and grief most of us turn to God more than we do than we're in comfort. I guess mankind is inherently ungrateful. So i take the opportunity to repent of my sins, it makes me feel a lot better by the next day.

Years ago when i listened to music i would put on sad sad songs, but as you already mentioned it does nothing but make you feel worse. It's like a person taking drugs or alcohol it does nothing but mask the symptoms, and when you awake you feel worse. Turning to God is the best thing anyone could do to lift the misery.

Recommended reading [u]"Don't be Sad,"[/u] Aaidh ibn Abdullah al-Qarni:

"yashmaki" wrote:
Turning to God is the best thing anyone could do to lift the misery.

most true.....its amazing how one feels so much better and gets that inner feeling of peace in the heart when one turns to allah when it comes to sadness, we should be grateful we have allah almighty to turn to.It makes one feel 10 times better and relaxed than before and makes one B more patient.

I feel better already*

Salam

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
We all get sad sometimes... sumtimes cos of no reason

Not all.

Only women get sad for no reason.

How on Earth could any normal person manage to do that for absolutely no reason whatsoever.

Just think about it.

Men don't do such silly things.

Omrow

"naj" wrote:
what is oreos never come across it befo ?

aero dying for sum.


Biggrin Biggrin Biggrin
U can get Oreos int he UK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[b]Morrisons[/b] defo had them - the closest Morrisons to you is prbably the one near Mother Hubbards chip shop..................................

I had some but they are not all that as they teaste simialr to bourbons, but American go crazy over them :? :? :?

Glad to hear your Dad is out of the Infirmary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope evryting is well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

"Seek and you shall find."

shurrup omro :roll:

the main reason behind women's sadness is silly little boys like u

"Guest" wrote:
[b]Morrisons[/b] defo had them - the closest Morrisons to you is prbably the one near Mother Hubbards chip shop..................................

How do you know which morrisons is the closest to me eh?

"Guest" wrote:
[I had some but they are not all that as they teaste simialr to bourbons, but American go crazy over them :? :? :?

well looooks like i gotta check these weird oreos out.....ey bourbons are yummy.

"Guest" wrote:
[Glad to hear your Dad is out of the Infirmary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hope evryting is well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

thanks guest.........yep everythings cool i think.

"yashmaki" wrote:
I like to be on my own when I'm upset. i won't detail what i do, but in times of affliction, sorrow and grief most of us turn to God more than we do than we're in comfort. I guess mankind is inherently ungrateful. So i take the opportunity to repent of my sins, it makes me feel a lot better by the next day.

Recommended reading [u]"Don't be Sad,"[/u] Aaidh ibn Abdullah al-Qarni:

I’ve read that book. It’s fantastic. I strongly recommend it everyone…I love the way its so simple and really does make you feel better.

And I totally agree with you….I too turn to God when I’m upset over something….a few hours sobbing on the prayer mat, doing Tobah etc usually makes me feel better too….after I do that, I feel so incredibly peaceful and the problem seem minor too.

What’s really sad is how we only ever fully turn to God when we’re afflicted by some misfortune or stressed out due to something. :?

I haven't forgotten about the poem.

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when i am sad, i cry and cry and then cry some more, when i am sad for no apparent reason, i flip out and scream at everyone around me and can sulk for hours - thats when everyone should avoid me.

I get emotional too easily and i hate it! :evil:

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
I love you angel Blum 3

GOOD TO HAVE YOU BACK Dirol

I love you too hun, like i said to Aasiyah cant keep away from you guys, your just too great Biggrin

xxx

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