Hunger, Exams and Songs

Dave —

[b]SPLIT FROM MARRAIGE THREAD[/b]

Hi Med

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You — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:27

lol.

This will get interesting!

But its my bedtime.

PM me if anything needs removing.

equanimity — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:28

your american clearly dont understand our slang

please refrain from stating your wierd filthy thoughts here

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:30

[quote="RAF786"]your american clearly dont understand our slang

please refrain from stating your wierd filthy thoughts here[/quote]

lol you're the one constantly making peculiar references to homosexuality RAF.

I'm just wondering why.

Angel — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:31

[quote="RAF786"]dons the girl[/quote]

no i am askin who is Dave refering to as a girl?

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:32

[quote="Don Karnage"]lol jayda is her nickname because everybody mispronounces her surname "Tejada" which is supposed to be Teyhada, but under the southern dialect is TehJayda.[/quote]
whose - annette's? 🙂

[quote="Don Karnage"]I'm not going to be harsh on them... but i'm definitely not going to trust them either. - Theyve given me no reason to[/quote]
wots that ur always saying about being the 'better person' when someone's putting u down or arguing meaninglessly? surely ur parents are deserving of this attitude... :?:

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:33

[quote="Admin"]lol.

This will get interesting!

But its my bedtime.[/quote]

Goodnight Admin

[quote="Admin"]PM me if anything needs removing.[/quote]

lol well you could start with RAF

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:34

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="RAF786"]asiyah chill out man

and irf is lucky to have a freind like me[/quote]

She's a girl actually...

Why are you so obsessed with guys?[/quote]
lol, dave, tho ur probably right about raf, 'man' is colloquially used as 'mate' or any such term, doesnt necessarily refer to males.

equanimity — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:35

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="RAF786"]your american clearly dont understand our slang

please refrain from stating your wierd filthy thoughts here[/quote]

lol you're the one constantly making peculiar references to homosexuality RAF.

I'm just wondering why.[/quote]

its just that your mind interprets what it wants
maybe you were abused as a child
or your parents never loved you enough

your unconcious thoughts are finally coming out
see a doctor

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:36

[quote="RAF786"]asiyah chill out man

and irf is lucky to have a freind like me[/quote]
i am chilled out, ur clearly the one who needs to take a chill pill. :roll:

and actually, i feel sorry for irfan that he has a friend like u. :?

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:36

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"]lol jayda is her nickname because everybody mispronounces her surname "Tejada" which is supposed to be Teyhada, but under the southern dialect is TehJayda.[/quote]
whose - annette's? 🙂 [/quote]

lol yes...

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"]I'm not going to be harsh on them... but i'm definitely not going to trust them either. - Theyve given me no reason to[/quote]
wots that ur always saying about being the 'better person' when someone's putting u down or arguing meaninglessly? surely ur parents are deserving of this attitude... :?:[/quote]

lol... my mom used to get drunk and throw things at me when I was 7+8 because I was "annoying her"

I dunno.. maybe i'm being unduely harsh, I still don't want to cut them any breaks

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:37

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"][quote="RAF786"]asiyah chill out man

and irf is lucky to have a freind like me[/quote]

She's a girl actually...

Why are you so obsessed with guys?[/quote]
lol, dave, tho ur probably right about raf, 'man' is colloquially used as 'mate' or any such term, doesnt necessarily refer to males.[/quote]

lol I know... but since my running theme is that RAF is gay which is why he's always talking about men I figured i'd throw one more jab in there.

Wow i'm reinventing childish...

equanimity — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:40

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="RAF786"]asiyah chill out man

and irf is lucky to have a freind like me[/quote]
i am chilled out, ur clearly the one who needs to take a chill pill. roll

and actually, i feel sorry for irfan that he has a friend like u. ?[/quote]

i have many freinds of ll shapes and size
from the most religious pious person to the gangsters and professionals

im very socialable, probably my best asset

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:41

lol gangstas.

In Britain.

Now I liked Snatch just like the rest of you guys - but come on, British people are too British for gangs.

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:44

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"]I'm not going to be harsh on them... but i'm definitely not going to trust them either. - Theyve given me no reason to[/quote]
wots that ur always saying about being the 'better person' when someone's putting u down or arguing meaninglessly? surely ur parents are deserving of this attitude... :?:[/quote]

lol... my mom used to get drunk and throw things at me when I was 7+8 because I was "annoying her"

I dunno.. maybe i'm being unduely harsh, I still don't want to cut them any breaks[/quote]
i know, uv mentioned wot ur parents were like previously... :? but isnt 'forgiveness' really important in Christianity? and now that ur parents are showing some signs of remorse for how theyv treated u, it would be amazingly christian of u to forgive them, right??

i'm not saying you should be naive and expect everything to be perfect between ur parents and annette, but atleast give them a chance. be as wary as u want, but not disrespectful either.

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:48

[quote="Aasiyah"]i know, uv mentioned wot ur parents were like previously... :? but isnt 'forgiveness' really important in Christianity? and now that ur parents are showing some signs of remorse for how theyv treated u, it would be amazingly christian of u to forgive them, right??

i'm not saying you should be naive and expect everything to be perfect between ur parents and annette, but atleast give them a chance. be as wary as u want, but not disrespectful either.[/quote]

Yea it would be the Christian thing to do - but i've made exceptions before.

I sincerely do not want to have anything to do with either of them and I dont think their recent "remorse" is even remotely genuine

I dunno... I said it a million times before i'm a hypocrite - its easy to be a Christian on Sunday but in real life not so much.

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:54

[quote="Don Karnage"]I sincerely do not want to have anything to do with either of them and I dont think their recent "remorse" is even remotely genuine[/quote]
😢

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 01:59

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"]I sincerely do not want to have anything to do with either of them and I dont think their recent "remorse" is even remotely genuine[/quote]
:cry:[/quote]

Sorry...

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 02:23

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"]I sincerely do not want to have anything to do with either of them and I dont think their recent "remorse" is even remotely genuine[/quote]
:cry:[/quote]

Sorry...[/quote]
wot r U saying sorry for...

although i cud never quite relate to this situation with ur parents, i find it difficult to accept that you'd feel that way about them now that ur grown up and stuf... i dunno maybe things will change when u have ur own kids.

its all very sad... 🙁

judda — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 11:18

dave how do u know she's the one?

erm... this Anette is a catholic right :?:

wot r ya folks gonna say :shock:

and what r ya kids gonna be :?:

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:13

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"][quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"]I sincerely do not want to have anything to do with either of them and I dont think their recent "remorse" is even remotely genuine[/quote]
:cry:[/quote]

Sorry...[/quote]
wot r U saying sorry for...

although i cud never quite relate to this situation with ur parents, i find it difficult to accept that you'd feel that way about them now that ur grown up and stuf... i dunno maybe things will change when u have ur own kids.

its all very sad... :([/quote]

I'll see I guess... the fact of the matter is if they are genuine - as a matter of logic they can't have a "second chance" I can't just smile and say "ohh okay!" then warp back to 4 years of age and go for round two.

I get the feeling more than anything they are afraid of me. - I'll figure something out though.

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:15

[quote="Judda"]dave how do u know she's the one?

erm... this Anette is a catholic right :?:

wot r ya folks gonna say :shock:

and what r ya kids gonna be :?:[/quote]

I've known she's the one for a long time, just always been too young to do anything about it. Yes she's catholic, my parents probably won't be amused since mom doesn't like her and dad does whatever mom wants because he doesn't want to be bothered, lol kids? I have no idea - haven't met them yet.

Angel — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:34

This may sound really nosy, if it is you dont have to answer but have you always not got on with your parents? I suposed it dont help being the only child!

*DUST* — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:39

[quote="Don Karnage"][quote="Judda"]
and what r ya kids gonna be :?:[/quote]
lol kids? I have no idea - haven't met them yet.[/quote]
lol, i think he meant are they gonna be presby or catholic - i assume its the latter.

re: ur parents, ofcourse u cant go back to being 4, but that doesnt mean theres no way left to recover whats left of the relationship.

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:40

[quote="Angel"]This may sound really nosy, if it is you dont have to answer but have you always not got on with your parents? I suposed it dont help being the only child![/quote]

Briefly for like a 2 year stretch when I was "more interesting" but that was it... almost never.

We are completely different people, I was a bit of a mistake and I don't think they ever really wanted me around.

So i've not exactly been a welcome addition to their lives.

Now that mom isn't a dippy trophy wife anymore and realized that i'm pretty much the only real thing she's got she has been trying to get on my good side. I have no intention of letting that work.

Dave — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:44

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Don Karnage"][quote="Judda"]
and what r ya kids gonna be :?:[/quote]
lol kids? I have no idea - haven't met them yet.[/quote]
lol, i think he meant are they gonna be presby or catholic - i assume its the latter.

re: ur parents, ofcourse u cant go back to being 4, but that doesnt mean theres no way left to recover whats left of the relationship.[/quote]

Probably Catholic... I don't really care.

lol there was no relationship to begin with... I don't see how one can recover that.

My parents relationship with me is much like your relationship with one of those books on your shelf that you bought but never read.

You notice it - usually dismiss it or ignore it, however if it's not around you get the strange feeling something is missing.

Angel — Tue, 20 Dec 2005 - 16:50

[quote="Don Karnage"]

Briefly for like a 2 year stretch when I was "more interesting" but that was it... almost never.

We are completely different people, I was a bit of a mistake and I don't think they ever really wanted me around.

So i've not exactly been a welcome addition to their lives.

Now that mom isn't a dippy trophy wife anymore and realized that i'm pretty much the only real thing she's got she has been trying to get on my good side. I have no intention of letting that work.[/quote]

That is such a shame, how they wouldnt want a really nice son like you, thats their loss! I supose you dont be home much then. Maybe your mum has realised what she has done and is tryin to build up a relationship?