You're Worthless
I thought it'd be a thing of the past to see rape victims being at fault, undeserving of respect and honour and being hated on. There should be no excuses for the rapist whether the girl is dress provactively or not. It's horrible to think that such girls/women will be looked down upon for something they were not responsible for, that guys may not want to marry them because they believe these women are just "like that", have no shame and were at fault. But how common is this view?
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Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Fri, 15 Feb 2013 - 23:39
You know what, we'll agree to disgree.
Can you give the link for Imam Suhaib Webb saying Christmas is allowed? I think you may be confusing him with someone else (the one person who I've come across who says it's allowed)
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 00:01
theirs no need to get her to wear niqab ugly or beautyful the minimum a women has to do is wear a hijab niqab is a bonus such as a men wearing doing sunnha in zuhr is a must but the nawfal is a bonus obviosuly hijab niqab is of bigger status but concept is similar wearing the hijab is the minimal and must for women but the niqab is not a must but it is a bonus it is better then the hijab as it covers more but that is not a must its only a bonus, but the hijab has to be on and its the minimal
so again the explanation you are creating from this hadith is opposite of islam and makes no sense for the women has no need to wear the niqab when she is already fulfilling the criteria of hijab set by allah,
muhammad saw didnt tell her because their was no need for him to do so as the women was already fulfilling her bit allah had given her its like 3 women one with hijab other with niqab other with niqab and gloves on all correct we have no right to tell the one with hijab wear niqab or the one with niqab wear glvoes or the one with gloves your wearing too much take the niqab and gloves off hijab is enough
no one has the right to say your wearing too much too less regards to a women just wearing hijab or a women who s in niqab fully gloved this is why muhammad saw didnt tell her too wear niqab their was no need to
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 00:37
ok I got even if I got it wrong there, I moved on.
Please link me to where Imam Suhaib Webb said Christmas is allowed
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 01:12
thats because you make big deal on things that their is no need of and make nothing out thigns that are big, when muhammad saw or allah says its allwoed to do this youll say allah or muhammad saw couldve done this instead
anyway
in regards to suhaib webb sorry their is a mistake from me, he doesnt say your allowed to celebrate it but he says you are allowed to reply back to them if they say to you merry christmas which is just one level below bad then celebrating it, so even then its still bad as the view of celebrating it is bad
this can be found here
http://www.suhaibwebb.com/relationships/non-muslims/the-holiday-season-…
http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?349448-Suhaib-Webb-says-it-is…
he further states celebrating new year mothers day and other kafir celebration is allowed and he twisted many narration to trick people again he as caught out by a scholar here:
http://forum.cordobaacademy.com/2013/01/06/celebrating-new-year-with-ic…
Ibn al-Qayyim, may Allaah have mercy on him, said in Ahkaam Ahl ath-Thimmah: 'Congratulating the Kuffaar on the rituals that belong only to them is Haraam by consensus, as is congratulating them on their festivals and fasts by saying ‘A happy festival to you’ or ‘May you enjoy your festival,’ and so on. If the one who says this has been saved from Kufr, it is still forbidden. It is like congratulating someone for prostrating to the cross, or even worse than that. It is as great a sin as congratulating someone for drinking wine, or murdering someone, or having illicit sexual relations, and so on. Many of those who have no respect for their religion fall into this error; they do not realize the offensiveness of their actions. Whoever congratulates a person for his disobedience or bid’ah or Kufr exposes himself to the wrath and anger of Allaah'.
secondly suhaib webb in his website allows a rafidi to get married to muslims, rafidi as we know are kafirs as their beleifs are filled with shirk yet he allows them to get married to muslims when rasulullah saw clearly said only the people of the book amongst the muslims can be marreid so this doesnt include qadiani or rafidi-shias and other types of shias
http://www.suhaibwebb.com/relationships/marriage-family/beforemarriage/…
and lastly his failure to understand shirk and when it is being commited
http://forums.islamicawakening.com/f18/suhaib-webb-30119/
http://forums.islamicawakening.com/f18/suhaib-webb-30119/index3.html
criticism of going back to the salafs/classical ways
http://forums.islamicawakening.com/f20/saying-so-long-dear-friend-tradi…
and lastly suhaib webb follows the athari aqeedah which is one of the worst out their
suhaib webb creates new american islam
http://articles.latimes.com/2011/may/27/local/la-me-american-imam-20110…
http://www.ahlalhdeeth.com/vbe/showthread.php?t=13062
http://forums.islamicawakening.com/f15/suhaib-webb-is-qasidah-burdah-sh…
so overall his acceptance of kafir celbration greeting them lying and twsiting of narration shows his ignorance and worst of all failure to recognize shirk in more then one occasion along with hsi new american islam it shows he is a allout sell out and mess
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 01:27
stop making stuff up and brush up on your comprehension skills.
I'll look at the links later.
EDIT: Just looked at the first link. Ha, what'd you know, my above comment still applies - stop making stuff up and brush up on your comprehension skills.
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 01:47
for someone whoc ant even udnerstand a hadith and makes fabricated somments on them should keep their mouth shut you post a hadith and you dont even understand it yourself a sahabi ra comes up to muhamamd saw wearing a hijab and you make something else out of it
as for suhaib webb christmas issue celebrating it greeting it not all that big deal of a difference so agian no big deal to get it mixed up and even if i did many scholars view greeting and celebrating both as shirk relating to christmas so in the end it still fits in the same area
in your case it was a mess up in all forms "muhammad saw didnt tell her to wear niqab when he couldve" in a place where this action was never necessary to begin with or had no relation to this hadith orr in matters of wearing hijab
next time try and read and understand a hadith rather then just reading it
so who was making things up regarding things again?
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 01:51
I'll let you have the last say 🙂
Re: You're Worthless
LookingToSee — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 11:27
actually made me laugh.
dont bother TPOS, this person is the type who will either be right or keep repeating themselves until the other party gets tired.
its like a lil kid, to get them to do something you have to make them think they came up with it. but none of us are parents sooo we cnt do that.
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Sat, 16 Feb 2013 - 12:12
real mature grandma
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Sun, 17 Feb 2013 - 16:28
This is not meant as a reply to Abuela.
Read the rest here: http://www.dailynewsegypt.com/2013/02/16/how-un-islamic-it-is-to-blame-…
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 - 11:35
if this article goes extreme on one side then this one goes extreme on the other anyway both are wrong
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/8515592.stm
Re: You're Worthless
Seraphim — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 - 13:58
I've said it before and i'll say it again.
People are stupid and do stupid things. But whats right is right and whats wrong is wrong.
It doesnt matter if its a man or a woman. It doesnt matter how the person is dressed.
Anyone who touches anyone else inappropriately should pay.
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 - 22:14
so im guessing a prostitute takes no blame only the men does
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 - 22:26
Try not taking things out of context Abuela, honestly it's not that hard.
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 - 23:25
its not its corelated
when in that case the prostitute and the men take the blame same here the women takes her share of the blame for dressing badly the men takes blame for his part whether its higher or lower or the same allah knows best but they both take the blame for their bit
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 - 23:30
We're not talking about prostitution though.
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Wed, 20 Feb 2013 - 11:19
but the concept has some similarities both have a share of blame
as i said not every women are to be blamed for rape some only some may , especially the nonmuslims
some women are fully on the right in some both have some blame so we have to look into the stiuation but either way
the men still has to get the death penalty and punnishment for in his part he was fully on the wrong for the women even if she has some fault then well theirs no real punnishment but still if she had some wrong she was wrong in her part
but again thats not the case in every rape as in muslim countries rape is usually the mens fault alone
Re: You're Worthless
TPOS — Wed, 20 Feb 2013 - 11:25
I'm not gna go round in circles.
Re: You're Worthless
abualabbasassaffah7 (not verified) — Wed, 20 Feb 2013 - 12:12
then go round a oval instead
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Hummus — Wed, 20 Feb 2013 - 12:32
*FACEPALM* Quite literally.
Re: You're Worthless
LookingToSee — Wed, 20 Feb 2013 - 17:20
that wld be AN oval btw.
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