If Islam forbids intermixing and having boy/girlfriend, then how does one go about finding a marriage partner?
In the name of Allah the Most Beneficent and Merciful
There are many different recommended methods of finding a suitable partner for marriage which are allowed under Shariah law.
1. The first and most common is for the parents of the individuals to find a suitable partner via their connections within the Islamic community. Here it is important that you have a good relationship with them and you have a say in what type of partner you are looking for and you have final approval.
2. Another method is to use influential people within the community to find a partner for you, such as the Imam or a female scholar who has contact with other people looking for a suitable partner.