Submitted by Seraphim on 31 October, 2005 - 21:56 #32
"fizzy1" wrote:
thats funny! yeh you can tell he has too much sugar, permanently hyper. thats why im called fizzy.
what happened to your sisters? how did your parents come around about them? are they on good terms now? have you spoken to yr sisters yet?
No your not.
Your called fizzy coz you give off too much gas.:D
lol
joke.
Altho in some cases parents may give in to a kids wishes in the end (after all the drama... running away... possible suicide attempts etc) but no good will come of it in the end.
—
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Submitted by Sirus on 31 October, 2005 - 21:56 #33
Harun Yahya; Romantcism - the weapon of shaytaan
i suggest one reads that and diffrentiate between whats halaal and haraam, what actual love and whats not, if one has fallen intro a trap of denial or not
not sayin u shud or shudnt go for this guy, BUT judginy by the first post - ur puttin the guy ahead of ur parents at all costs....not somat i would reccommend, but i understand circumstances are never the same
Prince.....what do you mean you tell ur friends to never fall in love, says the man with a whole Chicktionary
—
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
Submitted by Seraphim on 31 October, 2005 - 21:58 #34
"PRINCE" wrote:
DATS Y I TELL MY FRIENDZ TO STAY SINGLE.
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
—
Back in BLACK
Submitted by fizzy1 on 31 October, 2005 - 22:00 #35
thats ok i got be confused then, thought i was losin me marbles lol
—
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
Submitted by Medarris on 31 October, 2005 - 23:27 #46
"Seraph" wrote:
The right path: win over your parents. Stay strong, repeat 'NO' to any proposal, insist that it has to be this guy. But most importantly than that what the hell is the guy doing?? Get him to get his parents to ask for your hand. If he says anything other than yes or okay then obviously he dont feel as strongly about this as you do.
^^^^^^
THAT is some VERY good advice. I am impressed.
yea IS but u know easier said than done. what if u fixed up and u like
someone how u meant to get outta that one? anyone?
Submitted by *DUST* on 1 November, 2005 - 02:13 #48
"naj" wrote:
yea IS but u know easier said than done. what if u fixed up and u like
someone how u meant to get outta that one? anyone?
wodya mean? ur parents have fixed u up with sum1 but u already like sum1 else? is that it? if so, jus tel ur parents this is the case. or if ur too embarassed to tel em, tel any family member who ur close to and then make du'a that whatever happens is for the best.
—
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
The guy who's rejected might take this as a serious blow to his ego and would start spreading rumours about the girl...I've seen this happen with someone I know.
And Ramz, is the guy really worth all this headache?
Say, if you did run away...where exactly are you looking to go...and what exactly are you looking to live on?
When your homeless/jobless and totally alone with nothing to live on..things just don't seem that romantic anymore.
Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on 1 November, 2005 - 15:55 #53
I think you should approach your local imam wth your dillema or perhaps you may have a very respected (preferably bengali religious elder for your case) whom you can approach and hence they can speak with your parents?
Submitted by PRINCE on 1 November, 2005 - 16:21 #54
"Seraph" wrote:
"PRINCE" wrote:
DATS Y I TELL MY FRIENDZ TO STAY SINGLE.
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
Bro im not against luv. Nor do i fear it, i mean therez so many types of luv. luv for ur mum, dad, broz, sis, and obviously da LUV for ALLAH!!!!!
Im jus sayin u shudn't go thinkin bout runnin away from home everytime u see a fit chick.
—
Humko kiske gham ne mara ye kahani phir sahi
Submitted by iRazor on 1 November, 2005 - 16:29 #55
"PRINCE" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
"PRINCE" wrote:
DATS Y I TELL MY FRIENDZ TO STAY SINGLE.
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
Bro im not against luv. Nor do i fear it, i mean therez so many types of luv. luv for ur mum, dad, broz, sis, and obviously da LUV for ALLAH!!!!!
[b]Im jus sayin u shudn't go thinkin bout runnin away from home everytime u see a fit chick[/b].
Yeah, like the brother said, you shouldnt run away from home, you should invite the fit chicks over have em meet the parents
—
_____________- -SupeRazor- -_______________
Some ppl make their goals the stars.
They may live n die n never reach the stars,
but in the darkness of the night, those stars will guide them to their destination.
Becuz they made them in their eyesight
Submitted by Medarris on 1 November, 2005 - 17:38 #56
"MuslimSisLilSis" wrote:
"naj" wrote:
yea IS but u know easier said than done. what if u fixed up and u like
someone how u meant to get outta that one? anyone?
u say NO
u kick up a fuss
u tell the whole world
u tell the guy they fixed u up with that u aint intrested
u get people involved
end of the day-they cant force u
^^^^^
THAT is also some VERY GUD advice. I am impressed
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Seraphim on 1 November, 2005 - 18:00 #57
"razor" wrote:
"PRINCE" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
"PRINCE" wrote:
DATS Y I TELL MY FRIENDZ TO STAY SINGLE.
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
Bro im not against luv. Nor do i fear it, i mean therez so many types of luv. luv for ur mum, dad, broz, sis, and obviously da LUV for ALLAH!!!!!
[b]Im jus sayin u shudn't go thinkin bout runnin away from home everytime u see a fit chick[/b].
Yeah, like the brother said, you shouldnt run away from home, you should invite the fit chicks over have em meet the parents
And then get that fit chick to invite all her fit friends over except the fat ones and the ugly ones... lol... joke...
astagfrallah! astagfrallah!
May God forgive you prince and razor for your terrible remarks.
—
Back in BLACK
Submitted by Seraphim on 1 November, 2005 - 18:02 #58
"Med" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
The right path: win over your parents. Stay strong, repeat 'NO' to any proposal, insist that it has to be this guy. But most importantly than that what the hell is the guy doing?? Get him to get his parents to ask for your hand. If he says anything other than yes or okay then obviously he dont feel as strongly about this as you do.
^^^^^^
THAT is some VERY good advice. I am impressed.
You should see what i can do when im fully aware of what im typing.
—
Back in BLACK
Submitted by Medarris on 1 November, 2005 - 18:13 #59
"Seraph" wrote:
"Med" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
The right path: win over your parents. Stay strong, repeat 'NO' to any proposal, insist that it has to be this guy. But most importantly than that what the hell is the guy doing?? Get him to get his parents to ask for your hand. If he says anything other than yes or okay then obviously he dont feel as strongly about this as you do.
^^^^^^
THAT is some VERY good advice. I am impressed.
You should see what i can do when im fully aware of what im typing.
Seraph bro/sis?
what do you think the guy shud do if he wants toa sk for her, but the girls says there is no point cos her parents have already arranged for her to marry som1 else? She is CERTAIN that they gonna say no, and its all gonna be a waste of time, what shud the guy do then?
—
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Submitted by Seraphim on 1 November, 2005 - 18:36 #60
"Med" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
"Med" wrote:
"Seraph" wrote:
The right path: win over your parents. Stay strong, repeat 'NO' to any proposal, insist that it has to be this guy. But most importantly than that what the hell is the guy doing?? Get him to get his parents to ask for your hand. If he says anything other than yes or okay then obviously he dont feel as strongly about this as you do.
^^^^^^
THAT is some VERY good advice. I am impressed.
You should see what i can do when im fully aware of what im typing.
Seraph bro/sis?
what do you think the guy shud do if he wants toa sk for her, but the girls says there is no point cos her parents have already arranged for her to marry som1 else? She is CERTAIN that they gonna say no, and its all gonna be a waste of time, what shud the guy do then?
OKkkaaayyyy
Two things: FYI im a guy... should hav figoured that out when i was on the radio.... heck you should knw that by now... silly rabbit.
In regards to your second point. He should get his parents to ask anyway. The girls not obviously thinking straight (shes talking about running away for pete sake), he should get his parents to ask anyway coz atleast then they're trying to use the right channels.
I've said it b4 going about it the wrong way will only lead to it blowing up in their faces.
okaaaaaaaay
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
No your not.
Your called fizzy coz you give off too much gas.:D
lol
joke.
Altho in some cases parents may give in to a kids wishes in the end (after all the drama... running away... possible suicide attempts etc) but no good will come of it in the end.
Back in BLACK
Harun Yahya; Romantcism - the weapon of shaytaan
i suggest one reads that and diffrentiate between whats halaal and haraam, what actual love and whats not, if one has fallen intro a trap of denial or not
not sayin u shud or shudnt go for this guy, BUT judginy by the first post - ur puttin the guy ahead of ur parents at all costs....not somat i would reccommend, but i understand circumstances are never the same
Prince.....what do you mean you tell ur friends to never fall in love, says the man with a whole Chicktionary
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
ɐɥɐɥ
To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.
Back in BLACK
why three parts?
wah wah kai shairi
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
naz what about yr sisters????
Bcoz we're human.
One form of love or another makes up three parts of an individual.
The final piece being our intelligence.
i think thats why you'll find alot of people are ruled by their hearts and emotions rather than their brains.
Back in BLACK
wot bout them?
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
She said:
your response:
I dont care what they say Naz but you need to think faster.
Back in BLACK
:shock:
have you spoken to them, what have they said, will they speak to yr parents, etc etc
what r u lot on bout :?
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
sorry naz, meant ramz
Duh! {no hayder i dont mean you}
like i said b4, parents may eventually give in.
But the damage has already been done. And they would have chosen to break the heart of the parents who loved them more than their own lives.
where the justice in that?
Back in BLACK
thats ok i got be confused then, thought i was losin me marbles lol
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
^^^^^^
THAT is some VERY good advice. I am impressed.
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
yea IS but u know easier said than done. what if u fixed up and u like
someone how u meant to get outta that one? anyone?
wodya mean? ur parents have fixed u up with sum1 but u already like sum1 else? is that it? if so, jus tel ur parents this is the case. or if ur too embarassed to tel em, tel any family member who ur close to and then make du'a that whatever happens is for the best.
[size=9]I NEVER WORE IT BECAUSE OF THE TALIBAN, MOTHER. I LIKE THE [b]MODESTY[/b] AND [b]PROTECTION[/b] IT AFFORDS ME FROM THE EYES OF MEN.[/size] [url=http://www.adherents.com/lit/comics/Dust.html]Dust, X-Men[/url]
i could decide whether i should use this smilee " :shock: " or this " " one
and btw Ramz no guy is worth the headache
I'm sure there are plenty more fish in the sea
someone that ur parents would be ahppy with too
u say NO
u kick up a fuss
u tell the whole world
u tell the guy they fixed u up with that u aint intrested
u get people involved
end of the day-they cant force u
That should do the trick.
The guy who's rejected might take this as a serious blow to his ego and would start spreading rumours about the girl...I've seen this happen with someone I know.
And Ramz, is the guy really worth all this headache?
Say, if you did run away...where exactly are you looking to go...and what exactly are you looking to live on?
When your homeless/jobless and totally alone with nothing to live on..things just don't seem that romantic anymore.
I think you should approach your local imam wth your dillema or perhaps you may have a very respected (preferably bengali religious elder for your case) whom you can approach and hence they can speak with your parents?
Bro im not against luv. Nor do i fear it, i mean therez so many types of luv. luv for ur mum, dad, broz, sis, and obviously da LUV for ALLAH!!!!!
Im jus sayin u shudn't go thinkin bout runnin away from home everytime u see a fit chick.
Humko kiske gham ne mara ye kahani phir sahi
Yeah, like the brother said, you shouldnt run away from home, you should invite the fit chicks over have em meet the parents
_____________- -SupeRazor- -_______________
Some ppl make their goals the stars.
They may live n die n never reach the stars,
but in the darkness of the night, those stars will guide them to their destination.
Becuz they made them in their eyesight
^^^^^
THAT is also some VERY GUD advice. I am impressed
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
And then get that fit chick to invite all her fit friends over except the fat ones and the ugly ones... lol... joke...
astagfrallah! astagfrallah!
May God forgive you prince and razor for your terrible remarks.
Back in BLACK
You should see what i can do when im fully aware of what im typing.
Back in BLACK
Seraph bro/sis?
what do you think the guy shud do if he wants toa sk for her, but the girls says there is no point cos her parents have already arranged for her to marry som1 else? She is CERTAIN that they gonna say no, and its all gonna be a waste of time, what shud the guy do then?
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
OKkkaaayyyy
Two things: FYI im a guy... should hav figoured that out when i was on the radio.... heck you should knw that by now... silly rabbit.
In regards to your second point. He should get his parents to ask anyway. The girls not obviously thinking straight (shes talking about running away for pete sake), he should get his parents to ask anyway coz atleast then they're trying to use the right channels.
I've said it b4 going about it the wrong way will only lead to it blowing up in their faces.
Back in BLACK
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