Submitted by Dave on 19 November, 2005 - 02:39 #151
pretty much
Submitted by You on 19 November, 2005 - 02:48 #152
Dave how were the withdrawal symptoms while you were away? (or is it broadband, so whenever the comp is on, you are loged in?)
you could do a study on internet addiction.. see what cures it....
then I can use the curesafely knowing it has been tested...
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Dave on 19 November, 2005 - 02:50 #153
What do you mean?
Submitted by You on 19 November, 2005 - 02:55 #154
well... it took you no time to regain your crown as uber dave.
Is that because of always-on broadband? (so you use your pc to do work... but as internet is on, you continue to browse at the same time... and forget about your work like I used to at uni...)
if people read this they will think we (well I) are sad... such a poor topic...
But hey people already thionk that, so I have nothing to lose!
:twisted:
nevermind... cheney is far more interesting...
—
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Dave on 19 November, 2005 - 02:57 #155
ohhh right
yea it's the broadband thing - also I go to a college in a small town so there is little to do.
And since my girlfriend goes to a school far away I have to really cut the normal social activities down.
Most stuff on campus is centered around meeting people
I spend most of my day working on my project and doing pushups to not turn into the "flabulous" dave
Submitted by Ramz on 21 November, 2005 - 20:39 #156
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
TEN HOT TIPS ON HOW TO GET OUT OF AN ARRANGED MARRAIGE
1-Uni Bum
staying on in higher Education is very succesful in avoiding an arranged marraige all u have to do is get into Uni (thats easy-just choose sociology :twisted: )
Work hard in ur first year, take a year out to travel, complete sec year, take another year out to travel, finish ur last year, mess up ur last semester (just tell ur teachers that ur emotionally traumatised by ur parents trying to force u into marraige :twisted: )
take a year our to travel, do ur masters, then ur FINISHED!, take a year out again, spend some time "struggling" to establish urself
by this time u shoud be 29 or 30 well past the sell by date-ur parents will be so desperate to get rid of u they will wed u to whoever u want
2-You dark horse
As an asian u should know that no guy wants a girl who is darker then the average cup of chai. So visit the tanning salon, wear gold to make u look darker :twisted: and put on weight
if ur not "slim and white" then no one will want to marry u
3-Holy Moly
No one wants to marry a religious extremist. Sprout views of terrorism and everyone will run away frm u
4-Be A bum
If ur a guy-get a crap job. No dad will give u his daughter. And if ur a girl do NOT learn how to cook and clean and make ur extreme radical feminist views clear. No guy will want you
5-BE HEARTLESS
just tell the guy/girl that ur parents are trying to set u up with that u NOT INTRESTED. do everything under the sun to make them go off u
6-Big up single life
tell ur parents that remaining unmarried is good for u as an evil son/daughter in law will just "take u away from ur darling parents"
7-Commit suicide
this is a great cry for help. It gets ur point across and parents realise how serious u are. There's one draw back though.
Your dead.
8-Dress Down
If u a guy dress either like a freshi or a black guy. If your a girl dress like a tart-whilst guys do like to bog at such woman-no guy will make u his wife
9-Insult the potential mother in law
Nuf said.
10-Just say NO!!!
if ur a girl and ur parents are strict then just call up someone-either a scholar or an organisation that will help u out of this mess
if ur a guy, just be a MAN and put ur foot down. After all what can they really do?
But just remember after u have said no NEVER take a holiday back home. unless ur really stupid and cant see whats being plotted.
GOOD LUCK
loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool MS that was so funny, I needed that
I'm still in the same situation and I don't know what will happen. I asked dad if he would take me to Hajj so we'll see what happens. At the moment though I'm having doubts regarding my boyfriend :?
Submitted by fizzy1 on 21 November, 2005 - 21:21 #157
that was sooo funny. got to show that to my mum, she would love it!
actually better not, she will realize i have been using some of thise points myself.
hence going on to second masters next year after a year out....
Wait are my eyes going bad.. I thought your sister wrote that
She copied it out from an old note pad of mine... :?
I wrote that a few years ago. :oops:
lol you're a complexed girl
Lol-Yep my immature side is just as strong as my serious side...
Submitted by paki_gal on 22 November, 2005 - 00:25 #163
Is love marriage better or Arrange?
i dnt know but guys......i hav been sooo much i think its not best to do love.........specially people from the bck country sorry not trying to offend anyone :oops:
but........
its actually true cuz i hav bin betrayd twice.....and its bin really hard to decide......tats y i object against love marriage..........
wat u lot think???
length of time it takes to get over sumeone depends on how attached u were in the first place
safe option is not to get too attached in the first place
Submitted by Sirus on 22 November, 2005 - 12:35 #173
True
your probz right
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by ALquds on 23 November, 2005 - 13:59 #174
salaamz.. yo ramz u said u dnt believe in "arrange marriages"... y not??? arrange marriage is when both side of the parties aggree to the niqa. first n foremost the guy and the girl have to agree. if this condition is met thn ever1 goes home happy, so wre is the prob???... well the prob is in forced marriages... forced marriages could be done through "mental" pressure or forcefully taking sum1 bk "home"... so dnt get confused btwn foced n arrange marriages... the western media try to wipe the both with the same brush :x ... anyway hope it works out4u... maa baff re bala teake buzayo...
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Gossip is the most destructive thing in the universe...
Submitted by flower on 23 November, 2005 - 14:52 #175
"ALquds" wrote:
salaamz.. yo ramz u said u dnt believe in "arrange marriages"... y not??? arrange marriage is when both side of the parties aggree to the niqa. first n foremost the guy and the girl have to agree. if this condition is met thn ever1 goes home happy, so wre is the prob???... well the prob is in forced marriages... forced marriages could be done through "mental" pressure or forcefully taking sum1 bk "home"... so dnt get confused btwn foced n arrange marriages... the western media try to wipe the both with the same brush :x ... anyway hope it works out4u... maa baff re bala teake buzayo...
very good point, i did my final year dissertation on the portrayal of arranged marriages in the media....my findings showed that the british media cannot distingusih between the two different types of marraiges...although they tried....there is a clear difference
pretty much
Dave how were the withdrawal symptoms while you were away? (or is it broadband, so whenever the comp is on, you are loged in?)
you could do a study on internet addiction.. see what cures it....
then I can use the curesafely knowing it has been tested...
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
What do you mean?
well... it took you no time to regain your crown as uber dave.
Is that because of always-on broadband? (so you use your pc to do work... but as internet is on, you continue to browse at the same time... and forget about your work like I used to at uni...)
if people read this they will think we (well I) are sad... such a poor topic...
But hey people already thionk that, so I have nothing to lose!
:twisted:
nevermind... cheney is far more interesting...
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
ohhh right
yea it's the broadband thing - also I go to a college in a small town so there is little to do.
And since my girlfriend goes to a school far away I have to really cut the normal social activities down.
Most stuff on campus is centered around meeting people
I spend most of my day working on my project and doing pushups to not turn into the "flabulous" dave
loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool MS that was so funny, I needed that
I'm still in the same situation and I don't know what will happen. I asked dad if he would take me to Hajj so we'll see what happens. At the moment though I'm having doubts regarding my boyfriend :?
that was sooo funny. got to show that to my mum, she would love it!
actually better not, she will realize i have been using some of thise points myself.
hence going on to second masters next year after a year out....
…Guys the above was just written in jest… :?
It was written in an immature mood. I hope no one acts on any of the above…a simple “No” can also get the job done.
Wait are my eyes going bad.. I thought your sister wrote that
She copied it out from an old note pad of mine... :?
I wrote that a few years ago. :oops:
lol you're a complexed girl
Lol-Yep my immature side is just as strong as my serious side...
Is love marriage better or Arrange?
i dnt know but guys......i hav been sooo much i think its not best to do love.........specially people from the bck country sorry not trying to offend anyone :oops:
but........
its actually true cuz i hav bin betrayd twice.....and its bin really hard to decide......tats y i object against love marriage..........
wat u lot think???
i object against both kinds of marriages
cos I don't believe in blindly following parents decisions NOR do I beleive in doing LURVE before marraige
the answer is somthing between the two
therefore, arranged
its not forced...nor is it 'love' marriage
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
I'd "arrange" my own marraige :twisted:
but I wouldnt be loved up about it
your yet to find out..........doin it yourself aint easy, trust me
you are a youngling lol
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
u speaking from experinece :twisted:
whats so difficult about liking sumone and telling him thru someone else to come to my house and ask my parents?
tell me how it goes.....
situation: you like that person, you both ask the parents.....and one or both say no
then what?
you can walk away, but u cant stop liking the person
easier said than done, altho it can be done, its not easy
unless you have a good reason to stop likin em
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
u like the person
u ask the parents
one or both say no
u get depressed for one week
u get over it and realise that there are plenty more fish in the sea
u start liking someone else but u learn from ur mistakes and try not get attached at all to the next person u fall for
not that hard is it?
nope
but it aint a week
unless you barely liked em
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
length of time it takes to get over sumeone depends on how attached u were in the first place
safe option is not to get too attached in the first place
True
your probz right
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
salaamz.. yo ramz u said u dnt believe in "arrange marriages"... y not??? arrange marriage is when both side of the parties aggree to the niqa. first n foremost the guy and the girl have to agree. if this condition is met thn ever1 goes home happy, so wre is the prob???... well the prob is in forced marriages... forced marriages could be done through "mental" pressure or forcefully taking sum1 bk "home"... so dnt get confused btwn foced n arrange marriages... the western media try to wipe the both with the same brush :x ... anyway hope it works out4u... maa baff re bala teake buzayo...
Gossip is the most destructive thing in the universe...
very good point, i did my final year dissertation on the portrayal of arranged marriages in the media....my findings showed that the british media cannot distingusih between the two different types of marraiges...although they tried....there is a clear difference
ramz cant have an arranged marraige if she's hooked on someone else :roll:
sure she can... she just has to agree to it.
she can always unhook later on.
hav faith that god nows best and do the right thing.
Back in BLACK
so she should marry someone else whilst she loves her paki boyfriend
ruin that the innocent guys life and bring grief to his family?
great advice Garfield :roll: :roll:
You forgot the part where she unhooks herself from the first guy...
jeez read past the first line woman. :roll:
Cling onto the guy whose marrying you coz he's obviously got the gutts to go ahead with it.
Romeos of the world: If your gonna talk the talk then learn to walk the walk.
Back in BLACK
if it was so easy to unhook urself frm the first guy Ramz wouldnt be moaning and stressing about this dilemna so much :roll:
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