HOW TO GET OUT OF AN ARRANGED MARRAIGE PLEASE HELP!!

Ramz

I'm a bengali girl looking to get married to my Pakistani boyfriend. My desi parents are trying to set me up with desi guys. :roll:

I have to sit through meetings with greasy desi's. I don't believe in arranged marraiges so how can I explain to my desi parents that I only want to marry for love?

Any advice will be appreciated.

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paki_gal — Wed, 23 Nov 2005 - 23:54

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Darth V-Hayder"]nope

but it aint a week

unless you barely liked em :lol:[/quote]

length of time it takes to get over sumeone depends on how attached u were in the first place

safe option is not to get too attached in the first place[/quote]

true if u get attached to the person then its hard to forget him........i dnt kno but from my point of view i think its hard to ignore or forget guys even though u kno tat they are bad and even u kno tat there are plenty more fishes in the sea...........wat i think is tat once ur attached to them then nothing can happen.....(tats a point from my experience 🙁 :oops: )

MuslimSister — Thu, 24 Nov 2005 - 21:14

[quote="paki_gal"]...........wat i think is tat once ur attached to them then nothing can happen.....(tats a point from my experience 🙁 :oops: )[/quote]

I think thats just ones frame of mind that they need to change.

Once you focus on a person's bad points and keep on telling yourself that they're not good for you...its easy to become detached.

And self control plays a huge part too.

*DUST* — Fri, 25 Nov 2005 - 00:33

[quote="MuslimSister"]Once you focus on a person's bad points and keep on telling yourself that they're not good for you...its easy to become detached.

And self control plays a huge part too.[/quote]yeh i gues completely avoiding them wud help, no chatting and no meeting up.

paki_gal — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 - 22:05

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]only weak girls get attached to good for nothing men and find it hard to let go[/quote]

i dnt consider myself as weak but i dnt kno why its happening not to let go off tat guy.....if im in love then wats does he happen to hav for me by giving loads of pain??

Angel — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 - 22:17

[quote="paki_gal"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]only weak girls get attached to good for nothing men and find it hard to let go[/quote]

i dnt consider myself as weak but i dnt kno why its happening not to let go off tat guy.....if im in love then wats does he happen to hav for me by giving loads of pain??[/quote]

If a guy gives you pain and nothing else, hes not worth it...

Maybe a lil off topic but i hate ppl who lead others on, if you like a guy/girl then get your parents involved and get hitched, dragging it on shows that person aint interestin....the one being led on is as bad and silly as the one doing the leading on.

MuslimSisLilSis — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 - 22:22

[quote="paki_gal"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]only weak girls get attached to good for nothing men and find it hard to let go[/quote]

i dnt consider myself as weak but i dnt kno why its happening not to let go off tat guy.....if im in love then wats does he happen to hav for me by giving loads of pain??[/quote]

ur so in love that u dont know whats right and wrong

if u had a clear mind u would never fall in love with someone who treats u like crap

judge a person using ur head and not ur heart

do whats right-not what feels right

yuit — Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 12:02

[quote="ALquds"]flower bro/sis will u plz email me ur dissertation...lol might be too much to ak but it woud b an interestin read[/quote]

I read it, well i lie didn't get pass the first couple of pages. But it great too putting you to sleep.

flower — Mon, 28 Nov 2005 - 14:01

[quote="yuit"][quote="ALquds"]flower bro/sis will u plz email me ur dissertation...lol might be too much to ak but it woud b an interestin read[/quote]

I read it, well i lie didn't get pass the first couple of pages. But it great too putting you to sleep.[/quote]

Its not my fault that u dyslexic yuit! actually it is a good read if u interested in the subject...which im sure alquds is....

im gona go through all my floppy disks and put the dissertation together and email it to you alquds....by the way im sis not bro.

Sirus — Tue, 29 Nov 2005 - 02:42

i need a good topic to do mine on

has to be law related, moral, socially, ethically, legally or anything with a link

and i want it to be something Islaam related, maybe then at least i can stay interested

flower — Tue, 29 Nov 2005 - 14:20

[quote="Enver"]Flower did hers on 'Forced and Arranged Marriages in the British-Asian Community and their Portrayal in the Media'.

[size=7]I should be getting on with mine. [/size][/quote]

what u doin ur dissertation on?

a small tip....make sure u do ur bibliography as u go along coz otherwise its gona get harder for u at the end when u running around trying to remeber the sources etc...plus it saves u time!