How do you know if your in love?

Medarris —

OK, I know that a lot of people have made topics on love before from different angles but I havent been involved in those topics and perhaps some of them occurred before I graced this forum with my presence, lol!!!

Basically, I want to know how do you know if your in love? What are the signs and symptoms of this disease. And pls I am referring to boy-girl love so keep to this type of love, im NOT chatting about brotherly, filial, paternal love etc.

(Dont go get any ideas, im only asking)

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Sirus — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 18:52

im not talkin abut love at 1st sight

im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions 😂

Seraphim — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 18:57

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]im not talkin abut love at 1st sight

im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions :lol:[/quote]

Hayder what you feel for one person, you'll never experience it again bcoz love is different every single time. You may get burnt the first time but that will just make you more careful. Altho you may never feel the same thats not to say it wont be as strong the next time.

IMO its not a good idea to compare one relationship with another as the only thing common to the two is you. The other person will be difference, the "love" you feel for them will be different, and even you'l be a little different.

Sirus — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 19:04

[quote="Seraph"] Hayder what you feel for one person
[/quote]

hope ur not implyin something, im already boxxed off 8)

Medarris — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 22:27

[quote="Omrow"]Salam

Med is right.

Love is for one time.

One cannot love two.

Omrow[/quote]

im on abt the true love. You can love again, but never like the first time, IMO. You can marry another, spend years with them, be entirely comfortable with them but never love them or any1 like u did ur first TRUE love. not lust.

I think in life u only feel really deep abt som1 once, the way they talk, the things they like to eat, the way they change their expression when they feeling cheeky, all these things are noted only once. After that u may be able to read another person but u wont FEEL it.

MuslimSisLilSis — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 23:22

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions :lol:[/quote]

well my opinion is

lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic

they need to move on and get on with life

nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things

A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever

Medarris — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 23:33

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever[/quote]

is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.

MuslimSisLilSis — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 23:35

[quote="Med"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]
A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever[/quote]

is this the voice of experience? have u been rejected lol.[/quote]

Never.

But I do know and have heard of plenty of pathetic people in this situation.

I have no sympthay for them.

Medarris — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 23:42

wheres all ur compassion gone cavewoman. LOL, if the people who I agree with came out with that line, then ur bunch wud say oh u so harsh cavewoman, tut tut tut

Medarris — Wed, 19 Oct 2005 - 23:52

ur bunch is the ppl who refer to me and others as caveppl, hayder. my ppl are the ones called caveppl by ur bunch. lol

hope dats clear.

Medarris — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 00:01

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]i only thought it was you
p.s. theres no sides, groups or clans that im aware of

disagreeing is a beauty[/quote]

i refer u to ur hurtful comments yesterday to other forum members, hayder.

Sirus — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 00:26

ah yes, i was anegered by your interference and your comments

but nonethless, it was silly of me to take it to that extent

as i apologised to Naj, i apologise too thee Med Sire 🙂

Medarris — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 00:37

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]

takes two to tango lol[/quote]

astaghfirullah, chi chi chi, tut tut tut. does the fair lady want me to tango with her?!!

lol. Im sorry aswell brother.

Sirus — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 00:41

ah but the night is young, and this dance is yours..... 😉

Sister Yashmaki was spot on, were gona disagree on a few topics, differ on opinion slightly on others ...but there aint no point in accusing each other, getting personal (weve all done that), slandering, and...yeah u knw what i mean

Allah Subhanalla Wa'Taala knows best

im gona stick to do what i do best, waffle 🙂

Medarris — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 00:47

[quote="Raf786"]love is for sissys we men get married because its practical , i expect food, babies and clean house first , the love can come after[/quote]

lol, hope ALLAH keeps u like that bro. But sometimes even the men find love first but dnt get the food and babies and house cos they dnt get the wife.

MastKuri — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 10:35

[quote="Med"]no doubt Holy Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam DID love Ammi Aisha radhiyallahu anha. But even then, Sayyidatuna Aisha radhiyallahu anha has narrated that Holy Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam loved Ammi Khadeejah tul Kubra radhiyallahu anha the most.[/quote]
so true!

Omrow — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 10:53

Salam

I know that Prophet loved many people.

But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."

I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.

Makes one wonder.

Omrow

Angel — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 13:24

[quote="Omrow"]Salam

I know that Prophet loved many people.

But is there a saying from the Prophet which actually has the words: " I love you."

I don't think he ever said those words to any of his 13 wives.

Makes one wonder.

Omrow[/quote]

Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.

MuslimSisLilSis — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 18:52

[quote="angel"]

Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.[/quote]

good point

love is more action and less talk

Seraphim — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 19:42

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Darth V-Hayder"]im sayin proper love, ended in tatters.....does it help for next time? is it possible to love to the same extent again? or is it never the same? are u bound 2 keep on comparing to ur past experiences? is that comparison a good thing?

dunno y im askin, but jus wanna knw peoples opinions :lol:[/quote]

well my opinion is

lovesick romeo's/juliets are pathetic

they need to move on and get on with life

nothing is more unnattractive then a person hung up over his/her "true love" and doesnt move on and get on with things

A REAL man (and woman) GETS over things after they been rejected/dumped or whatever[/quote]

ah spoke like a true cynic.

or a realist masquerading as a cynic

who is secretly an optimist.

equanimity — Thu, 20 Oct 2005 - 21:05

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="angel"]

Anyone can say "i love u" but to truly mean it is another thing, love can come from ones' actions i.e pleasing their beloved to do what makes them happy and to refrain from things that dont make them happy etc.[/quote]

good point

love is more action and less talk[/quote]

that was to you by the way