A friend of mine was ‘noticed’ at a wedding once and solely based on this she agreed to marry the guy who had ‘noticed’ her.

I don’t understand why on Earth she agreed to such a set up…did the guy not care how she thinks, what she believes in or what her thoughts are on life? And how could she be happy knowing that she’s only being appreciated for her looks and nothing else?

Another thing with her was…she had very in-your-face personality. She was one of my best mates in high school, she was always getting into trouble and making me laugh – I loved her, she was everything I never had the guts to be…..her personality was something that no one could overlook….she was one of those girls who you either loved or hated…and if you loved her, it had to be cos you loved her loud personality.

Anyway, to cut the long story short. Her marriage broke up after a short while.

He couldn’t accept the way she was as a person…but he was stupid enough not to find out how she was like as a person before proposing.

that's really sad MS. did they literally not even meet/talk once before agreeing to get married? :?

"*DUST*" wrote:

that's really sad MS. did they literally not even meet/talk once before agreeing to get married? :?

She came from a traditional/cultural background.

"Seraphim" wrote:

Sup

They say you can marry a woman for:

a.) her beauty

b.) her wealth

c.) piety

Its recommended you go for (c) but which one, or which other characteristics would you prefer?

I married mine because I love her. That's mighty important.

Other than that I think class, manners, patience, compassion, intelligence, modesty, a good homemaker, and elegance are important to me. I'm fortunate that my wife is everything I ever wanted from a woman, and frankly she's still a kid.