Submitted by kat khan on 8 February, 2009 - 19:52 #31
you wrote:
Ask him why he never thought that at the start.Sorry for being blunt but I think he played you fora fool and probably still is. If he knew this would be a problem from the start, he was thinking of you as an object to use and throw away.
i agree! you have to think before making the next step, esp in this case, what was he thinking?
you wrote:
Ask him why he went for it if he knew where it would lead? Its not as if it would have suddenly dawned on him that there would be problems. And don't let him treat you like a fool. His tears do not mean he did any different.
am sorry ..not trying to sound negative, but i dont really understand when people do this, i have come across a recent scenario..where a little brother told me that he is interested in an arab (and is a pakistani himslf) and i said to him if your thinking the long-term n islamically, and confident that your parents will accept her, then thats ok. Its just one of those things where youngsters dont think twice and they think its a joke!
x
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by kat khan on 8 February, 2009 - 19:51 #32
1R4M wrote:
I feel for u
I honestly do
This guy was never serious about u tho
I hate to say it
thats most guys for u
u were only there for fun
its what they do
mess around with girls until their mummys tell them to marry a traditional nuslim girl frm back home
pigs
dont waste ur tears on that git
i liked this one x
[/quote]
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by kat khan on 8 February, 2009 - 19:50 #33
Raven wrote:
Romeo and Juliet, Act II, Scene VI
I didnt knw u were into Shakespear?[/quote]
..what u people like lol
x
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by kat khan on 8 February, 2009 - 19:46 #34
Omrow wrote:
Salam
I am going to miss the Italian lady.
I wish she would not have gone.
But what can one do.
I pray she remains in good health thoughout her life.
I hope she finds peace and happiness in a man of her dreams.
Omrow
aww somthing nice coming from omrow lol..i think u have matured a little lol x
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by kat khan on 8 February, 2009 - 19:47 #35
ThE pOwEr Of SiLeNcE wrote:
Omrow wrote:
I pray she remains in good health thoughout her life.
I hope she finds peace and happiness in a man of her dreams.
Omrow
ameen.
sum-ameen. x
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by The Lamp on 9 February, 2009 - 09:54 #36
kat khan wrote:
am sorry ..not trying to sound negative, but i dont really understand when people do this, i have come across a recent scenario..where a little brother told me that he is interested in an arab (and is a pakistani himslf) and i said to him if your thinking the long-term n islamically, and confident that your parents will accept her, then thats ok. Its just one of those things where youngsters dont think twice and they think its a joke!
x
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.
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“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”
Mawlana Jalal ud Din Rumi
Submitted by Omrow on 9 February, 2009 - 17:29 #37
So, is the Loli gone?
Submitted by _LoLy_ on 9 February, 2009 - 18:47 #38
no..i'm here omrow!
..i told i read what you write and the things i'm curious to know but only sometimes..because i can't follow often the forum in this periods..we finish the four-month period and we have to do some exams and test and i have to study more...
however don't worry about me and "my boy"...i told him don't search me more and i'll search him when i'll ready for a friendship...but now i don't ready for this because i'm in love and he hurt me..i know he didn't want to make me sad but he did it so i think it's better don't see him....
however thank you for all..it's a pleasure read your worries about me..i'm so happy for your solidality..but maybe god thinks he isn't the boy for me...
in italy we say..."when a little door is closing, a big door will open!"
..so i have to be happy for all...
Submitted by kat khan on 9 February, 2009 - 19:17 #39
[/quote]
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.[/quote]
nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by Angelic (not verified) on 9 February, 2009 - 19:57 #40
_LoLy_ wrote:
no..i'm here omrow!
..i told i read what you write and the things i'm curious to know but only sometimes..because i can't follow often the forum in this periods..we finish the four-month period and we have to do some exams and test and i have to study more...
however don't worry about me and "my boy"...i told him don't search me more and i'll search him when i'll ready for a friendship...but now i don't ready for this because i'm in love and he hurt me..i know he didn't want to make me sad but he did it so i think it's better don't see him....
however thank you for all..it's a pleasure read your worries about me..i'm so happy for your solidality..but maybe god thinks he isn't the boy for me...
in italy we say..."when a little door is closing, a big door will open!"
..so i have to be happy for all...
Good on you girl, keep up that attitude. It's sometimes best to move on, all the best.
Submitted by RI_RS on 9 February, 2009 - 21:57 #41
Hmm.
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#Before you look at the thorns of the rose , look at it's beauty. Before you complain about the heat of the sun , enjoy it's light. Before you complain about the blackness of the night, think of it's peace and quiet... #
Submitted by The Lamp on 10 February, 2009 - 14:47 #42
kat khan wrote:
Quote:
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.
nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x
Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!
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“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by kat khan on 12 February, 2009 - 16:14 #44
The Lamp wrote:
kat khan wrote:
Quote:
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.
nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x
Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!
yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god *almighty guides him to the right path.ameen x
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Submitted by _LoLy_ on 10 February, 2009 - 21:23 #45
kat khan wrote:
The Lamp wrote:
kat khan wrote:
Quote:
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.
nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x
Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!
yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god almight guides him to the right path.ameen x
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Majmoo’ al-Fataawa (10/185):
If a man is in love with a woman, even if she is permissible for him, his heart remains enslaved to her, and she can control him as she wishes, even though outwardly he appears to be her master, because he is her husband; but in fact he is her prisoner and slave, especially if she is aware of his need and love for her. In that case, she will control him like a harsh and oppressive master controls his abject slave who cannot free himself from him. Rather he is worse off than that, because enslavement of the heart is worse than enslavement of the body.
Attachment to the opposite sex will not happen to a heart that is filled with love of Allaah; it only affects a heart that is empty and weak, so it is able to gain control of it, then when it becomes strong and powerful it is able to defeat the love of Allaah and lead the person into shirk. Hence it is said: Love is the action of an empty heart.
interesting.
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
Submitted by Angelic (not verified) on 14 February, 2009 - 08:40 #54
I wonder if it means attachment to the extent of obsession where it starts affecting a persons relationship with Allah (SWT), ie that person is so lost in their parents love that they forget Allah (SWT). Other than that having attachment and love for your partner is perfectly acceptable within Islam if not encouraged so that husband and wife can live together happily.
(read the lyrics. feel free to ignore the sounds.)
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
you wrote:
Ask him why he never thought that at the start.Sorry for being blunt but I think he played you fora fool and probably still is. If he knew this would be a problem from the start, he was thinking of you as an object to use and throw away.
i agree! you have to think before making the next step, esp in this case, what was he thinking?
you wrote:
Ask him why he went for it if he knew where it would lead? Its not as if it would have suddenly dawned on him that there would be problems. And don't let him treat you like a fool. His tears do not mean he did any different.
am sorry ..not trying to sound negative, but i dont really understand when people do this, i have come across a recent scenario..where a little brother told me that he is interested in an arab (and is a pakistani himslf) and i said to him if your thinking the long-term n islamically, and confident that your parents will accept her, then thats ok. Its just one of those things where youngsters dont think twice and they think its a joke!
x
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
1R4M wrote:
I feel for u
I honestly do
This guy was never serious about u tho
I hate to say it
thats most guys for u
u were only there for fun
its what they do
mess around with girls until their mummys tell them to marry a traditional nuslim girl frm back home
pigs
dont waste ur tears on that git
i liked this one
x
[/quote]
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Raven wrote:
Romeo and Juliet, Act II, Scene VI
I didnt knw u were into Shakespear?[/quote]
..what u people like lol
x
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
aww somthing nice coming from omrow lol..i think u have matured a little lol x
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
sum-ameen. x
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.
“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”
Mawlana Jalal ud Din Rumi
So, is the Loli gone?
no..i'm here omrow!

..i told i read what you write and the things i'm curious to know but only sometimes..because i can't follow often the forum in this periods..we finish the four-month period and we have to do some exams and test and i have to study more...
however don't worry about me and "my boy"...i told him don't search me more and i'll search him when i'll ready for a friendship...but now i don't ready for this because i'm in love and he hurt me..i know he didn't want to make me sad but he did it so i think it's better don't see him....
however thank you for all..it's a pleasure read your worries about me..i'm so happy for your solidality..but maybe god thinks he isn't the boy for me...
in italy we say..."when a little door is closing, a big door will open!"
..so i have to be happy for all...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wE-St7cfoKo&feature=channel_page
[/quote]
I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that.[/quote]
nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Good on you girl, keep up that attitude. It's sometimes best to move on, all the best.
Hmm.
#Before you look at the thorns of the rose , look at it's beauty. Before you complain about the heat of the sun , enjoy it's light. Before you complain about the blackness of the night, think of it's peace and quiet... #
Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!
“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”
Mawlana Jalal ud Din Rumi
like, seriously?
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god *almighty guides him to the right path.ameen x
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
What are you doing guys???? :doubt: :roll:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wE-St7cfoKo&feature=channel_page
Oh, this guy who's 20 is "marrying" someone as a joke. You know, the sort of thing an 8 year old might do.
“Before death takes away what you are given, give away whatever there is to give.”
Mawlana Jalal ud Din Rumi
kat khan: I'm assuming he's like.... 8 or something. Yeah little kids sometimes do that
nooo..he isnt 8..hes 20 ish lol x
The Lamp: Then he seriously needs to get serious!!!!
You wrote: like, seriously?
kat khan: yup! he sure does :)..I pray that god almight guides him to the right path.ameen x
Does that little x at the refer your path - the path of khan?
either that or the x is a kiss... :?
Back in BLACK
Salam
So she wants God to guide me to... her lips?
That might be the final destination for pram pushers.
It certainly is not mine.
By the way, nice blog Jedi.
Omrow
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
i wont be that harsh..i see it as someone is on the wrong path and seeking guidance :)..may allah t'ala guide him, i'allah.
ws
"The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.." - unknown
Does X still mark the spot?
From Islam-qa:
interesting.
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
I wonder if it means attachment to the extent of obsession where it starts affecting a persons relationship with Allah (SWT), ie that person is so lost in their parents love that they forget Allah (SWT). Other than that having attachment and love for your partner is perfectly acceptable within Islam if not encouraged so that husband and wife can live together happily.
and Islamic "love story"?
(read the lyrics. feel free to ignore the sounds.)
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
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