BUT....if we put ourselves in the high heels of aunties with bad son/daughters.
Wouldnt it be correct to say that many of us would do the same thing?
Submitted by yuit on 2 September, 2005 - 10:37 #34
Of course, it fully understandable why people would want to get there kids married off too people who are more responsible and who may be able to lead there kids onto the right path, I seen it implemented and it be successful in some cases, but not all. If the aunties didn't, it would be a case of them accepting failure and that ain't really good either.
On a side note, I love Aunties and Uncles, they all cool with me and I can't really relate to this subject.
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"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
if i had a bad son/dauhter i would NEVER hook them up with someone decent
i would NEVER hide their faults and make then out to be little angels if they werent
its wrong to decieve people and ruin other peoples lives
So you would not want the best for your kid?
Would not hope your kid sorts him/herself out?
Would you not want him/her to actually become a better person?
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"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
EXCATLY
stupid aunties think that a wife/husband can change their good for nothing son/daughter
sumin that they couldnt do all their life
even Islam says that good girls are for good boys and bad girls are for bad boys
so if son is a playa they should look for a playa girl for him :evil:
good people shud marry good people/......and bad people shudnt marry!
why ruin someone else's live and future kids?
The Lover is ever drunk with love;
He is free, he is mad,
He dances with ecstasy and delight.
Caught by our own thoughts,
We worry about every little thing,
But once we get drunk on that love,
Whatever will be, will be.
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BUT....if we put ourselves in the high heels of aunties with bad son/daughters.
Wouldnt it be correct to say that many of us would do the same thing?
Of course, it fully understandable why people would want to get there kids married off too people who are more responsible and who may be able to lead there kids onto the right path, I seen it implemented and it be successful in some cases, but not all. If the aunties didn't, it would be a case of them accepting failure and that ain't really good either.
On a side note, I love Aunties and Uncles, they all cool with me and I can't really relate to this subject.
"A true Muslim is thankful to Allah in prosperity, and resigned to His will in adversity."
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if i had a bad son/dauhter i would NEVER hook them up with someone decent
i would NEVER hide their faults and make then out to be little angels if they werent
its wrong to decieve people and ruin other peoples lives
So you would not want the best for your kid?
Would not hope your kid sorts him/herself out?
Would you not want him/her to actually become a better person?
"For too long, we have been a passively tolerant society, saying to our citizens 'as long as you obey the law, we will leave you alone'" - David Cameron, UK Prime Minister. 13 May 2015.
I’m sure everyone wishes the best for their kids and pray that they sort themselves out.
However it’s wrong to expect that at the expense of others.
course I would
but i wouldnt want to ruin other people's lives in the process
only evil people do that :evil:
Salam
May I suggest here that the females bear it in their mind that soon they too will be Aunties.
The above lists will apply to them too.
God help them !!
Omrow
I'm gonna be a cool, aunty
all the women in my generation will be
no one will be backwards and cultural
Salam
Thats exactly what they claimed.
It remains a vicious circle furbal. Unless you want to move into the holy triangle.
Omrow
the diff with me will be that I will be a BORN AND BRED BRITISH PAKI
so i couldnt be cultural even if i wanted to
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