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"*DUST*" wrote:
with regards to privacy and concealment of sins, i thought its worth noting that we are not meant to tell anyone of our misdeeds, nor should they ask - people usually take this to mean 'dont boast about your sins' but its literally: if someone asks 'did u do XYZ' (in the first place they shouldnt be asking)

Do you have a source (Quranic/Sunnah evidence) for this?

"Admin" wrote:

Saying the above, I feel a slight hypocrite saying I think is at schools every kid should be dope-checked atleast twice a year. Without warning.

loooool Bruv you make me laff.

May ALLAH keep you happy ameen.

Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar

"(*_Shazan" wrote:
"*DUST*" wrote:
with regards to privacy and concealment of sins, i thought its worth noting that we are not meant to tell anyone of our misdeeds, nor should they ask - people usually take this to mean 'dont boast about your sins' but its literally: if someone asks 'did u do XYZ' (in the first place they shouldnt be asking)

Do you have a source (Quranic/Sunnah evidence) for this?


The Prophet (s.a.w) said, "Believers see their sins as if they were sitting at the foot of a mountain and feared that it may fall on them, while the corrupt see their sins as if they were a mere fly that flew by their nose." [Bukhari and Muslim]

The Prophet (s.a.w) said, “From the excellence of a man’s Islam is to leave that which does not concern him.” [transmitted by Tirmidhi and others]

and this opinion is by the consensus of scholars, here's a scholarly opinion: http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=2607&CATE=101(link is external)

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"Med" wrote:
"Admin" wrote:

Saying the above, I feel a slight hypocrite saying I think is at schools every kid should be dope-checked atleast twice a year. Without warning.

loooool Bruv you make me laff.

May ALLAH keep you happy ameen.

I think kids taking drugs is a very serious issue that bneeds to be nipped at the bud. (Pun not intended)

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

I hate nosy people, i absolutely cannot stand nosy people! Its why, when how, even when its not their business.

My parents are not nosy at all however dad does occasionaly open sis's mail and she gets soo annoyed. If my parents went thru my fone it wouldnt bother me but i hate my older bro goin through it for the simple reason being i dont get on with him at times.

I just realised i had my diary lying in my room so gona get rid of it not cuz i dont trust my family but cuz its too private and i dont need it no more :evil:

"Angel" wrote:
I just realised i had my diary lying in my room so gona get rid of it not cuz i dont trust my family but cuz its too private and i dont need it no more :evil:

aww dont do that to it! Sad u never know how useful those thoughts may be in the future... dont u have any good hiding places in ur room?

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"*DUST*" wrote:
"Angel" wrote:
I just realised i had my diary lying in my room so gona get rid of it not cuz i dont trust my family but cuz its too private and i dont need it no more :evil:

aww dont do that to it! Sad u never know how useful those thoughts may be in the future... dont u have any good hiding places in ur room?

I dont wana keep it, it brings back bad/sad memories which i rather get rid of...

"Angel" wrote:
"*DUST*" wrote:

aww dont do that to it! Sad u never know how useful those thoughts may be in the future... dont u have any good hiding places in ur room?

I dont wana keep it, it brings back bad/sad memories which i rather get rid of...


oh ok, i meant if ur sole reason for destroying it is coz someone may read it, then IMO u shud keep it and just hide it well instead. but ofcourse if the memories themselves are worth discarding, then fair enuf...

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"*DUST*" wrote:

oh ok, i meant if ur sole reason for destroying it is coz someone may read it, then IMO u shud keep it and just hide it well instead. but ofcourse if the memories themselves are worth discarding, then fair enuf...

Its just that way i kinda got carried away and wrote EVERYTHIN and now lookin back at it, it wasnt even worth writing down and some were upseting memories which should really have been buried long b4...but its still hard to get rid of bad memories, i dont knw why :?

"Angel" wrote:
"*DUST*" wrote:

oh ok, i meant if ur sole reason for destroying it is coz someone may read it, then IMO u shud keep it and just hide it well instead. but ofcourse if the memories themselves are worth discarding, then fair enuf...

Its just that way i kinda got carried away and wrote EVERYTHIN and now lookin back at it, it wasnt even worth writing down and some were upseting memories which should really have been buried long b4...but its still hard to get rid of bad memories, i dont knw why :?

I do that too.

I never recall or like to read about bad stuff that happened in my life. It's easy for me to block stuff out.

Speaking of privacy….I think one strongly feels offended when people try to invade someone’s privacy especially if they’re not even in the wrong.

My nan has a very annoying habit of calling me on my mobile and asking me who I’ m with but when I tell her who I’m with…she asks to speak to that person as well, just to confirm that I’m telling the truth?!

Sometimes I laugh it off as I have nothing to hide…after all she does that with everyone. Even her grown sons who are well into their 30’s…

lol you should mess with her sometime and say somebody you are obviously not hanging out with - like the Queen - and then insist that she talk to "the Queen" for about an our.

You can tell her all about being the Queen, and your troubles with Charles et cetera et cetera.

"Don Karnage" wrote:
lol you should mess with her sometime and say somebody you are obviously not hanging out with - like the Queen - and then insist that she talk to "the Queen" for about an our.

You can tell her all about being the Queen, and your troubles with Charles et cetera et cetera.

Lol!

You have an intresting way of thinking. Nah, its wrong to wind up old people.

They're already fragile in their thinking as it is...

"MuslimSister" wrote:
"Don Karnage" wrote:
lol you should mess with her sometime and say somebody you are obviously not hanging out with - like the Queen - and then insist that she talk to "the Queen" for about an our.

You can tell her all about being the Queen, and your troubles with Charles et cetera et cetera.

Lol!

You have an intresting way of thinking. Nah, its wrong to wind up old people.

They're already fragile in their thinking as it is...

lol in other words "Dave... thats demented"

"Don Karnage" wrote:

lol in other words "Dave... thats demented"

..Well I wouldnt have used those words myself. But yeah...lol

One just needs a LOT of patience with old people...and a sense of humour.

"MuslimSister" wrote:
"Don Karnage" wrote:

lol in other words "Dave... thats demented"

..Well I wouldnt have used those words myself. But yeah...lol

One just needs a LOT of patience with old people...and a sense of humour.


Lol

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"MuslimSister" wrote:
"Don Karnage" wrote:

lol in other words "Dave... thats demented"

..Well I wouldnt have used those words myself. But yeah...lol

One just needs a LOT of patience with old people...and a sense of humour.

lol I don't suppose one could compensate one for the other

I have nothing to hide

I couldnt care less if my fone is checked out or letters are opened

BUT I dont like people hiding stuff frm me-esp if they close to me

thats why I'm known as snoopy

I'm always going down my sisters and brotehrs stuff :twisted:

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:

thats why I'm known as snoopy

I'm always going down my sisters and brotehrs stuff :twisted:

lol i've been known to do that.

But only when i know/suspect they're hiding things from me.

For knowledge is power... i can always use it to my advantage later... hahahahahaha.

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"Seraphim" wrote:

lol i've been known to do that.

But only when i know/suspect they're hiding things from me.

For knowledge is power... i can always use it to my advantage later... hahahahahaha.

LOL

I dont black mail people-I aint as evil as u :roll:

I just feel I have a RIGHT to know Dirol

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"Seraphim" wrote:

lol i've been known to do that.

But only when i know/suspect they're hiding things from me.

For knowledge is power... i can always use it to my advantage later... hahahahahaha.

LOL

I dont black mail people-I aint as evil as u :roll:

I just feel I have a RIGHT to know Dirol

Blackmails such a terrible word.

I prefer to think of it as an incentive for people to come clean themselves.

lol, im terrible when i get really suspicious... i seach everything... thru their stuff... their phone... their emails.... :oops:

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"Seraphim" wrote:

lol, im terrible when i get really suspicious... i seach everything... thru their stuff... their phone... their emails.... :oops:

thats paranoia mate

get it checked out

I'm not an undercover snoop

I always open letters and then tell that person ASAP what I've done

"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"Seraphim" wrote:

lol, im terrible when i get really suspicious... i seach everything... thru their stuff... their phone... their emails.... :oops:

thats paranoia mate

get it checked out

I'm not an undercover snoop

I always open letters and then tell that person ASAP what I've done

no not paranoide... i just dont like unsolved puzzles.

people in my house are puzzles for me to solve.

take that however u want.

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It is really bad that.

Islam does protect privacy.

Infact if you open someone elses letter without permission, itsgetting their 'permission' to enter hell.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

"Admin" wrote:

Infact if you open someone elses letter without permission, itsgetting their 'permission' to enter hell.

what if u know u have permission anyway?

even if it hasnt been said?

dunno.

"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.

"Admin" wrote:
dunno.

lol

Shes got you there bro Wink

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"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:

I always open letters and then tell that person ASAP what I've done

As long as you tell its okay, what annoys me is when someone reads a new message on my fone and does not tell me and then a couple of days later when im really bored ill go thru my fone only to find that i have a few messages that i never knew about :evil:

"Seraphim" wrote:

Blackmails such a terrible word.

I prefer to think of it as an incentive for people to come clean themselves.

lol, im terrible when i get really suspicious... i seach everything... thru their stuff... their phone... their emails.... :oops:

Mez hide everythin from this nosy brother of yours!!

I hate nosy people, my sis's fone bleeps late at night i dont chek it (cuz i knw they gona be borin messages lol), i knw passwords to her hotmail/yahoo but i dont ever check them, cuz i aint nosy, its sad to be nosy!

"Angel" wrote:
"Seraphim" wrote:

Blackmails such a terrible word.

I prefer to think of it as an incentive for people to come clean themselves.

lol, im terrible when i get really suspicious... i seach everything... thru their stuff... their phone... their emails.... :oops:

Mez hide everythin from this nosy brother of yours!!

I hate nosy people, my sis's fone bleeps late at night i dont chek it (cuz i knw they gona be borin messages lol), i knw passwords to her hotmail/yahoo but i dont ever check them, cuz i aint nosy, its sad to be nosy!

I dont check Mez stuff... that would be really sad.

Besides it would be very uncool for me to go thru her stuff.

Besides shes never given me a reason to (FYI we got on really well and we talk about pretty much everything...after all i am her older brother). Anyways shes bit boring... nothing interesting ever happens to her.

Nope the one person whose constantly on my snoopascope is my older brother... hes always hiding something.

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"Seraphim" wrote:

I dont check Mez stuff... that would be really sad.

Besides it would be very uncool for me to go thru her stuff.

Besides shes never given me a reason to (FYI we got on really well and we talk about pretty much everything...after all i am her older brother). Anyways shes bit boring... nothing interesting ever happens to her.

Nope the one person whose constantly on my snoopascope is my older brother... hes always hiding something.

True a guy goin thru a girls stuff is sad....i feel sorry for your bro, how would u feel if sum1 went through your stuff thinkin your hiding somethin.

I am pretty big on privacy which is why i would freak out if someone whent thru my stuff and which is why i wouldnt go thru anyone's stuff.

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