A discussion of marriage with Imam Irfan Chishti.
The Imam was late to the studio, and his question and answers section is in part 2, which is listed separately above. The general studio banter and discussions about marriage before his arrival are recorded in part 1.
Presenters: Zahid Maqbool, Sajid Iqbal
Guests: Imam Irfan Chishti
Broadcast Date: 27 August 2010
Duration: Part 1 - 48min, Part 2 - 2hr 10min
Comments
That was wrong.
The husband should have known that she was infertile before marrying her. Some men don't actually wanna have children so she could have suited them.
Her mother is playing with peoples lives.
On telly they were talking about honeymoons and how they're unislamic. Then someone asked what about if 2 families who have their son and daughter engaged go to a holiday together, is that wrong too? Which made me and my family discuss whether its allowed for a woman to get to know the guy by talking to him WHILST her mahram is with her. Mum said no.
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
The guys who said honeymoon is unislamic - shoot them.
A married couple ARE allowed to travel together.
If any "scholar" pretends otherwise, he is not following Islam but his culture. Either that or he is ignorant - in which case he should hold his silence.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
how come i cant quote??
(copy pasted)
well..the whole talking to each other and asking questions and stuff (with the mahraam here), that could be considered "getting to know". But im not sure what you mean?
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
If there is a mahram present, there are no problems with it.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
(what happened to the quote button?)
yeah exactly, that's what we were saying!
and stop shooting people lol. i think he meant its not an Islamic tradition, rather than it not being allowed in Islam
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
I doubt that is what he meant. He meant exactly what he said. I have read such opinions online before, so I know they exist.
(the quote button currently only appears in the forums.)
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
you should have been here when i inadvertently said something along the same line...
NOOR TO MY RIGHT :shock:
YOU TO MY LEFT :shock:
SUHAIL (i think) IN FRONT OF ME :shock:
I backed towards the wall... I WAS SURROUNDED! :shock:
(will have to use blockquote, will it be back soon?)
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?
what you said it wasn't allowed?
"How many people find fault in what they're reading and the fault is in their own understanding" Al Mutanabbi
nope, foolish/stupid me just straight out said it was copying the kuffar. But it was sorted and we came to an agreement thingy.
Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?