Platonic Relationships

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[u][b]Platonic [/b][/u]
1. Of, relating to, or characteristic of Plato or his philosophy: Platonic dialogues; Platonic ontology.
2. often platonic Transcending physical desire and tending toward the purely spiritual or ideal: platonic love.
3. often platonic Speculative or theoretical.

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Platonic relationships is probably one of the funniest things ive come across in long time and Islam is right to make them forbidden. Which means it aint cool. Coz altho it may start off innocently... sooner or later... some1s gonna fall for some1. Thats when the shit really hits the fan..... plop.

Western Society says theres nuffin wrong with it... ofcourse they also say theres nothing wrong with having a bf or a gf... not to mention adultry. So we shouldnt really follow western culture so blindly as alot of the stuff they do is haraam for muslims.aka forbidden.

Logic dictates that he shouldnt be in such a situation where he has to do this... however since he's already past the point of no return thats not much help. In which case he must do the later, and thats to seperate NOW that he's realised it aint right.

Firstly he should be civilised and realise he cant just cutt her out of his life without an explanation... coz thats just cruel. Tell her it aint cool no more, u dont recon its a good idea for them to socialise anymore... if she asks why... explain to her: uve put on weight i dont find that attractive...lol no...
just be nice and explain its not right bcoz of x,y and z.

She'll get the picture... you both go your seperate ways.

Back in BLACK

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_____________- -SupeRazor- -_______________

Some ppl make their goals the stars.
They may live n die n never reach the stars,
but in the darkness of the night, those stars will guide them to their destination.
Becuz they made them in their eyesight

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Hayder sed some good stuff about this on the radio yesterday while i was busy with the txt msgs, mayb he can add a comment.
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_____________- -SupeRazor- -_______________

Some ppl make their goals the stars.
They may live n die n never reach the stars,
but in the darkness of the night, those stars will guide them to their destination.
Becuz they made them in their eyesight

"razor" wrote:
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out with the old and in with the new?

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no that would be stupid not to mention unpractical.

He can still hang with his male friends and if she happens to be there just keep his contact with her to a minimum. He doesnt have to chat to her or sit next to her... point is at the end of the day he will be judged for his action or inactions, and saying virtue wasnt convienant at the time will not suffice infront of God Almighty.

He and he alone is responsible for his soul. If he has to walk away from a unhalal gathering to save his soul than do it. He doesnt have to be rude or anything just make an excuse and walk away whenever shes around. And if his friends are half decent they'll pick up on this and get the hint.

Back in BLACK

"razor" wrote:
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Hayder sed some good stuff about this on the radio yesterday while i was busy with the txt msgs, mayb he can add a comment.
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LOL

ur just encouraging him to rejoin :twisted:

anyways-so what if his male friends wont follow in his footsteps?

no biggie-

interesting topic

this is 1 aspect most youth ask about - 'we'r only friends' its become a cliche - every1 knows 2 ppl of opposite gender cannot remain 'just friends' 4 too long and thats why Islam instructs us ta stay away from the scene altogether but obviously within todays free-mixing society it can be very hard...

but once some1 has realised that its wrong and wants 2 change it has ta be done cautiously without offending any1 (as if ppl dont already have bad vibes towards religios ppl) best thing is 2 slowly start talking about Islam infront of the mates so they become aware that your starting 2 associate Islamic teachings with your life then that way when u do stop hanging around with 'friends' of opposite gender it wont be a shock - rather they'l probably expect it