The three types of people we shld make sure we arent and the obligatory jealousy

Published by LookingToSee on 22 February, 2013 - 12:42

– Three People Will Not Enter Paradise

Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar(rA) reported that the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Sallam (Peace and Blessings be upon him) said:

“Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)

Ad-Dayooth is the man who permits women for whom he is responsible (eg: mother, wife, sister etc.) to engage in illicit sexual relations, or to display their beauty to strange men, thereby stimulating their sexual desires.

Note: **SPECIALLY FOR MY MOTHERS AND SISTERS* — For your own good, for your own better ENDING, For Allah’s sake read and understand the Qur’an and the Sunnah and Know that wearing clothes that reveal parts of your body is HARAAM and it falls in the same category as what PROSTITUTES do, (as above), “displaying your beauty to strange men, thereby stimulating their sexual desires”. Strange men are all Non-Mehram men that include your cousins and bro-in laws as well. For Allah’s sake, know what you are doing, realize, make sincere Taubah and refrain in the future.

**BROTHERS** — You fall in category 3 (as above) as you are PERMITTING your mothers, wives and sisters. May Allah SWT bless us with right knowledge to know and strength to implement inshaAllah, aameen.

The prophet Muhammad saw said 'A Dayooth will not enter Jannah.' The Sahabah asked, 'Who is a Dayooth?' Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihe wasallam said, 'A man who does not care who visits his wife (i.e. men).'

And on the issue of Ghayrah, Ibn al-Qayyim, rahimahullaah, said,

"And the Dayyouth (the man with no jealousy over the women in his family) is the most vile of Allah's creation, and Jannah is forbidden for him, (because of his lack of Ghayrah - jealousy).

The foundation of the Religion is Ghayrah, and the one without Ghayrah is one without Religion, for Ghayrah protects the heart and enlivens the limbs, and shields one from evil and lewdness, and lack of Ghayrah kills the heart so that the limbs die, so that there remains not even shielding from [the minor things].

And the example of Ghayrah in the heart is the example of the strength that shields one from sickness and fights it off, so if the strength leaves, he will be faced with the sickness, and will not find any thing to protect himself from it, so it will establish itself [within him] and destroy him ."

Ad-Daa' Wad-Dawaa', p.77