"Omrow" wrote:

Thanks noori.

[color=indigo][b]No problem.[/b][/color]

Omro do u want more than one wife? If so how would you tell your first wife you want a second one? Would you be offended if you were slapped for asking to marry wifey number 2?

Salam

That depends on the type of woman I will have.

If she is a cow, even if she is pretty, then I will boot her out.

But if she is going to be alright with me, then why would I need another woman.

As I said before, people only eat out if home cooking, or service, is not good enough.

Why would a man throw away good
money if he gets the same dishes at home.
He would be pretty stupid to do that.

I like organic stuff. Know what I mean?

Omrow

Okay what if your services aint good at home and you get booted out like the fat unwanted cow, what then...how would u feel?

That is the exact reason why someone is allowed to say yes/no to their future to be hubby/wife. If a guy doesnt like his wife then he obv. choose the wrong woman.

Men that look elsewhere are neglecting their rights to their women, shame on such "men"

I can't believe you are trying to get a straight answer out of Omrow.

Salam

Angel.

I have no problem with a woman who is honest
and decides to leaves her husband because she does not like him anymore.

True love is only established in an honest and trusting relationship.

Deception is not good in any marriage.

I hate lying women and lying men.

Wife has the right to dump her husband if she thinks he is not good enough for her.

If she can't change his bad behaviour, then she should not be
stuck with him and continuously suffer.

She should get a divorce and re-marry the man of her dreams.

God allows her to do that.

Whats the problem in that?

Omrow

"Omrow" wrote:

As I said before, people only eat out if home cooking, or service, is not good enough.

[b][color=indigo]Not really.

Some people tend to eat out so that they don't have the trouble of washing dirty dishes![/color][/b]

"Noor...*" wrote:

Some people tend to eat out so that they don't have the trouble of washing dirty dishes!

lol.

That was really funny - if read in context.

"Abbas" wrote:

"Seraphim" wrote:

Actuallly thats not strictly true.... He doesnt need her permission to get married again (although it would be advisable).

Salam Seraphim,

Do you know of any trustworthy online sources that I can look at to find out more about this topic as it interests me.

there is NOTHING in the quran and ahadith to indicate that the man needs permission

however it would be terribly unpolite if he did not

"saima786" wrote:

and where you been the last couple of day?

me been busy wid skool work

"Admin" wrote:

I can't believe you are trying to get a straight answer out of Omrow.

I was just bored....

He made valid points however I disagree with one, people shouldn't marry someone in hope to change them. If someone has a major problem with someone then don't marry that person simple as, coz if later one finds out their partner isnt going to "change" and divorce them then its just heartache which could have been avoided in the first place.

A man who has two wives, but does not give them equal treatment, will find half his body lost (paralysed) on the day of judgement.
HADITH OF AT-TIRMIDHI ON THE AUTHORITY OF ABU HURAYRAH.

Salam

Everybody gets what they deserved.

Good boys go to Paradise.

Evil men land in Hell.

Bad women get dumped.

Good girls become queens.

And cows get milked.

Omrow

"Omrow" wrote:

Salam

Some muslim clerics are so harsh that they have said
that a wife who forbids her husband from
marrying another woman is indeed a bad wife.

She should be dumped immediately.

She is not even a believer. She is Satan.

How dare she even try to overrule God !!

Omrow

I wouldn't use those sort of words but if God has ordained it in the Quran a woman's word in a contract can't override the Quran can it. So i've also heard what Omrow has said the husband may obey the wording of the contract so as to please his wife. But it's not islamically binding on him to not remarry coz his wife forbids it.

The way i see it if a man wants to remarry no amount of clauses in the marriage contract will matter, he'll find a way, and it isn't against islam so he won't be sinful either. I'm not saying i agree. I mean it breaks trust between husband and wife if he signs the contract and agrees to adhere to all points then breaks that oath. In an ideal world he should abide by the terms of the contract, and if he does not agree with them he should not sign the contract. Be truthful at least.