If it is your friends that are influencing your decison in indulging in wrong things, have a look at this artlicle, its a real eye-opener and makes you really think: http://www.therevival.co.uk/magazine/august2005/friends.php

The fact that you know what your doin is wrong and your askin for forgiveness shows your a step-ahead. The best thing to do is reflect on your actions, why you are doin it and what benefits your are getin from them.

Also pray to Allah (swt) to give you strength in pleasing Him and the Holy Prophet (saw).

Salaam

Well if you did something that you know was wrong (whatever it was)...you feel regretful, wish that you didnt do it and have done Tobah...then you inshallah should be forgiven.

Iman is like a yo yo...sometimes we feel high and sometimes we feel low.

Sins decrease our level of Iman whilst good deeds increase it.

Friends of course play a huge part in ones life...they can lead you astray or can guide you.

We're only human, prone to making mistakes...as long as you realise the errors of your ways, feels guilty, do Tobah etc...you shoud be fine.

Is something else bothering you?

Wasalaam

Why was my comment deleted?

Bunch of misery-gutses.

Salam

Come on. You can tell us. What did you do.

[b]POST EDITED[/b]

If you tell us the things that you do, then we can tell you the reason why you do them.

Omrow

"RuBz" wrote:

"100man" wrote:

Why was my comment deleted?

Bunch of misery-gutses.

coz ur a duffus
if u aint gna help den plz i beg u go away man

omrow if i cud say wat i done den i wudv but i cant sori
dats jus da way it is

I was helping! Blasted ingrates. Maybe you just want someone to give you a bunch of magazine snippets and wish you luck. [url=http://www.therevival.co.uk/home.php]So good luck![/url]

"100man" wrote:

I was helping! Blasted ingrates.

You said she was whinging, how does that come under the category of helpin, if you gave some advice fair enough but u didnt so you weren't helpin!

Oh yes I was.

"100man" wrote:

Oh yes I was.

Prove it

"Angel" wrote:

"100man" wrote:

Oh yes I was.

Prove it

Fine. She'll have to take my advice and get back to you.

NB Don't mess with my post.

"100man" wrote:

"Angel" wrote:

"99man" wrote:

Oh yes I was.

Prove it

Fine. She'll have to take my advice and get back to you.

nah i dont think she even took u serious...there is a difference between moaning bout somethin and genuinely seeking advice she was doin the latter....

Hardly a reason to delete my post.

"100man" wrote:

Hardly a reason to delete my post.

Forget yours, it was kinda understandable but why mine

ok. which mod has beeen doing all the deleting?

PM me.

and from now on, please leave a reason.

We are humans. we can do right and wrong.

We should be remorseful when doing wrong, and thankful when doing right.

And never brag about either case.

"Admin" wrote:

ok. which mod has beeen doing all the deleting?

PM me.

and from now on, please leave a reason.

We are humans. we can do right and wrong.

We should be remorseful when doing wrong, and thankful when doing right.

And never brag about either case.

[b]Judge, Jury and Excecutioner[/b].

Now there was a great mod.

Whenever he made an appearence everyone shook with fear.

The NewMods could learn alot from him.

"Admin" wrote:

ok. which mod has beeen doing all the deleting?

PM me.

and from now on, please leave a reason.

We are humans. we can do right and wrong.

We should be remorseful when doing wrong, and thankful when doing right.

And never brag about either case.

I dont think he should have deleted it cuz i repled to 100man's post which meant mine was deleted too, but 100man was goin on bout how the sis who started this thread was whinging that was what he kept sayin, it was mean but i dont knw why it was deleted.

I think 100's was deleted first.

That made the reply to 100's post was irrelevant.

SO why leave that.

Now back to topic.

How do you enforce right, and stop evil?

"RuBz" wrote:

Seriously plz i beg u go away if u aint gna help orite.

Everytime i try bein in the right path, somethin always seems to distract me n i feel as if though my faith is weak n den i jus giv up.

So how do i start makin my iman strong n wer do i begin coz i pray n dat but dnt kno how my prayers are.

Must be 100man's fault.

"RuBz" wrote:

Seriously plz i beg u

"RuBz" wrote:

"100man" wrote:

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HUH?

By da way wat are you muslim o wat

n wats wid da wink dis is important m8

100 is our Jewish friend!

"RuBz" wrote:

"Aasiyah" wrote:

100 is our Jewish friend!

So is dat a gud thing coz i dnt get y ur smilin plz dnt tke it da rong way o nothin jus wonderin

y wud i b smiling if it isnt a good thing? yes ofcourse its good coz otherwise we probably wouldnt have such heated discussions on Palestine - its good to have different points of view on a forum, otherwise things get boring.

"RuBz" wrote:

n wats wid da wink dis is important m8

My original post that got deleted was saying what a whining whiny whiner you are. You've everything to be happy for and upbeat about and you're whining about your iman "pls help I'm in desperate need" and stuff, and your last few posts have been even worse, and there's people sick and dying and stuff, and I was just saying it's boring, like people got to write you a thousand techniques for not getting distracted, and it isn't as if you don't have enough to be getting on with. Then you wrote

Quote:

Seriously plz i beg u go away if u aint gna help orite.

and I thought it was worthy of a .

Thanks Aasiyah!

"100man" wrote:

"RuBz" wrote:

n wats wid da wink dis is important m8

My original post that got deleted was saying what a whining whiny whiner you are. You've everything to be happy for and upbeat about and you're whining about your iman "pls help I'm in desperate need" and stuff, and your last few posts have been even worse, and there's people sick and dying and stuff, and I was just saying it's boring, like people got to write you a thousand techniques for not getting distracted, and it isn't as if you don't have enough to be getting on with. Then you wrote

Quote:

Seriously plz i beg u go away if u aint gna help orite.

and I thought it was worthy of a .

Thanks Aasiyah!

ur quite welcome!

but re: Rubz, she's got a genuine concern, and its good that she's recognised a problem in her practice of Islam instead of ignoring it. she's just trying to improve herself, isnt that a good thing?

"Aasiyah" wrote:

"100man" wrote:

"RuBz" wrote:

n wats wid da wink dis is important m8

My original post that got deleted was saying what a whining whiny whiner you are. You've everything to be happy for and upbeat about and you're whining about your iman "pls help I'm in desperate need" and stuff, and your last few posts have been even worse, and there's people sick and dying and stuff, and I was just saying it's boring, like people got to write you a thousand techniques for not getting distracted, and it isn't as if you don't have enough to be getting on with. Then you wrote

Quote:

Seriously plz i beg u go away if u aint gna help orite.

and I thought it was worthy of a .

Thanks Aasiyah!

ur quite welcome!

but re: Rubz, she's got a genuine concern, and its good that she's recognised a problem in her practice of Islam instead of ignoring it. she's just trying to improve herself, isnt that a good thing?

Fair enough, maybe I'll stay out of it. My thinking was that telling people how lame she's been and asking for help isn't the same as just acknowledging a slip-up and it doesn't help to get melodramatic. If you're really cool about it you can ask for help and do what you do, but the first advice to a flustered person is to quit being flustered, a flustered person is such a drain on everyone.

[/hopes he's not in trouble]