I have a number of issues with this forum. Ever since I have joined I have been insulted, looked down upon and made fun out off. The girls in the girl’s only forum made a conspiracy against me and have banned me from that section. I’m sure MS played the victim to have me banned from there. If I share my views on some topic everyone jumps on me. I do not come from a happy home and its upsetting that wherever I go I am subjected to the same kind of abuse again and again.
I believe that singletons who claim to be happy are liars because a girl can never feel complete without a partner. In Islam the man must cater for every single need and demand of his wife otherwise he is sinning and any man who can not provide for this family is less of a man. Why is that so difficult for people to accept? There are a number of self righteous girls in this forum some who ignore me completely and do not respond to my PM’s and others who speak down to me. The amount of lying in this forum is unbelievable and its frustrating that people can not see through the charade that some members put on. Some members claim to be young students in University studying in a full time course and also act as if they are involved many Islamic activities at the same time. All you have to do is divide the number of hours in the day and you’ll see that it doesn’t add up. If I make a comment to one member it doesn’t take long for a number of faithful dogs to quickly jump to their defence. This shows that everyone here knows each other personally and has a problem with accepting outsiders into this forum.
It is clear that most singletons cover up their depressed states by claiming that they're single and happy and by putting down people in relationships.
This facade fools no one.Oi "im in a relo n im da happy gal,"
yea u Ramz,
dis is soooo 4u
jus quote it n remove all the 7s and 3s to understand the message...
its soo 4u..[b],---
l-- ,-. ,-. !
l l_/ l_/ !__[/b]You need to grow up. Just because you're single and frustrated that doesnt mean you should take your anger out on me.
haha nooo.
actually giv me some growin pillz
den i mite consider growin up
darlin...
Salam,I have banned you temporarily from the sister's forum and we will decide whether we should allow you back or not, this is the second time you have broken the rules and have posted stuff from the girl's forum onto the main forum. Ramz you are mature and wise to know that this is not on, some sisters use the girls forums to share their very personal thoughts/problems and it's rather embarassing/upsetting for them to have their stuff posted onto the main forum without their permission.
I do hope your attitude changes coz surely it's not going to get you anywhere in life.
Wasalam
This is the kind of abuse I am subjected to here. Would the manager of this forum take action against this conspiracy.
Ramz this is no conspiracy and Muslim sis had nothing to do with this, it was my own decision. Ok the first time you posted stuff from the girls forum onto the main forum, we told you not to do it again. Then you did it again, surely you should know no one is going to accept this as these are some people's personal posts that are put onto this forum, its not fair.
I am sorry if you are having family problems but you are the one who is accusing people of being liars, not everyone is happy to listen to such false accusations about them.
Personally I don't think I have done anything wrong with deleting you from that forum coz i feel to keep the privacy of the other girls it was required. Plus its a temp ban so if admin decides otherwise thats up to him.
Ramz with all due respect, I think you read too much into things and have too much time on your hands.
In future please refrain from accusing people of "lying" and I'm sure we'll all get along just fine.
may i ask if and where i fit into all this - because u seem to be generalising about 'the girls' but i dont remember ever being condescending or rude to you.
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Assalamu Alaikum,
Ramz you're not the only one with family problems. Everyone has problems and other personal issues, some just like to keep it to themselves. That's no justification for your behaviour, so please don't play the victim card.
I have full sympathy for the hard life you have at home, but I don't take kindly to the insults and highly cynical comments you've been throwing at anyone who happens to disagree with your views. This is a discussion forum we have a right to disagree with each other in a polite way. Sure sometimes we may fall out, but we apologise and get on. There's no need to hold grudges over petty things like this, or believe members hate you.
Granted some of us may have replied sarcastically to you, I admit i made a sarcastic reply to you. But in light of the insult you hurled at me it was nothing, I never insulted you.
If you feel like I've done you wrong PM me by all means, but there's no need to air issues you have with particular members on the public forum, it's tasteless.
I don't think there's a vendetta against you at all. We haven't sat together and discussed you. Personally I don't think you should be banned from the sisters forum as long as you can keep issues discussed in the sisters area private from the the main forum. That's the whole point of having a sisters forum. I mean how would you like it if you told me something in confidence and I went and told someone else?
true, Ramz shouldn't have called every other member a liar when they disagreed with her. but then again Rubz and LilSis weren't exactly polite either.
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Soz Dust sis but I was just givin
Ramz a taste of her own medicine to see how she feels..
thats all..
and I think LilSis was doin the same..
[size=7]no hard feelinz[/size]
Learn To Love The People Who Are Willing To Love You At Present. Forget The People In The Past & Thank Them For Hurting You, Which Lead You To Love The People You Have Right Now..
Go easy on each other, girls. Seems Ramz has been feeling upset and other loyal contributors would want to get across they don't mean to cause upset. You've all enriched the conversations here no end.
[size=9]Whatever you do, know that I will always love you. Or else.[/size]
considering the amount of crap this girl has come out with-i think i've been VERY leninet with her
if i wasnt so busy with exams and revision-i would have proper laid into her
u guys overlook too much-i cant
thats a LIE
:roll: :roll:
thats my sister who ignores her cos of the amount of stupid personal questions ramz asks her 24/7 incl pestering her for her number
another dig at my sister-its not nice having ur sister being accused of being a liar
she's calling us dogs
another incorrect assumption
-its lame that ppl turn on the tears and accuse others of conspircicy just when others dont agree with their views
nearly everyone here is a student or goes to work
most have us have better things to do then conspir against one another
lol Ramz girl you make me lauf.
You're nuttier than a fruit cake in a pistachio factory.
You seriously need to chill... despite what anyone says the world does not revolve around you. We dont nearly enough care or take anyone on here seriously enough to start a conspiracy. But if you're gonna act like an a$$... thats generally a turn off for most people. Hence the banning.
Thats just your victim mentality and paranoia talking. You see its not the other places you go that you're subjected to 'abuse' you tend to bring that out in other people. So no matter where you go if you continue to act like this you'll find enemies where ever you go. Its not us... its you.
I have to say; ive only ever met MrAdmin, Ed, and Hayder. Ive never met anyone else of here and even the people i have met, i dont know them personally... i know 'of' them. The rest of us know each other only via this forum since we've been here for some time... it dont mean we actually know, meet, recognise them.
You need to relax a little more and stop thinking everyones against you coz if they're not they will be if you accuse them enough times. Im sensing a few un-resolved "issues" here that maybe you need to share with a overly-qualified person in a long white coat.
And copying out of MSN... its not cool... its pointless as most of it doesnt apply to us (aswell as boring). And we dont all "jump" on you, if we did you'd certainly feel it. If you're going to say something stupid then you've pretty much gotta be ready to be drop-kicked.
Soooo in conclusion; lay off the dooby, cheer up (take prozac if it'll help), and stop looking for love and let it find you (coz seriously... you're killing the topic).
Back in BLACK
yo dont say that she mite make a new thread with our individual names on it saying so and so said that....
seraphz rite,
Ramz u mite wana see a psychiatrist 4 defo cuz
it mite help u develop in the human brain system,
you get me..
Learn To Love The People Who Are Willing To Love You At Present. Forget The People In The Past & Thank Them For Hurting You, Which Lead You To Love The People You Have Right Now..
It wont win her any simpathy if she does.
She'll only tick the mods off.
Back in BLACK
not helping... :roll:
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right
so its MY fault that she copy pastes stuff from the girls only forum and accuses us of lying
did my "insults" provoke her into doing that and making this thread?
:roll:
are u denying that you insulted her just as she did you?
i'm not condoning what she did, far from it, i just think tit-for-tat isn't getting us anywhere.
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This is what i dont get with this forum , it is a islamic forum where people share their views and opinions, why do so many of you have to go personal and attack each others characters roll , when someone gives an opinion which you do not agree with just respond to that opinion not the person
erm... guys and girls calm down.
Can we draw a line somewhere? Anywhere?
How about over there?
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Here you go Mr Admin
____________________________________
theres you're line
Back in BLACK
nice line.
I likey.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
I don't think tit for tat gets us anywhere...but nor does ignoring petty, slanderous remarks.
I have never, ever insulted Ramz, so I do not understand what her personal issue with me is.
There is a difference between sayin "this is my opinion and its ok if anyone disagrees" from sayin, "this is my opinion who ever doesn't agree is lying"! I don't come under Ramz generalisations and I find it annoyin that she thinks she can place everyone in one category.
Ramz care to explain? unless you have a valid reason for insulting MuslimSis and others, can we please put an end to this...
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I like you Ramz! I think you're sweet and your posts are fun.
[i][size=7](was that nice or creepy?)[/size][/i]
*On this vein, our biggest complaint from people is that we are very cliquesh and it's difficult to jump into the crew. I'm starting to think that's true - not necessarily in a malicious way all the time, but like generally the oldies only talk to each other and check up on each other. We need to be more welcoming of new people and drop this whole "revivalers v. Newbies" thing.
Expand our circle of friendship as Dr. Phil would say.
I hate Dr. Phil.
Who's Dr. Phil?
lol. i think we have made an effort to welcome newbies, the majority would probably feel we've been welcoming enough? come on newbies back me up on this one.
ofcourse even one person feeling left out is not acceptable so Ramz was right in bringing her concerns to our attention, and once she's replied to my last post hopefully we'll know we're good.
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lol
Actually that's not exactly true, maybe at times we do tend to check up on the regulars but that's coz we know them so well....also in the old old forum, aphro was a newbi wen we had our "group" and we welcomed her happily, same with mez, tara and others...(wher are they all :? )
I miss Aphro loads
dr. phil is a crazy american psychologist who comes on telly and micromanages peoples families for them. i bet a few years down the line it'll be 'revealed' that he has a dysfunctional family himself. :roll:
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Ok....how do you know him huh....unless you like watching his shows
lol no thanx. watched one show and was annoyed enough to be put off forever. i dunno if you get it here anyway, i had the misfortune of seeing it when i was in the US.
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I'm so sorry
I prefer watching Trisha....oops....not that I watch it anymore :roll:
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