Finding a marriage partner...

Sajid Iqbal —

salaam

now if you're single and you want to get married...how do you go about finding a husband/wife?

you dont wanna go back home!
you dont wanna marry your cousin!
you dont wanna date!

so what do you do?

Those who are single here... how do you intend to find your marriage partner?

and those who are married how did you find yours?

I've always talked about setting up a revival matrimonial service.... and soon I'm thinking of setting up a matrimonial databse.... only because so many ppl out there cant find a compatible muslim marriage partner!

share your ideas pls...

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TPOS — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 - 20:29

@ funzo the liars = you and ur mates 😛

and don't u know how to treat a girl?? it's not ok to break their heart whatever the age!!

@ Lilly, I'm not going to marry anyone i meet over the net unless i become desperate! ok?!
and if u go on my wall, you should see funzo there, its pretty clear who he is lol 😉

in between london and manchester is bham 😃 great Lilly i can definitely attend your wedding 😛

MuslimBro — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 - 20:44

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]@ Lilly, I'm not going to marry anyone i meet over the net unless i become desperate! ok?![/quote]
That shouldn't take long....

TPOS — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 - 21:02

[quote=MuslimBro][quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]@ Lilly, I'm not going to marry anyone i meet over the net unless i become desperate! ok?![/quote]
That shouldn't take long....[/quote]
:O what?! why?? how dare you say that!! i'm gna meet a great guy iA

😛 😃

s.b.f — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 - 21:39

[quote=You]All you lot are crazy.[/quote]

Seconded.

[quote=Ocean]Do you ever find yourself in a situation when "things" begin to get a little serious and all of a sudden you just feel the need to back-out?[/quote]

Ummmm...specify 'things'

Is there a dilemna over backing out?

You — Sun, 11 Jul 2010 - 21:53

It is expected I guess to be in two minds and wonder what is the best option when there are huge decitions with options.

So... who's the fella?

LookingToSee — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 - 09:26

no worong in backing up, as long as you tell the person.

@blue: i +1 Muslimbro. 😉

pff, why would my wedding me in bermingham when ive never been here, and that would only be if i marry someone from manchester (???)

inshallah you find a great guy and inshallah you find a great guy for me eh? im waiting...

nowt wrong with crazeh, l kinda like revival when its crazeh =D

TPOS — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 - 20:22

[quote=Lilly]

inshallah you find a great guy and inshallah you find a great guy for me eh? im waiting...
[/quote]

Ameen 😛 😃

TPOS — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 - 01:06

[quote=Lilly]i jus gona sit back and reeelax ;)[/quote]

Lol so am i - my friend said she'd find me the right guy 😃

MuslimBro — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 - 01:41

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE][quote=Lilly]i jus gona sit back and reeelax ;)[/quote]

Lol so am i - my friend said she'd find me the right guy 😃 [/quote]
If everyone relied on a friend like you.... that's why You is still single :p

TPOS — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 - 01:50

LOL im sure he's not relying on any friends, i mean theres plenty of "aunties" that are probably sort him out!

and im not totally relying on my friends!

😛 😉

LookingToSee — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 - 02:37

hopefully at 30 i'll be married (with kid?)

and nahh...im not relying on anyone.

i just know i wont be able to run a house. and i still have this fantasy that i will grow taller so until then...

LookingToSee — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 - 02:38

hopefully at 30 i'll be married (with kid?)

and nahh...im not relying on anyone.

i just know i wont be able to run a house. and i still have this fantasy that i will grow taller so until then...

TPOS — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 - 23:34

we need to find a suitable partner first!

and im waaaaay to young to ruin my life ¬_¬

🙂

(and totally off-topic but i was wondering how old is MuslimBro)

MuslimBro — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 - 00:19

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]would you marry someone who doesn't have the same background/ethnicity as you? [/quote]
Even if I wanted to marry someone who comes from a different background from myself, parents will have a problem with it, like many other other Asian parents.... or am I generalising?

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]we need to find a suitable partner first!

and im waaaaay to young to ruin my life ¬_¬[/quote]
Why would marrying ruin your life?

There are people I know who married when studying to protect their imaan. Just because one gets married doesn't mean that they need to start having children immediately. Some people delay having children until they are financially stable or when they can they can dedicate enough time or can take on the responsibility of having children. The girl can also stipulate that she wants to finish her education and/or work after marriage. Marriage can be very flexible... and I'm not talking about mutah marriage here.

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE](and totally off-topic but i was wondering how old is MuslimBro)[/quote]
I won't say, but if you read the posts I've posted in the past then you might know...

LookingToSee — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 - 01:08

about the ethnicity thing. alhamdoulillah, only ONE of my cousin got married to someone from the same ethnicity. we all seem to go for different ethnicities. no problem with parents hamdoulillah.

about this...my mum wants a different ethnicity for her in-laws...-.-

Noor. that includes you.

and i dont think marriage ruins your life, im hoping to marry while studying, im htinking its gona be more fun. inshallah

TPOS — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 - 01:19

[quote=MuslimBro][quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]would you marry someone who doesn't have the same background/ethnicity as you? [/quote]
Even if I wanted to marry someone who comes from a different background from myself, parents will have a problem with it, like many other other Asian parents.... or am I generalising?

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE]we need to find a suitable partner first!

and im waaaaay to young to ruin my life ¬_¬[/quote]
Why would marrying ruin your life?

There are people I know who married when studying to protect their imaan. Just because one gets married doesn't mean that they need to start having children immediately. Some people delay having children until they are financially stable or when they can they can dedicate enough time or can take on the responsibility of having children. The girl can also stipulate that she wants to finish her education and/or work after marriage. Marriage can be very flexible... and I'm not talking about mutah marriage here.

[quote=ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE](and totally off-topic but i was wondering how old is MuslimBro)[/quote]
I won't say, but if you read the posts I've posted in the past then you might know...[/quote]

lol i was just kidding about the ruining my life thing!

[i think ur like 21/22]

and yeh i get what you mean about the parents thing!

LookingToSee — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 - 01:44

[quote=MuslimBro][quote=Lilly]about this...my mum wants a different ethnicity for her in-laws...-.-

Noor. that includes you.[/quote]
You all related?[/quote]

wiat what?? no, noor said "just all of you get married" i said that includes you. nope not related to Noor.