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I have to agree with Admin, i hate when this forum become petty, which it does quite often. Let the man say what he wants, the burden on his back at the end of the day, if you follow his style, you no better, infact you worse for having complain about him in the first place. Comment should be fair and too the point and should never get personal. Plus too be honest you can't beat Med, since day one he been up against it, nearly every member has disagree with him at one point, but he has staying power, it seem to have no effect on him. I personally don't know if it a good thing or not.

Yuit bro.....im not as old as you yet....i agree with you....but im still young 😉

you cant bea him.....he [size=7]...they... [/size]ran away once....the countless 'k, whatevaaaa's

believe it has effect.....jus watch in the long term....hes gonna thank me one day 8)

😂

yuit-

Tit For Tat

and MOST of the members here ignore-cos they're too nice for their own good

but what good has that done?

only me and Hayder start on him

some have pateince with that boy-some dont

thats the way it works

ive not promised to stop havin a go at him, well rather his views.....but no insulting stuff as i may have before, that i guarentee Admin...you have my promise

[color=red][/color]I think regarding forum behaviour n wat u can and cant say, v are all well bahaved (normally) sane human beings and we know how to act. So we shud act like we wud in the outside world (like i do).

Things like insulting scholors and insulting sects is wrong. And if u belong to a certain sect, u are taught not to talk bad about scholors, n remember wen u on this forum, u r representing ur sect or your group or your jama'ah.

Ya'ani behave like u wud behave outside and infront of ur teachers. I know if i said bad things about other Jama'ah's infront of my teachers they wudnt be too happy. So u never hear me do so, if i do its never an insult, its a truthful comment.

N if i do say summin bad personal about sum1 (normally Med), then admin always on hand to delete my post (which he duz far too much) but i understand y he duz it.

N i'd Like to take a moment to apoligise, yes apoligise to Med for being so nasty n hurtinbg your feelings, I apoligise Med.

Well isn't that nice!

Razor has courage to admit that!

Very good! 😃

[quote="Hayder on Holiday"]Yuit bro.....im not as old as you yet....i agree with you....but im still young 😉

you cant bea him.....he [size=7]...they... [/size]ran away once....the countless 'k, whatevaaaa's

believe it has effect.....jus watch in the long term....hes gonna thank me one day 8)

:lol:[/quote]

Tru that what i was thinking, maybe it old age speaking 🙁 . But personally i believe that someone like Aasiyah and Admin has giving him the best response and so has Muslim Sis and Yash when they decided to comment on something he said. Because using wisdom and making someone a account for what they have said and provide reference and to investigate the point deeper, is much more better IMO in making people see the error of their way and hopefully the same applies for the individual as well. By letting a individual change ur behaviour i personally think he won, even if it seem he hasn't, as he ingrain an theory of tit for tat in u. I personally believe in the long run, it best to return bad with good, even though the response u may want is not immediately obvious. It what i was taught about Islam.

[quote="yuit"]

Tru that what i was thinking, maybe it old age speaking 🙁 . But personally i believe that someone like Aasiyah and Admin has giving him the best response and so has Muslim Sis and Yash when they decided to comment on something he said. Because using wisdom and making someone a account for what they have said and provide reference and to investigate the point deeper, is much more better IMO in making people see the error of their way and hopefully the same applies for the individual as well. By letting a individual change ur behaviour i personally think he won, even if it seem he hasn't, as he ingrain an theory of tit for tat in u. I personally believe in the long run, it best to return bad with good, even though the response u may want is not immediately obvious. It what i was taught about Islam.[/quote]

The force is strong with in this one! 😃

[quote="razor"]

Things like insulting scholors and insulting sects is wrong. And if u belong to a certain sect, u are taught not to talk bad about scholors, n remember wen u on this forum, u r representing ur sect or your group or your jama'ah.

Ya'ani behave like u wud behave outside and infront of ur teachers. I know if i said bad things about other Jama'ah's infront of my teachers they wudnt be too happy. So u never hear me do so, if i do its never an insult, its a truthful comment.

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^^^^^^^I agree with razor - and I think Med will appreciate your apology

went in ta uni today 2 hand in my essay....I wore a jilbaab 4 the 1st time (well not strictly true - wore jilbaab twice in Ramadan) but apart from that was my 1st time and now Insha'Allah gona wear it permenantly.....but 2 my point I got off the train started walking 2wards uni - when I saw this white kid (probs about 14 or something) and he comes up ta me and says will u go 2 the shop 4 me? Im just there staring at his face thinking WHY?? so asked him and he said 4 some cigs! :roll: I hate smoking....I soooo hate passive smoking feel like taking the cig from the persons hand and stamping on it when ppl dont respect non-smokers in the streets :!:

anyway I was just like 'um no I gota go' :!: u should have seen his face it just fell...poor thing but I wasnt gona go and give my hand in helping him 2 an early grave now was I :!: and then I thought 1st time I wear the jilbaab and this happens...just made me laugh 😂 even though not that funny :!:

Mashallah Sis. I wore a jilbaab in the first year of Uni...I did however take it off, cos of various reasons.

I rate you, May Allah (swt) reward you and give you strength to continue.

[quote="MuslimSister"]I rate you, May Allah (swt) reward you and give you strength to continue.[/quote]

Jazak'Allah sis 😃

Razor your apology is accepted although I dont think it was needed.

Btw if you think I was remotely insulted or bothered by anything you wrote then I assure you I wasnt. Alhamdulillah it was nothing.

[quote="Med"]Razor your apology is accepted although I dont think it was needed.

Btw if you think I was remotely insulted or bothered by anything you wrote then I assure you I wasnt. Alhamdulillah it was nothing.[/quote]

:roll: boys WILL always be boys

[quote="muslim_kuri"]went in ta uni today 2 hand in my essay....I wore a jilbaab 4 the 1st time (well not strictly true - wore jilbaab twice in Ramadan) but apart from that was my 1st time and now Insha'Allah gona wear it permenantly.....[/quote]
aww congrats on jilbab-ing! 😃

[quote="Aasiyah"][quote="muslim_kuri"]went in ta uni today 2 hand in my essay....I wore a jilbaab 4 the 1st time (well not strictly true - wore jilbaab twice in Ramadan) but apart from that was my 1st time and now Insha'Allah gona wear it permenantly.....[/quote]
aww congrats on jilbab-ing! :D[/quote]

Jazak'Allah sis 😃

im really glad i made the decision ta wear it and Insha'Allah il stick with it - it feels really good because whilst wearing it im always reminded of my actions and consequently im always reminded that Allah is watching me.....makes it a lot easier ta remember your deen in everyday life because u know that the only reason u dress the way u do is because of Allah

[quote="muslim_kuri"]im really glad i made the decision ta wear it and Insha'Allah il stick with it - it feels really good because whilst wearing it im always reminded of my actions and consequently im always reminded that Allah is watching me.....makes it a lot easier ta remember your deen in everyday life because u know that the only reason u dress the way u do is because of Allah[/quote]
😃

mashaALLAH. Congratulations to the believing lady who has opted to wear the dress of islaam. May ALLAH accept it and make you steadfast. ameen.

[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]yuit-

Tit For Tat

and MOST of the members here ignore-cos they're too nice for their own good

but what good has that done?

only me and Hayder start on him

some have pateince with that boy-some dont

thats the way it works[/quote]
are u saying 'Tit for Tat' is a [b]good[/b] thing?! :?

'having a go at/starting on' someone isnt the solution, its more important to address the essence of the argument which we may see as wrong, as opposed to attacking the person.

and i'd like to think i'm not one of those who 'ignores' Med... 😉

Jazak'Allah Med

I started to wear the hijab during high school!

My mum told me to, I felt a bit weird but then got used to it in the end.

However why do lots of English white girls start asking questions when you just convineantly came to school one day wearing a hijab?

:?

[quote="Mez"]However why do lots of English white girls start asking questions when you just convineantly came to school one day wearing a hijab?[/quote]
thats a good thing! an opportunity for da'wah! 🙂

and it should be expected right, i mean i wud be curious if i was a non-muslim...

[quote="Aasiyah"]
thats a good thing! an opportunity for da'wah! 🙂

and it should be expected right, i mean i wud be curious if i was a non-muslim...[/quote]

I suppose it is a good thing because they might be interested in Islam!

Congtaulations Muslim_Kuri....

and you too 'Mez- 😃 '

Jazak'Allah bro

[quote="Aasiya"]thats a good thing! an opportunity for da'wah!

and it should be expected right, i mean i wud be curious if i was a non-muslim...
[/quote]

yeh man get in there and answer all their questions>>>my sis is studying religious studies at 6th form and non-Muslims are ALWAYS throwing questions at her and by the end of the year we may have a few converts 😃 8)

[quote="Hayder on Holiday"]Congtaulations Muslim_Kuri....

and you too 'Mez- 😃 '[/quote]

Thanks!! 😃

Is jilbaab the thing that covers the whole face except the eyes?

Thats cool, [joke] u can go up2 ya mates, n jus stand there, n they wudnt kno who u r, n jus keep staring at them n following them lol that wud b funny.[/joke] 😂

Obviously u wud eventually tell em who u r.

P.S the above is a joke.

[yoda] go now, one must [/yoda]

[quote="razor"]Is jilbaab the thing that covers the whole face except the eyes?

Thats cool, [joke] u can go up2 ya mates, n jus stand there, n they wudnt kno who u r, n jus keep staring at them n following them lol that wud b funny.[/joke] 😂

Obviously u wud eventually tell em who u r.

P.S the above is a joke.

[yoda] go now, one must [/yoda][/quote]
no, jilbab is just the loose gown/dress/outergarment that u wear along with a headscarf. 😛

lol razor which joke book did ya find that 1 from :roll: anyway nah thats the niqaab your on about - Insha'Allah maybe 1 day il feel strong enough ta wear it

iv just come across a revival issue from 4 years back :shock: dont know where its bin hiding but i spotted it today....its got Ali G in it lolzzz