What have you learnt?

1. You can't spend too much time with your children.

I have a friend who is now an MP who is a father of five and he said to me when I became a father that the speed with which your children's lives flash in front of you is terrifying. You should spend as much time with them as possible. It's enormous fun and so stimulating.

This morning I went in to my children's school for a carol service. It was the most important thing I could make time for.

2. Always make time every day to read a book that has nothing to do with your work.

You can always read another document, something on Google or a bit of Hansard but nothing is better for your mind than taking your mind away by reading fiction or non-fiction. If your brain is constantly engaged by work, it does not really grow.

3. No where in the world is more beautiful than Scotland.

Having travelled the world (though not all of it), notwithstanding the weather, midges and food, Scotland is still the best place to go. I go back as often as I can but not as often as I should.

4. Criticism is a good thing.

If you throw out signals that you find criticism hard to take, that you don't want to hear bad news, then you don't want to learn. Make it clear to people that you want to learn from a mistake. I make mistakes all the time, from my first job as reporter on the Press and Journal when I nearly bankrupted a chicken farm. It's always better to acknowledge your mistakes and learn from them.

5. Never judge by first impressions.

Even if you have a strong instinct about someone. It's the car salesman's dictum: you can't tell whether someone is a millionaire or someone who scrubs up well. It's the Henry Crawford principle in Jane Austen's Mansfield Park. He is superficial - incredibly charming and captivating, but by the end of the book he is shown to be superficial. The virtues of some characters, such as Edmund Bertram, take more time to show. Give people time.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/education/8460989.stm

The above five things Michael Gove has learnt from life.

What do you like/dislike about this?

IF you were asked what you have learned SO FAR from your life...what would YOU SAY?

Comments

i agree with him saying scotland is beautiful-sure is that's why i moved here, and back and now im back here again lol. Also spending time with children. He is right. When my son was newborn he would cry non stop high pitched from 6pm until 10 pm. i thght he was ill, i thght omg is this what parenthood is about i dont want it, when will it end. He had a type of baby heartburn. Anyways i learned tricks to control it, and now he is 3. i look at him and think i can remember the day he was born, it was only 3 years ago, not very long if you think about it. But in terms of memories it went in a flash. So yes cherish every moment you have with your children and remember all those 2am feeds and dirty nappies you did whilst half the world was asleep fondly.

“O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a (quick passing) enjoyment, and verily, the hereafter that is the home that will remain forever.” [Ghafir : 39]

Hajjar wrote:
So yes cherish every moment you have with your children and remember all those 2am feeds and dirty nappies you did whilst half the world was asleep fondly.

or half the world was doing the same thing Blum 3

i was an annoying baby, feel sorry for my parents lol

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