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Marriage » Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?
Aisha (Radiyallaahu `anhu) asked the Prophet of Allah (Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam),
“O Allah’s Apostle! Should the women be asked for their consent to their marriage?” He said, “Yes.” I said, “A virgin, if asked, feels shy and keeps quiet.” He said, “Her silence means her consent.””
Reported by Muslim
Being Pleased With Your Wife
The Messenger of Allah (Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) said,
“A believer must not hate his wife, and if he is displeased with one bad quality in her, then let him be pleased with one that is good in her.”
Marriage » Someone asking for your daughter in marriage
Allah’s Messenger (Sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam) said,
“When someone with whose religion and character you are satisfied asks your daughter in marriage, accede to his request. If you do not do so, there will be temptation on Earth and extensive corruption.”
Comments
Firstly
what if u dont give an answer because if u say NO, all hell will break loose?!
Girls dont immediately get all shy n dont answer
if theyre ok with it they just say yes
as for the last quote!
ha!
Ive known soooooooo many ppl who have rejeced good marriage offers based on outdated traditions
such a shame
salaam brothers and sisters,
i have a little propblem and i would like some advise, a friend of mine ran away from home because she was phisically abused by her parents,however she also has a relationship with a boy, who they both say they truely love each other and they are inseperable.
the boys parents had found out that the girl ran away from home, and they cannot execpt her in their family, but what i have recently found out is that the girl has gone back home and now she wants to marry this boy.
as the boys parents dont want anything to do with this girl, the boy is willing to leave home for this girl and live at the girls house.
Should the couple marry and would it be any sin?
I think there is no problem if they marry. Tell your friend to be coooool, and wait for time. At first they both have to develop themselves, then family will be agree automatically. So till then they must have to be patient to get a nice life. Otherwise they never can be happy... because if any family go opposite of this marriage then they have to suffer hole life. now they are in teenage session, so they have to maintain their mind. they have to control themselves tightly. In teenage session everything will be seem to your against, but really it's not. So advices them to be busy with study.... and carrier.