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Seraphim —

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MuslimSister — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 19:30

A family member has mild OCD…mainly regarding hygiene.

If a small child accidentally drops a ball in the toilet she makes the entire family have a bath.

Her phobia is regarding germs in the bathroom. It’s difficult to live with such people :? …one has to be REALLY patient and understanding, which unfortunately too many people in the Asian community aren’t.

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 19:36

[quote="MuslimSister"][quote="Augustus"]Why hasn't anybody else said anything about Naj?[/quote]

What about her..? :?[/quote]

From the bottom of the last page:

[quote="naj"]Just wanted to let you guys know im going away for sum time.....

I may or may not return, These past 5 months on this site have been amazing...

Its great to have known each and everyone of you guys,

No regrets...

Hope you have a nice time everyone.

Take care B good.

P.S nice to see your return angel.[/quote]

MuslimSister — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 19:43

[quote="Augustus"]Not sure... but considering her situation it seems a fairly obvious conclusion where she is going.[/quote]

I got my sister to PM some valuable information to her some time ago.

If she does take the advice given...inshallah she'll be fine.

Other than that...I'm sure people close to her have been informed in details of her situation...they'll raise the alarm if God Forbid anything happens.

yashmaki — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 19:58

I duno what to say to naj, it's her decision at the end of the day, and it's a difficult call to make.

Personally i wouldn't get on the plane, but maybe she sees no alternative i duno 🙁 May God help her to make the correct decision and protect her if she's going abroad.

you sure she's going abroad or just a break from the forums?

i've not pm her lately coz i did quite a few times and i don't wana seem like i'm pressuring her, it's ultimately her choice. But i should check up on her, you're right dave.

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 20:02

We can't say for certain where she is going she didn't tell us and I suspect there are reasons for that. However that is one possibility.

But nobody is saying goodbye or wishing her well... <- this is the reason I asked why nobody was saying anything.

Angel — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 20:37

Am i missing somethin, from muslimsis's posts, seems Naj is in danger :? wats up? Why she gone?

Shazan, i dont intend to back-bite bout Med to be frank i have nothing to say about him. Its Admin's call if he wants him bak, but what i do wana say is, slandering scholars is not on and people shouldnt say anythin about scholars unless they can provide evidence.

*DUST* — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 20:41

[quote="Angel"]Am i missing somethin, from muslimsis's posts, seems Naj is in danger :? wats up? Why she gone?[/quote]
ok since everyone seems to be overly worried about Naj's predicament (understandably), i'll clarify as simply as i can: she isnt 'in danger', and she's made up her mind.
ofcourse its her call to reply to ur lots' posts properly...
remember her in ur du'as everyone! 🙂

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 20:41

[quote="Angel"]Am i missing somethin, from muslimsis's posts, seems Naj is in danger :? wats up? Why she gone?

Shazan, i dont intend to back-bite bout Med to be frank i have nothing to say about him. Its Admin's call if he wants him bak, but what i do wana say is, slandering scholars is not on and people shouldnt say anythin about scholars unless they can provide evidence.[/quote]

Thanks Angel! Didn't feel right not giving you a say in this, Admin's decision stands.

Naj has an arranged marriage in Pakistan. She was having a lot of trouble with it but I think she has found a level of repose in the matter.

Angel — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 20:43

[quote="*DUST*"]
ok since everyone seems to be overly worried about Naj's predicament (understandably), i'll clarify as simply as i can: she isnt 'in danger', and she's made up her mind.

[/quote]

oh ok :? but made her mind about what? Or are u refering to pm convo's between u and Naj? in that case i'll hush....still confused :?

Dave — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 20:43

[quote="*DUST*"][quote="Angel"]Am i missing somethin, from muslimsis's posts, seems Naj is in danger :? wats up? Why she gone?[/quote]
ok since everyone seems to be overly worried about Naj's predicament (understandably), i'll clarify as simply as i can: she isnt 'in danger', and she's made up her mind.
ofcourse its her call to reply to ur lots' posts properly...
remember her in ur du'as everyone! :)[/quote]

Right... the reason I brought it up in the first place was to highlight the possibility she won't be back.

You — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 21:02

[quote="Angel"]oh ok :? but made her mind about what? Or are u refering to pm convo's between u and Naj? in that case i'll hush....still confused :?[/quote]

We could tell you. but then we will have to kill you.

consider it punishment for leaving us all in the lurch and subsequently the mob that was out to get me!

:twisted:

Angel — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 21:17

[quote="Admin"]

We could tell you. but then we will have to kill you.

consider it punishment for leaving us all in the lurch and subsequently the mob that was out to get me!

:twisted:[/quote]

ok tell me and then kill me....

Wat mob?

yuit — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 - 22:34

I sure Naj will be fine, i think she probably just had a conflict of interest for a while, but she seem like a fighter. It was certainly good having her on the forum and hope she come back soon.

MuslimSister — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 - 22:43

Guys you really must check out the pictures in the report above..there were more pictures but they couldnt all be sent

The girls really do have talent...I've attended and led numerous classes over the past three years...I do agency work, which means I'm reg sent to different schools.

But I have never come across a class that is more productive than this Friday class.

I have nothing but praise for the students. If I had a classroom I'd post their work all over the walls.

Dave — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 - 22:48

That's very interesting - and reassuring. I was dismayed to learn not too long ago about the differences in protocol for attending mosques between men and women, i'm glad to see there is equity on the matter.

They obviously worked very hard - incidentally how old was the writer? It didn't occur to me until midway through the article that she had attended the class, she wrote very well for a 6-13 year old.

I had it in mind you had written it.

MuslimSister — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 - 22:52

The girl that wrote the article is 14 and is a private school student...but the report was written collectively by four students that’s why the standard was very high…but of course, the grammar etc was edited.

*DUST* — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 - 23:48

muslimsis ur students seem really sweet mashaAllah. 🙂

[quote="Augustus"]I was dismayed to learn not too long ago about the differences in protocol for attending mosques between men and women, i'm glad to see there is equity on the matter.[/quote]how do u mean? muslimsis's house isnt the mosque... :?

Dave — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 - 23:50

[quote="*DUST*"]muslimsis ur students seem really sweet mashaAllah. 🙂

[quote="Augustus"]I was dismayed to learn not too long ago about the differences in protocol for attending mosques between men and women, i'm glad to see there is equity on the matter.[/quote]how do u mean? muslimsis's house isnt the mosque... :?[/quote]

It shows a commitment to teaching muslim girls too, rather than just boys going to the mosque and girls staying at home waiting dutifully for them to return.

Equity.

You — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 - 23:55

Well there is a hadith that says it is compulsory for every muslim, man or woman, to learn knowledge....