TRADITIONAL OR NOT

Ramz

A general questions for the guys here. Do most guys prefer their wives to dress traditionally. Like Sari or shalwaar kameez or would they rather their wives wear jeans, skirts, dresses. Or are most guys not fussed?

Another old wives tale that I heard from mum is that men dont like girls who wear "english clothes". :roll:

And how many guys here dress traditionally and how often?

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Fatima — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 16:01

At the time of the Prophet Muhammed ﷺ they probably were in fashion and maybe after that too, my history is no good.

You — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 16:20

True.

The Prophet wore the clothes worn by the people in that culture.

They became sunnah becuse he wore them.

The Prophet ﷺ lived a simple life. But he was a trendsetter. Others followed him, and still do. What he liked became like by others.

shawana — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 19:00

[quote="muslim_kuri"]my mums like that with the kameez lengths...i personally think a kameez shorter than knee length dont look nice -[/quote]

true. girls who wear short dress below the bum look stuck up

muslim_kuri — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 19:03

[quote="Admin"]The Prophet ﷺ lived a simple life. But he was a trendsetter. Others followed him, and still do. What he liked became like by others.[/quote]

Subhan'Allah thats the beauty of our beloved Nabi (peace be upon Him and His family) :!:

poison ivy — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 19:22

[quote="hijaban"][quote="muslim_kuri"]my mums like that with the kameez lengths...i personally think a kameez shorter than knee length dont look nice -[/quote]

true. girls who wear short dress below the bum look stuck up[/quote]

below bum? as in covering the bum rite?

star — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 19:36

[quote="rupunzel"][quote="hijaban"][quote="muslim_kuri"]my mums like that with the kameez lengths...i personally think a kameez shorter than knee length dont look nice -[/quote]

true. girls who wear short dress below the bum look stuck up[/quote]

below bum? as in covering the bum rite?[/quote]

i suppose below bum means covering bum...BUT if they gonna wear one just below the bottom they might aswell not wear one,not much of a kameez is it.

duno how below the bottom shes on about

muslim_kuri — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 19:42

[quote="naj"]if they gonna wear one just below the bottom they might aswell not wear one,not much of a kameez is it.
[/quote]

agree - it spoils the traditional dress i think

fizzy1 — Wed, 28 Dec 2005 - 19:49

some of mine are just above knee

some are really long

depends on outfit

sometimes wear kameez over jeans, thats usually like a kaftan

traditional always at home- and decent, dnt know when will have visitors

non traditional out of home, thats kinda standard, and all relatives and family accept that.

but if wear jeans and top, usually wear chaadhar with it

MuslimSister — Thu, 29 Dec 2005 - 10:02

Salaam

I love the traditional get up…I love the accessories that go with it I love wearing matching bangles, jumke (asian earings) and the dupatta (chiffon scarf).

I think Asian girls suit asian clothes. If I was getting dressed up for an occasion I'd automatically reach for an asian suit.

I think guys should wear Asian clothes a bit more often...At least on Fridays or something.

As a child I’ve had it drummed into me to wear Asian clothes cos they’re not as decent as English clothes…the first thing I’d do when I’d get home from school was change out of my school uniform.

And with Asian clothes, even if the kameez is tight a duppatta covers well.

80% of the tight I wear Asian clothes at home…and when dads gone abroad and there's ony girls at home I wear jeans...

I too am always non traditional outside the home.

Wasalaam

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 11:07

Traditional clothes all the way

u just need to buy asian woman mag to see how cool they are

but non traditional outside the home

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 11:23

[quote="Admin"]I wear pakistani clothes about twice a year. Unless there is a wedding I am forced to attend.

[/quote]

Whys dat Mr Admin?

guys shud wear asian clothes from time to time

IMO they suit all black shalwar kameez

You — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 11:57

Got nothing against them, but its easier to slip into western clothes in the morning even before the brain has fully woken up.

Seraphim — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 11:58

[quote="Admin"]Got nothing against them, but its easier to slip into western clothes in the morning even before the brain has fully woken up.[/quote]

is it?

I find the reverse to be true

You — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 12:00

I do my ironing last minutes.

They takes ages to iron.

Besides I like looking like a slob. Shalwar Kameez is abit smart...

:twisted:

Seraphim — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 12:01

[quote="Admin"]I do my ironing last minutes.

They takes ages to iron.

Besides I like looking like a slob. Shalwar Kameez is abit smart...

:twisted:[/quote]

lol i getcha...

why do you like looking like a slob?

I prefer smart and casual.

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 15:04

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]guys shud wear asian clothes from time to time

IMO they suit all black shalwar kameez[/quote]
hmm, i was gonna say 'shalwar kameez dont suit guys' but i was thinking of those narsty fake-white ones, i guess black wouldnt be too bad.

sherwanis are cool though.

star — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 15:06

[quote="Aasiyah"] but i was thinking of those narsty fake-white ones,.[/quote]

fake ones eh??, i think shalwar kameez look good

[quote="Aasiyah"] sherwanis are cool though.[/quote]

yes but i dont like the typa trousers. my cousin wore one on his wedding with them stick trousers he looked funny.

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 15:30

[quote="naj"][quote="Aasiyah"] but i was thinking of those narsty fake-white ones,.[/quote]

fake ones eh??, i think shalwar kameez look good[/quote]
lol, by 'fake-white' i meant that wierd colour which has a tinge of blue to it, know what i mean? esp. Paki shalwar kameez have that. 😉

[quote="naj"][quote="Aasiyah"] sherwanis are cool though.[/quote]

yes but i dont like the typa trousers. my cousin wore one on his wedding with them stick trousers he looked funny.[/quote]
i think u are referring to 'churidaar' trousers. 😂 yeh they dont look all that on men. but the sherwani itself is cool.

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 15:41

[quote="Med"]I'm just gonna have a black sherwani inshaALLAH.I aint really into fashion but I like to look good in thobe. What looks wicked is wearing a white thobe and on top wearing a black sherwani. Its simple but mashaALLAH looks smart.

But normally Im in white thobe and black waistcoat. Simplicity for men is best.[/quote]
nah, u know wot wud look cool: a white thobe with a black amamah. 8)

star — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 15:51

hmmmmm... imamahs (you look strict in them)

what is a lunghi ?

[quote="Aasiyah"][lol, by 'fake-white' i meant that wierd colour which has a tinge of blue to it, know what i mean? esp. Paki shalwar kameez have that. 😉
[/quote]

yea i know what you on about....i didnt know they were fake white, thought they a colour in its-self...bare people walk around it them..

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 16:03

[quote="naj"]what is a lunghi ?[/quote]
lol its summat men tie around their waist, like a skirt. indians wear it, as do most arabs (under their thobes). 😂

[quote="naj"][quote="Aasiyah"]lol, by 'fake-white' i meant that wierd colour which has a tinge of blue to it, know what i mean? esp. Paki shalwar kameez have that. :wink:[/quote]

yea i know what you on about....i didnt know they were fake white, thought they a colour in its-self...bare people walk around it them..[/quote]
eww, it should be either white OR blue, not a mix of both. (not that i like either anyway.) 😉

star — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 16:20

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="naj"]what is a lunghi ?[/quote]
lol its [b]summat [/b]men tie around their waist, like a skirt. indians wear it, as do most arabs (under their thobes). 😂

[/quote]

lol ..med mentioned lunghi imamah....so that means it somehow goes down the back under the thobe and tied around the waist...

???

i dunno what am saying. :? he can explain it himself

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 16:39

[quote="naj"][quote="Aasiyah"][quote="naj"]what is a lunghi ?[/quote]
lol its [b]summat [/b]men tie around their waist, like a skirt. indians wear it, as do most arabs (under their thobes). 😂

[/quote]

lol ..med mentioned lunghi imamah....so that means it somehow goes down the back under the thobe and tied around the waist...

???

i dunno what am saying. :? he can explain it himself[/quote]
he he, aww man, imagine that! 😂

nah its just a peice of cloth, usually cotton, i guess it can also be used for an amamah.

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 17:03

[quote="Admin"]Got nothing against them, but its easier to slip into western clothes in the morning even before the brain has fully woken up.[/quote]

makes sense

IMO guys shud wear english clothes most of the time-cos they work and that

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 18:00

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]IMO guys shud wear english clothes most of the time-cos they work and that[/quote]
someone i know was thinking of wearing niqab. for moral support, her hubby said that when she starts wearing it, he'll start wearing his thobe to work. and thats exactly wot happened. 😃

MuslimSisLilSis — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 18:02

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]IMO guys shud wear english clothes most of the time-cos they work and that[/quote]
someone i know was thinking of wearing niqab. for moral support, her hubby said that when she starts wearing it, he'll start wearing his thobe to work. and thats exactly wot happened. :D[/quote]

thats cute

but realistically speaking-how many guys here would go to work in such a get up?

and wouldnt this dress effect their job opportunity's?

*DUST* — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 18:10

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Aasiyah"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]IMO guys shud wear english clothes most of the time-cos they work and that[/quote]
someone i know was thinking of wearing niqab. for moral support, her hubby said that when she starts wearing it, he'll start wearing his thobe to work. and thats exactly wot happened. :D[/quote]

thats cute

but realistically speaking-how many guys here would go to work in such a get up?

and wouldnt this dress effect their job opportunity's?[/quote]
wel this girl's hubby worked for IBM i think, he'd already got the job, and no1 seemed to mind his 'get up'... 😉

Shabana — Fri, 30 Dec 2005 - 18:21

I usually tend to wear shalwaar kameez. I am not into glittery or flashy clothes, or ones that are brighly coloured. And I'd never wear a sari!