talking to a boy/girl

Hi i'm abit confused well kinda 50/50 on the subject, its regarding talking to the opposite sex,anyway the situation is that most of my mates they talk to girls vice versa but i dont really participate when i do its only when its relevant or that its necessary other than that i dont really chat/talk to the opposite sex, my question is that is it permisable to talk to the other sex as in the situation were its for educational purposes-like your only intention to speak to them was regarding that and that you do not talk about anything else as for distraction wise-because recently i've been having small debates with my friend tellin him that its ok to talk to the oposite sex when its relevant and necessary other than that its a NO NO, so like small talk is out the question

thus anyone here have the answer-just want to know whether its permisable to talk to the opposite sex when it is only for necessary outcome e.g educational purposes???? :?: :?: :?:

[b][color=indigo]Yes it is but within limits of-course.[/color][/b]

"r10bbr" wrote:
Hi i'm abit confused well kinda 50/50 on the subject, its regarding talking to the opposite sex,anyway the situation is that most of my mates they talk to girls vice versa but i dont really participate when i do its only when its relevant or that its necessary other than that i dont really chat/talk to the opposite sex, my question is that is it permisable to talk to the other sex as in the situation were its for educational purposes-like your only intention to speak to them was regarding that and that you do not talk about anything else as for distraction wise-because recently i've been having small debates with my friend tellin him that its ok to talk to the oposite sex when its relevant and necessary other than that its a NO NO, so like small talk is out the question

thus anyone here have the answer-just want to know whether its permisable to talk to the opposite sex when it is only for necessary outcome e.g educational purposes???? :?: :?: :?:

Truely amazing the mind of a youngling is.

Inventing facts... tut tut.

It is prohibited for men to join women in one place in the absence of at least one of the women’s close male relatives. The Prophet (SAW) forbade men and women from being alone together. He said: “Never is a man alone with a woman except that Satan is the third party with them.”

The private meeting between a man and an unchaperoned woman is one of the serious forms of mixing that can take place between the sexes. Temptations are worse when the people know that they are shielded from the sight of others.

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"Seraphim" wrote:
"r10bbr" wrote:
Hi i'm abit confused well kinda 50/50 on the subject, its regarding talking to the opposite sex,anyway the situation is that most of my mates they talk to girls vice versa but i dont really participate when i do its only when its relevant or that its necessary other than that i dont really chat/talk to the opposite sex, my question is that is it permisable to talk to the other sex as in the situation were its for educational purposes-like your only intention to speak to them was regarding that and that you do not talk about anything else as for distraction wise-because recently i've been having small debates with my friend tellin him that its ok to talk to the oposite sex when its relevant and necessary other than that its a NO NO, so like small talk is out the question

thus anyone here have the answer-just want to know whether its permisable to talk to the opposite sex when it is only for necessary outcome e.g educational purposes???? :?: :?: :?:

Truely amazing the mind of a youngling is.

Inventing facts... tut tut.

It is prohibited for men to join women in one place in the absence of at least one of the women’s close male relatives. The Prophet (SAW) forbade men and women from being alone together. He said: “Never is a man alone with a woman except that Satan is the third party with them.”

The private meeting between a man and an unchaperoned woman is one of the serious forms of mixing that can take place between the sexes. Temptations are worse when the people know that they are shielded from the sight of others.

[b][color=violet] being alone with another non-mahram man in a closed room, because of the Prophet (Allah bless him and give him peace)’s words, “No man may be alone with a woman not permitted to him, for the third person will be the Shaytan…” [Ahmad] [/color][/b]

...live everyday as your last day...

even a cousin???

Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.

i take it its ok to talk to them if its regarding education but is it ok to tlk to them Socially by this i mean only in class its just that were helping someone get back thier confidence of course when tlking to them u tlk to them within limits.

A rose protects its beauty with thorns..a woman protects hers with a veil

i see nothing wrong with it, part of class room disscusions

"zara" wrote:
even a cousin???

cousins are just as non-mahrem as the guy next door, which unfortunately many of our families fail to accept. so yes, even a cousin.

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