How do you know if your in love?

[quote="yuit"]
It about the ability of each parnter being able to cover each other fault and knowing the your partner weaknesses and still loving them for it. [/quote]

thats where a lot of marriages break up unfortunatly, people tend to expect perfection and fail to realise we all make mistakes

but i agree with ya

[quote="yuit"]Got to say alot of people are more in love with the idea of being in love then actually being in love, I hope that make sense :?

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Yep it does it make sense, thats what those silly bollywood movies promote, ppl just wana be in love for the sake of it, its like a fashion thing, must have!

These comments rubbishing love are immature and ridiculous.

The love your parents have for you is very like the love they have for each other. Maybe ask them about it.

Love?????????

hmmmm.....

something we see on tv, probably read about in books and then a few of us end up believing its real

sorry to break your hearts peeps, but it aint real, just an infatuation which we mistaken to be something more 😢

i no its a very cynical view compared to all the people who are all 'lovey dovey' but its the brutal truth 😃

[quote="Salma"]
something we see on tv, probably read about in books and then a few of us end up believing its real

[/quote]

again, thats not love your talking about

its sumat else, and somat thats a loada codswallop indeed

but lets not be hasty and say love doesnt exist

[quote="Salma"]
i no its a very cynical view compared to all the people who are all 'lovey dovey' but its the brutal truth :D[/quote]

Maybe from a certain perspective,

But i think you'll find alot of other things are also true from a certain perspective.

Salma, I can assure you I have experienced the love of my family. I have also experienced the love of others. So I know it is real, and I know how to give it. It starts with seeing the best in people, and acknowledging what you can offer. Where you are living is not a world without love, but a place in your own mind of coldness and rejection. Clearly you have experienced that. I offer my sympathies, and propose you do not spread the experience by laying it down as fact, but maybe use these forums for assistance or to tap into the realities others have experienced. Probably Eid is a good time to start getting over it. Chocolates, anyone?

speak the truth you do 100

[quote="100"]Salma, I can assure you I have experienced the love of my family. I have also experienced the love of others. So I know it is real, and I know how to give it. It starts with seeing the best in people, and acknowledging what you can offer. Where you are living is not a world without love, but a place in your own mind of coldness and rejection. Clearly you have experienced that. I offer my sympathies, and propose you do not spread the experience by laying it down as fact, but maybe use these forums for assistance or to tap into the realities others have experienced. Probably Eid is a good time to start getting over it. Chocolates, anyone?[/quote]

jeez

talk about being cruel to be kind 😃

im not saying love between families doesn't exist, of course it does

love between bro n sis, between mother n daughter, father n son, yes it does exist

but any of that 'being struck by love' cobblers is a load of......

someone's been watching too many bollywoods i reckon... 😃

[quote="Salma"][quote="100"]Salma, I can assure you I have experienced the love of my family. I have also experienced the love of others. So I know it is real, and I know how to give it. It starts with seeing the best in people, and acknowledging what you can offer. Where you are living is not a world without love, but a place in your own mind of coldness and rejection. Clearly you have experienced that. I offer my sympathies, and propose you do not spread the experience by laying it down as fact, but maybe use these forums for assistance or to tap into the realities others have experienced. Probably Eid is a good time to start getting over it. Chocolates, anyone?[/quote]

jeez

talk about being cruel to be kind 😃

im not saying love between families doesn't exist, of course it does

love between bro n sis, between mother n daughter, father n son, yes it does exist

but any of that 'being struck by love' cobblers is a load of......

someone's been watching too many bollywoods i reckon... :D[/quote]

So you dont think its possible for a man and a woman to fall in love?

Tell me does it always rain in the sad little world you ppl live in.

easy bro

we all entitled to our opinion aint we

if u seriously believe in love, ur loss darling

its sunny everyday

specially today 😃

Salma, you believe in sunshine? You can use that, it's a strong start. 🙂 No need to tell everyone there's no love though. Not very sunny of you.

of course there is love. why be so cynical?

[quote="100"]Salma, you believe in sunshine? You can use that, it's a strong start. 🙂 No need to tell everyone there's no love though. Not very sunny of you.[/quote]

i thought i would save them the heartache of having to find out later that its all a load of cobbles

i s'pose no one wants to hear that something they all believ in doesn't exist

its like aving to tell a kid father christmas doesnt exist

[quote="fizzy1"]of course there is love. why be so cynical?[/quote]

trust me,

in a cuple of years you'll be saying exactly the same thing

listen to the wise old lady 😃

Awww looks like someone didn't get enough hugs oh well

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[img]http://www.freewebs.com/votelibdem/hug.JPG[/img]

[quote="Not_a_Kuri"]Awww looks like someone didn't get enough hugs oh well

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[img]http://www.freewebs.com/votelibdem/hug.JPG[/img][/quote]

awww

but im still sticking to ma views, it dont exist

[quote="yuit"]Got to say alot of people are more in love with the idea of being in love then actually being in love, I hope that make sense :?

I personally believe that true love only incur after years of being together. I am in no doubt that I will not be in love with the woman that I marry, but she will have my respect and I would admire her. I personally believe that love only come after years of marriage and when people have experience hardship and their relationship is still strong. It about the ability of each parnter being able to cover each other fault and knowing the your partner weaknesses and still loving them for it. Baically it about companionship and you only realise that you have that after a certain period of time IMO.[/quote]

i've gotta agree wiv u there. The point salma is makin i can understand. The term "love" in the 21st century is so overrated and cheesy. Nowadays most people say they love somebody but you ask them how an what love is an they cant tell you. They've seen the bolly movies and thik if they tell a girl they love her she'l fall into his arms (which is so true coz i seen it happen so many tyms, but the wise gals know better). Love does exist but like yuit made the point it only really happens when you been wiv somebody a long tym and know them inside out and you accept them for who they are and not try to them.

Salma, I'm TELLING you, you have no idea. Only your own experiences. And what you don't know, is you obviously don't know the first thing about love and never did. Now please shut it before another idiot like Naz comes along believing you and I get angry.

[quote="100"]Salma, I'm TELLING you, you have no idea. Only your own experiences. And what you don't know, is you obviously don't know the first thing about love and never did. Now please shut it before another idiot like Naz comes along believing you and I get angry.[/quote]

Eh i think she can believe what she wants, 100 where's your manners! Why get angry so easily?

[quote="100"]Salma, I'm TELLING you, you have no idea. Only your own experiences. And what you don't know, is you obviously don't know the first thing about love and never did. Now please shut it before another idiot like Naz comes along believing you and I get angry.[/quote]

oooh, someone's getting bitchy

im telling u, it doen't exist

wen u finally realise it, dont come running to me

i offer no comfort to those caught up in the 'fantasy of love'...

[quote="100"]Salma, I'm TELLING you, you have no idea. Only your own experiences. And what you don't know, is you obviously don't know the first thing about love and never did. Now please shut it before another idiot like Naz comes along believing you and I get angry.[/quote]

i can see we av another omrow on our hands.

OK, I won't get angry. I'll just be here, knowing that what love there is, is basically your choice, to receive and to give, and that some people who got stung - and we all did - want to be bitter and twisted about it. If anyone wants to put me to the test they can PM me. Maybe it's nothing very serious, maybe something incredibly painful. But I wouldn't wish that on you, or the people you know. I'm totally serious, and there's nothing hippy or wishy-washy about it. I'm a very straight-up sort of person. If love is missing and you go around saying that, people will miss out big time. There's nothing wrong with simply saying, "I got hurt" or "I screwed up" or "someone treated me pretty atrociously". If you don't agree, ya dunt na nutin. Not because I'm right, or because you're wrong, but because that's the way it is.

lol at salma

again, your not talkin about proper love, the one 100 and naz are talkin bout

put it this way, if love didnt exist, i wouldnt be here today

[quote="Darth V-Hayder"]lol at salma

again, your not talkin about proper love, the one 100 and naz are talkin bout

put it this way, if love didnt exist, i wouldnt be here today[/quote]

u still kidding yourself u woz created from love eh? 😃

100

y is it just becoz we don't kid ourselves that love exists that we are bitter sour people?

im sorry to have to break this to u but the tooth fairy doesn't exist, father christamas is also a lie and love also brances from the same tree

a pack of lies to make people feel better (i s'pose it does its job, so what am i whinging about) 😃

isn't it the guyz who r suppose to be all cynical bout this 'soppy love' notion :?:

Because that's how much love I got, Salma, and you're being a sourpuss. What you're calling 'soppy love' is just something you saw on telly. Real life is much, much better than 'soppy love'. Also, you and the people around you lose out. Do you know how much your parents love you?

[quote="100"]Because that's how much love I got, Salma, and you're being a sourpuss. What you're calling 'soppy love' is just something you saw on telly. Real life is much, much better than 'soppy love'. Also, you and the people around you lose out. Do you know how much your parents love you?[/quote]

read earlier posts

im not denying the love between parent n child, IT EXISTS loud n clear

but when a guy tells a girl he loves her, (or vice versa), thats when you can start getting worried

I didn't ask if you think that exists, I was much more direct.

Worried about what?

that your being taken 4 a ride