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"bring up ur children differently to how u were brought up as they are from a different time then u"
Hadrat Ali (ra)
so wise and modern
Heard an alim tell a story about this subject the other day. He said it was a famous story/joke. It was in Urdu so I'll paraphrase.
A long time ago a boy got stuck up a date tree. The people from the village gathered round and wondered how they were going to get him down. They kept telling the boy to slowly climb down but he was too scared. Soon the villagers became really worried - if the boy fell he would have died.
One of the villagers said that they should go to the oldest man in the village and ask him what to do. They went to the old man and told him that a boy was stuck up a date tree. The old man thought about the situation for a while. He then told the villagers to fetch a rope. The villagers brought the rope and were told to tie it around the waist of the boy.
The villagers did just that. Don't know how they did it seeing as he was stuck up a tree - I probably got distracted a this point. Anyway, once the rope was tied around the boy the old man told each of the villagers to grab one end of the rope and yank it towards them.
The villagers did just that. The boy was pulled out of the tree and fell to the ground and died. The villagers looked at the old man and asked him why he had had told them to do that - they wanted to save the boy not kill him. The old man replied 'don't look at me. This is what we used to do whenever someone was stuck down the well. We'd throw a rope down to him, get it tied around his waist and pull. I don't know why it didn't work here.'
Moral of the story, the alim said, was that children in Pakistan are stuck down a well and children in UK are stuck up a tree. We need different solutions in each case.
The alim's soundbite for his little talk was:
Whaan danda chalta hay, yhaan dialogue chalta hay.
how impressive Beast
Flesh and blood are not the enemy; the enemy is the hostile thought within you.; to chase away the enemy you only have to chase away the thought through thanksgiving. Rumi
Gossip is the most destructive thing in the universe...
The lover of this world is like someone in love with a wall illuminated by sunrays; he doesn't realise that the radiance and the splendour do not come from the wall but from the sun; he gives his heart to the wall and when at sunse the rays of sun disappear, he is in despair. Rumi
Gossip is the most destructive thing in the universe...
Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.
-Bertrand Russell
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[b] [color=red]"One who is devoid of kindness is devoid of all good"[/color] [color=orange](Muslim)[/color] [/b]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
[size=14][b] [color=green]"The most perfect amongst believers in faith is he who is the best in manners and kindest to his wife"[/color] [color=blue](Tirmidhi)[/color][/b][/size]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
Successful indeed are the believers who are humble in their prayers, And who shun vain conversation, And who are payers of the poor-due; And who guard their modesty - [23:1-5]
[b][color=green]Ma'qal bin Yasar reported that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said:[/color] [color=red]"Prayer (Ibadah) at the time of turmoil is like migration (Hijrah) towards me."[/color] [color=green](Muslim)[/color] [/b]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
Subhan'Allah!
[b][color=DeepSkyBlue]'Abdullah bin 'Amr reported that the prophet said:[/color] "[color=magenta]How will it be with you if you are left amongst the scum of people whose covenants and trusts are loose and who will differ and become like this", and he interjoined his fingers. He asked: "What do you order me to do?" He said: "Keep to what you know, and reject what appalls you, and mind your own affairs and beware of public affairs."[/color] [color=DeepSkyBlue](Tirmidhi)[/color][/b]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
The Prophet (PBUH) said, "A man set out to visit a brother in another town and Allah sent an angel on his way. When the man met the angel, the latter asked him, "Where do you intend to go?'' He said, "I intend to visit my brother in this town". The angel said, "Have you done any favour to him?'' He said, "No, I have no desire except to visit him because I love him for the sake of Allah, the Exalted, and Glorious.'' Thereupon the angel said, "I am a messenger to you from Allah (to inform you) that Allah loves you as you love him (for His sake)". Bukhari and Muslim
"Race each other to forgiveness from your Lord and a Garden as wide as the heavens and the Earth, prepared for the people who have taqwa" (Surah Al- Imran:133)
[color=red]If I worship you from fear of hell, then cast me into hell.
If I worship you for desire of paradise, then deny me paradise.
But if I worship you for your own sake,then withhold not from me your eternal beauty
Rabia Al-Adawiya[/color]
[color=orange]When we look for strength in ourselves, we will be weak
When we look for stength in Allah, we will be invincible.[/color]
[color=yellow]The hypocrite looks for faults, the believer looks for excuses.
Abu Hamid Al-Gazali[/color]
[color=green]He who knows himself, knows his Lord.
prophet Muhammad (salallahu alayhi wasalam)[/color]
[color=blue]Whoever does not thank people, deos not thank God.
prophet Muhammad (salallahu alayhi wasalam)[/color]
Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
i've never quite understood what that means...
[b] [color=DeepSkyBlue]Abu Hurayrah (RA) reports that Rasulullah (SAW) said:[/color] [color=darkviolet]“A man utters a word, which he does not utter but to make men laugh there by, out of vain pleasure; he will fall down for this further than the distance between heaven and earth, for he slips more by his tongue than by his feet.” [/color][color=DeepSkyBlue](Bukhari) [/color][/b]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
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Nor do I! I just wrote it anyway
Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
I supose the only example that comes to mind could be, when one knows he is bad ie sinner and knows that if he repents from his sins and asks for forgiveness Allah (swt) will indeed forgive him. Hence when one knows himself truly he knows the blessings of Allah (swt) truly.
[b][color=green] ’Umar ibn al-Khattâb radiallâhu ’anhu said:[/color]
[color=orange]“Take account of your own souls, before account is taken of you. Weigh your actions before they are weighed[/color].[/b]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
Conduct yourself in this world, as if you are here to stay forever; prepare for eternity as if you have to die tomorrow. (Bukhari)
It is better to sit alone than in company with the bad; and it is better still to sit with the good than alone. It is better to speak to a seeker of knowledge than to remain silent; but silence is better than idle words. (Bukhari)
[color=red]Abu Musa, may Allah be pleased with him, reported:
Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: [/color][color=indigo][b]The similitude of a good companion and that of a bad one is that of the owner of musk and of the one (iron-smith) blowing bellows. The owner of musk would either offer you free of charge or you would buy it from him or you would smell its pleasant odor, and as for the one who blows the bellows, he would either burn your clothes or you will have to smell its repugnant smell.[/b][/color]
[b][color=DeepPink]O you who believe, If you help (in the cause of) Allah, He will help you, and make your foothold firm[/color][color=DeepSkyBlue] {Surah Muhammad7}[/color][/b]
"Modesty is part of faith and fosters only goodness" Muslim
"Stay clean as best as you can as God established Islam upon cleanliness" Ar-Rafai
"Purity is half of faith.......Prayer is the light...patience is illumination; and the Quran is an argument for or against you. Everyone starts his day and is a vendor of his soul, either freeing it or bringing about its ruin." Muslim
Fatah Momin
Ya ALLAH Madad.
Haq Chaar Yaar
Adding to the above...
“The people of knowledge and piety are in greater danger of arrogance then anyone else”
Imam Ghazzali
“All the doors to Allah (swt) are crowded except one; the door of humility and humbleness”
Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jillani (raa)
“Nothing is harder then answering a question about the haraam and halaal”
Imam Malik
When our pious predecessors were asked a question regarding haraam and halaal; it was as if death was dearer to them…
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