Salaam
It is said that if we see our Muslim brother/sister doing something wrong, we should make 70 excuses for their actions.
Imam Abu Hanifah said that if someone possesses 99 signs of Kufr, and only one sign of being a good person, we have no right to label him/her as a bad person.
Badgamani (suspicion) in Islam is a sin. Also, false accusations (slander) is a huge sin in Islam…some say that it is considered worse than adultery.
I’m sure we may have been in situations where we’ve been falsely accused of doing stuff….and I’m sure we ALL have been in a situation where we’ve wrongly assumed something about someone…
I think we should play a game….(I’ve made 12year old girls play this). Basically, we should put forward some”dodgy” situations that we may see our Muslims brother/sister in…and should try to think of as many excuses as we can…
1.You see a Muslim in a bar
2.You see a Muslim in a club
3.You see a Muslim getting a bit too friendly with a member of the opposite sex.
4.You see a Muslim hanging around with the local drug dealers or the local dodgy girls in town….
5.You see a Muslim on Green Street/Wilmslow Rd/Southall Broadway on Eid day
Feel free to add your own…
Wasalaam
nice thread sis :o
1. he cud just be talking
2. 0r playing pool,
3. he could be drinking orange juice and coke and not having alcohol.
4. he might be doing a survey
5. it cud be a bizniss meeting
1. he prolly just want to chill out
2. all those flashing lights and da loud music is just sum fun
1. they might be related! (anybody that has found themselves in that situation knows how humiliating it is :oops: )
2. sumtimes ppl don't relaise they is being "too friendly", and they look guilty when they is not. i've had my posts modified coz mods saw my posts "too friendly" and i saw nothing of it
3. they cud be married!
1. they might just be talking
looking for 70 excuses for each one is a bit too much
i is not gonna write my long list of sins, it'll take too long, and my excuses are pathetic
take care!
[color=red]"The best of people are those who live longest and excel in their deeds, whereas the worst of people are those who live longest and corrupt their deeds." [Tirmidhî, Sahîh] [/color]
typical situation :roll:
he can be her brother
uncle
father
grandad
man asking for time
man who's confused her with his mother
""sister
""aunty
""grandma
man could be lost and asking for direction
man could have had an car accident and asking for help
it could be Mr Ed beggin ppl to get involved with revival
man could be her long lost brother
"" uncle
"""father
"""grandad
they cud be married
talking about work
talking about uni/school
cud be begging for money
maybe doesnt KNOW that u should get friendly with members of opposite sex
maybe he was ill
he was on the run from the police and needed somwhere to hide :shock:
cud be asking where the local mosque is
"" where the local police station is :shock:
maybe he just got robbed
he was a cab driver
....I'm exhausted now
Might have gon in 2 ask the time, use the toilet, use the phone, ask for help...
same as above..
may be a family member, relative, teacher, asking for help, dctr,
family relative..
may be going home...
He needed to go to the toilet
He went in to tell them to turn the music down... and if he could borrow some tea.
Its his sister or wife.
He's an idiot and doesnt know they're drug dealers (he's masoom) or what kind of girls they are... besides he was just telling them off for not dressing propperly.
He was hungry and that was the closest place where they served halal food.
Back in BLACK
c'mon guys this thread is getting silly now
does it matter what OTHER people do?
as long as they is not anoying/harming anyone then it does not matter.
[color=red]"The best of people are those who live longest and excel in their deeds, whereas the worst of people are those who live longest and corrupt their deeds." [Tirmidhî, Sahîh] [/color]
No1 is telling u to post in this thread.
Dnt post here if u think its silly.
make 70 excuses for my past posts
ask the mods all about dem
[color=red]"The best of people are those who live longest and excel in their deeds, whereas the worst of people are those who live longest and corrupt their deeds." [Tirmidhî, Sahîh] [/color]
Why do u want me to make 70 excuses for u when u think the idea is silly?
ur contridicting urself..
lol the irony
i bet ya mine and ur's posts in this thread will be deleted by tommorow :twisted:
[color=red]"The best of people are those who live longest and excel in their deeds, whereas the worst of people are those who live longest and corrupt their deeds." [Tirmidhî, Sahîh] [/color]
:roll:
1./ Probably in the bar for the same reason you are. (You have to have been in the bar to see him...probably).
2./ Same as above.
3./ She could have a gun held to his stomach and be telling him to act natural while she searches him.
4./ First I would make 70 excuses for the 'drug' in the drug dealers and for the 'dodgy' in dodgy girls.
5./ He's sticking up flyers that say "Eid not weed."
Add my own:
1./ You see a man climbing out of your bedroom window in a stripey black and white sweater with a bulky slack slung over his shoulder.
2./ You see a big guy gripping some little guy by the chest and taking money from him.
3./ Your playing checkers and look away for a moment, when you look back that double jump you had set up can't be taken any more because the vacant squares now have pieces on them.
Gentleness and kindness were never a part of anything except that it made it beautiful, and harshness was never a part of anything except that it made it ugly.
Through cheating, stealing, and lying, one may get required results but finally one becomes
...Generally speaking isnt it kinda annoying when someone's daughter/son is BLANTENTLY getting up to all sorts yet the parents still make up the lamest excuses to justify their behaviour.
Someone I know was caught someplace with someone that she shouldnt have been with....but apparently she's just going through a "phase".
with all due respect sis, what OTHER people do is non of our concern, however much we like to stick our noses in thier life. Unless they are harming someone else - ONLY then we should intervene.
god gave us FREE WILL to do what we like.
Free will is gods gift to us,
no one has the right to take it away UNLESS sum1 is being harmed
something needs to be done about the backwards mentality MANY British muslims have towards other ppl dating, its just rediculous and arrogent.
that girl cud be going through a "phase"
let her live her own life, and u can carry on living ur own,
[color=red]"The best of people are those who live longest and excel in their deeds, whereas the worst of people are those who live longest and corrupt their deeds." [Tirmidhî, Sahîh] [/color]
Your right, its a free world.
However, in too many cases, such as the one stated above OTHER people's buisness does negatively affect and harm the lives of others.
In the example stated above, the girls wrong actions affected her husband who happens to be my friends brother....so the girls PRIVATE buisness hurt my close friend and her family.