How to get rid off a woman?

Mujahid' —

I have this woman, she's really beautiful and we have been together for almost 10 month. She shows as she really loves me so much as she talks good about me to others, if I make a little mistake on her she would cry like a baby. If I tell her we stop seeing each others she wants to kill herself. Once her own mother called me and told me that her daughter wants to kill herself because of me.

I stopped seeing her for almost a month because I simply don't believe in love. I don't trust any woman in the world and I never expected to trust her either...She visits me from time to time crying so much that she will never be able to leave without me. When she does that, "I mean crying" I feel bad. "I have a heart" so I have a feeling and feel sorry but deep inside me says, that is all lies. She simply wanna get on me because I am the one who dumped her...

I really don't know if any woman can be trusted. I have seen lot's of my friend's women doing bad things. I have been with some of my best friend's women just BECAUSE.. Whenever I see my friend with their women, it's like these couples are really in love and she would never cheat or do anything to him. Some of these women are just the way my girl-friend is acting but at the end they are just fooling around. Don't ask me why coz I don't know.........

I simply wanted to see if there is any trusted female out there but whenever I try I find negative responses.

So, can anyone advice what I should do with this woman please?.

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Seraphim — Thu, 15 Sep 2005 - 21:09

Any of the following will suffice.

1. Im gay

2. I like you only a a friend

3. I need some space to think

4. I think we should see other people

5. Im washing my hair from now on till forever

or my personal fav

6. Im really into my career right now.

Now i realise this will involve lieing to her, but ur a guud person you dont wanna hurt her feelings, u may not be gay, you may not need space and you maybe into your career but what your actually saying is "Get away from me now!" and on a subconscious level she'll get it.... that or she'll eventually kidnap you tie you up in her basement.

Which ever works for you... let me knw how it goes. 😉

Mujahid' — Thu, 15 Sep 2005 - 21:12

thanks Seraph

Well, I did many thing to get rid of this girl but no way, it never work. She knows I have another woman but she says, she's before her and she'll win me back! Sometimes she writes me and tell me she's got another boyfriend and she's finish with me and bla bla, but within a day she'll send me a message again saying she just wanted to see how I would feel about that and that she'll never love another man more than me!

One thing I never did since a month a go is that, I never reply to her txt neither the phone........what else can I do?

Seraphim — Thu, 15 Sep 2005 - 21:24

[quote="Mujahid'"]thanks Seraph

Well, I did many thing to get rid of this girl but no way, it never work. She knows I have another woman but she says, she's before her and she'll win me back! Sometimes she writes me and tell me she's got another boyfriend and she's finish with me and bla bla, but within a day she'll send me a message again saying she just wanted to see how I would feel about that and that she'll never love another man more than me!

One thing I never did since a month a go is that, I never reply to her txt neither the phone........what else can I do?[/quote]

aahh the good old jelousy routine... hhmm takes me back.... ahem no what i meant was thats pretty much standard... :roll:

Okay time for the plain-hard-hitting-cold-truth. She may not like what you have to say, or even want to hear it, but sometimes you have to just tell them how it is. Tell her it aint kool, for her to keep ringing you, what u had togeather was beautiful but it aint working out.

Just hit her with the truth, im sure if you do that she'll eventually get over it. Change your mobi number if you have to. Cut contact... that or become what she hates... but i dont recommend that.

Saadia Khan — Thu, 15 Sep 2005 - 21:59

salaam

by the looks of it the reason you cant trust women is because you have been with soo many roll if u had just the one u would have learnt to trust and respect her by now. being with soo means u see people of all different types and ok so u find out that there are different types of peeps in the world but as u can see thats sumtimes a bad thing

my advice would to you is to seriously start being a good muslim( and i am not saying that i am the best muslim) and tell her that too that u want to be a better person say she should do the same. turn over a new leaf.
wa/salaam

Dave — Thu, 15 Sep 2005 - 22:23

[quote="Seraph"]1. Im gay[/quote]

lol i've used that one before. I was basically being stalked by this girl I was nice to and needed a way to nicely send her on her way.

WOULDN'T TAKE THE HINT.

So I got desperate.

lol a bit of a mistake when you're in a small community though

Angel — Thu, 15 Sep 2005 - 23:55

[quote="Dave"][quote="Seraph"]1. Im gay[/quote]

lol i've used that one before. I was basically being stalked by this girl I was nice to and needed a way to nicely send her on her way.

WOULDN'T TAKE THE HINT.

So I got desperate.

lol a bit of a mistake when you're in a small community though[/quote]

Couldnt you have just told her you had a g/f :roll: rather than claimin to be gay?

Dave — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 00:17

[quote="angel"]Couldnt you have just told her you had a g/f :roll: rather than claimin to be gay?[/quote]

I didn't have a g/f at the time and everybody knew it.

It's a touchy subject with girls - you can't upset them...

Especially clingy ones

Aphrodite — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 05:27

[quote="Dave"][quote="angel"]Couldnt you have just told her you had a g/f :roll: rather than claimin to be gay?[/quote]

I didn't have a g/f at the time and everybody knew it.

It's a touchy subject with girls - you can't upset them...

Especially clingy ones[/quote]

And even if you had said that, she could compete with another girl; she can't compete with a guy, there'd be no point 😂 😂

judda — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 10:44

[quote="Dave"][quote="angel"]Couldnt you have just told her you had a g/f :roll: rather than claimin to be gay?[/quote]

I didn't have a g/f at the time and everybody knew it.

It's a touchy subject with girls - you can't upset them...

Especially clingy ones[/quote]

u broke my heart when u sed u wont marry me 😢 ...

i even created a whole thread about u 😢 (dats coz on da old 4rum u sed u would like a wife like aisha and i got worried :oops: )

i asked Ed to marry me but he didn't reply to my PM 😢 . Then when I found out he was married i was heart broken again 😢 ....

I asked Mujahida to marry me and she laughed at me 😢 ...

so is NE1 gonna mend my broken heart? 😢 😢 😢

sunshi9_Kuri — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 11:28

yeah i knw truth hurts but if the individual has any SELF RESPECT they will leave u alone... onli a shallow person would follow u around once u told them u virtualy hate them!

judda — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 11:29

[quote="irfghan"]Why are we dignifying the wirdo's thread by replying?[/quote]

WHAT WIERDOS?

Beast — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 11:31

[quote="Judda"][quote="irfghan"]Why are we dignifying the wirdo's thread by replying?[/quote]

WHAT WIERDOS?[/quote]

THE wierdo who started this thread - Mujahid.

Don't worry, he's not the only one. You're one too. (Unless you're the same person).

Dave — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 12:43

[quote="Judda"]
u broke my heart when u sed u wont marry me 😢 ...[/quote]

It's not that I don't like you - it's just to fast for me.

I can't just be bought with pretty words ya know - I have needs!

It wasn't [i]you[/i] - it was [i]me[/i].

[quote="Judda"]i even created a whole thread about u 😢 (dats coz on da old 4rum u sed u would like a wife like aisha and i got worried :oops: )[/quote]

lol... Aisha circa age 22, she turned into quite an impressive woman but i'm eternally weirded out by the age she and mohammed got together

[quote="Judda"]i asked Ed to marry me but he didn't reply to my PM 😢 . Then when I found out he was married i was heart broken again 😢 ....

I asked Mujahida to marry me and she laughed at me 😢 ...

so is NE1 gonna mend my broken heart? 😢 😢 :cry:[/quote]

www.eharmony.com

judda — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 12:51

[quote="Dave"][quote="Judda"]
u broke my heart when u sed u wont marry me 😢 ...[/quote]

It's not that I don't like you - it's just to fast for me.

I can't just be bought with pretty words ya know - I have needs!

It wasn't [i]you[/i] - it was [i]me[/i].

www.eharmony.com[/quote]

what needs?

money?

food?

love?

as 4 children we can always adopt...

as 4 da site, u don't get rid of me dat easyly!

have u been on it m8

Dave — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 12:59

haha never used it but the ads are ridiculous.

This guy "Dr Neil Clark" or something like that has the sappiest voice on the planet and is always talking about his "29 dimensions of compatibility"

Hes a bit of a joke in the US. - If there is an ad on the website check it out, his voice is unreal... it's like hes talking to a kindergarten class

Sirus — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 13:18

[quote="irfghan"]Why are we dignifying the wirdo's thread by replying?[/quote]

glad someone thinks like me!

Omrow — Fri, 16 Sep 2005 - 13:20

Salam

[quote="Mujahid'"]How to get rid off a woman?

So, can anyone advice what I should do with this woman please?[/quote]

Slap her across the face. That should do it.

Its preferable to do it in public. Ultimate humiliation.

If she is still clinging on, then know that she truly loves you.

Omrow

Dave — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:19

Okay I think I have a real problem here.

I am being stalked by a total flake, I worked with this girl over the summer and she was creepy back then - and quite clingy but now she has found out my cell phone number and has called me 4 times in the last ten minutes.

Now I think i've states as overtly as possible that I am not interested in any sort of relationship with this girl (and by that I do mean casual friendship) but she is not taking the hint and getting a little belligerent.

Thoughts...

Seraphim — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:27

[quote="Seraph"]Any of the following will suffice.

1. Im gay

2. I like you only a a friend

3. I need some space to think

4. I think we should see other people

5. Im washing my hair from now on till forever

or my personal fav

6. Im really into my career right now.

[/quote]

I refer you to my previous post.

Good luck.

*DUST* — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:31

[quote="Constantine"]Okay I think I have a real problem here.

I am being stalked by a total flake, I worked with this girl over the summer and she was creepy back then - and quite clingy but now she has found out my cell phone number and has called me 4 times in the last ten minutes.

Now I think i've states as overtly as possible that I am not interested in any sort of relationship with this girl (and by that I do mean casual friendship) but she is not taking the hint and getting a little belligerent.

Thoughts...[/quote]

change ur cell phone number.

Dave — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:37

[quote="Seraph"][quote="Seraph"]Any of the following will suffice.

1. Im gay

2. I like you only a a friend

3. I need some space to think

4. I think we should see other people

5. Im washing my hair from now on till forever

or my personal fav

6. Im really into my career right now.

[/quote]

I refer you to my previous post.

Good luck.[/quote]

I went through pretty much all of the above in Washington and then took the next step, my condescending "personal space violation" speech.

I need the next level...

Dave — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:38

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="Constantine"]Okay I think I have a real problem here.

I am being stalked by a total flake, I worked with this girl over the summer and she was creepy back then - and quite clingy but now she has found out my cell phone number and has called me 4 times in the last ten minutes.

Now I think i've states as overtly as possible that I am not interested in any sort of relationship with this girl (and by that I do mean casual friendship) but she is not taking the hint and getting a little belligerent.

Thoughts...[/quote]

change ur cell phone number.[/quote]

Good idea...

If this get's any worse I suppose i'll have to but I wouldn't want to do it if I can scare her away first, the irritation of telling everybody my new number simply is a bit of a deterrent.

Seraphim — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:46

The Next Level

1. Tell her you like her brother more.

2. You dont have a penny to your name.

3. Tell her your a regular on Jerry Springer.

4. Tell her you're into some freaky s***.

or my fav:

5. Tell her: "Im not sure if you knw but im not into guys..."

lol... you knw that ones gonna work.

Dave — Mon, 19 Sep 2005 - 17:48

Actually I think i've got an answer. I called her back and seriously didn't go three words without saying "Jesus" "God" or "George W. Bush"

Shes one of those new age "spiritualist" whackjobs that clung on to me when I recommended a book about druids. I'll go for the jugular and try really really invasively to convert her.

That oughta scare her away.

Maybe i'll pass her phone number along to the CBC.

THIS IS WAR!