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" Beware, in everybody there ia s piece of flesh, if it is healthy the whole body ishealthy, and if it is sick the whole body is sick. Beware it is the heart"... cant remember which book i read it in..
Gossip is the most destructive thing in the universe...
May have been Purification of the Heart. :?
actually thats a famous hadith
everyone knows it
He may still have read that Hadith in Purification of the Heart, just like I just did.
Overall we should be kind hearted to those we love and freinds
but hard hearted to our enemies who fight or seek to destroy islam
ALLAHUAKBAR
We can be kind hearted to our enemies aswell.
Just be steadfast, and know the limits.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Tell me...
Was Salah ud Din hard-hearted towards his enemies?
the key word 4 us muslims should be "justice".... hard heartedness should not be a character of a muslim....
Gossip is the most destructive thing in the universe...
salahuddin was in my eyes one of the greatest muslim warriors ever but one of his weaknesses was his kind heart, after taking back Jerusalem (alhumdullah) he let all christians fighters return home however they betrayed salahudin and rectified the port of Acre allowed richard to join and carried on fighting, richard slaughtered 3000 muslims in acre.
However i cant say enough good about salahuddin he was the rectifier of faith, extremely religous as well as couragous and should be an example to us all . He defeated the invading crusader armies and took back jerusalem and the middle east. may we find another person like salahuddin to unite us and lead us.
And if he (and other muslims) killed them, we would be hearing these days how bloodthirsty early msulims were.
However the historical records are full of praise of muslims as they were not bloodthirsty, and were merciful to their enemies.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
nothing wrong with killing soldiers along as civillians are not killed.
However i do agree with you muslims are praised for their chivalry methods of war, also salahuddin did not kill them or take revenge and kill civillians because he did not want people to say the muslims acted like the christians. Islamic armies of the past were so great due to their dedication to islam today many muslim armies are currupt e.g pakistan, saudi arabia, turkey, iraq ect
No you have to care for captives.
As sonn as an enemy soldier surrenders/captured, you MUST care for him.
The rules of engagement are layed down on the qur'an. Islam is not the American military where you can shoot an injured person lying in a mosque point blank...
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Thats so sexist. Its not only women who are sensative some guys are as well. There are some women who find it hard to show their emotions but it don't make u a bloke!
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
lol agreed!
Actions speak louder than words!
I was just being honest.
thats not honesty its being sexist!
Actions speak louder than words!
u go girl. lol
No not the gum drop buttons! – Gingy
Actions speak louder than words!
good good.
I think sometimes its a good idea to harden the heart.
People who wear their hearts on their sleeves often get them crushed.
Back in BLACK
Give an example Seraphim?
Im sure thats not necessary.
If your too soft people walk all over you.
You gotta know when to be tough and when to be kind.
Back in BLACK
No.
Back in BLACK
I agree with Seraphim. If you live a rather sheltered life (like I have done :oops: ), you will not cope in the big bad world
- and it doesnt help when you are naturally very passive. There are some really cruel and mean people in the world. :shock: One of my biggest inward jihads has been to be tough :shock: Believe me from personal experience when I say that not everyone has the ability to stand up for themselves - I have to fight myself everyday to be able to fight (odd considering my career!) :shock: But Ive found out that the more mean and horrible people I come across, the easier it becomes! :idea:
May Allah shine sweet faith upon you this day and times beyond. May your heart be enriched with peace, and may your home be blessed always. Ameen.
Okay,
so now we're all talking about being soft and hard.
Whats that got to do with heart hardening?
I thought heart hardening is similar to being burnt out and cant be bothered to do anything even religiously?
Well, maybe the "uphill" hasn't started yet.
“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”
Mawlana Jalal ud Din Rumi
Can being lazy lead to 'hardening of the heart' ?
How dare you insinuate such things!
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
yes.
So...is being spiritually down and 'heart hardening' the same thing?
It's not all about being able to cry and things is it?
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