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Salaam
When I was in Year 7 I really looked up to the girls in the years above… Befriending people in the year above boosted the popularity of the younger lot…obviously befriending the older lot was easier if you had an older sibling.
In my town there are many older guys who get the younger lot to do their dirty work…they use the younger lot to sell their weed, jack cars or make them do manual labour ….the younger kids buzz of the fact that someone “older and more popular” is paying them attention and sometimes they get a tenner out of doing work for them…
My brother is banned from hanging round with guys who are older than him.
For the past four years I’ve led two study circles a week and have taught in an Islamic Summer School almost every year….I have a small group of 12/13 year olds who attend almost all that I’m involved in….only the other day I realised that these girls do pretty much anything I tell them to do…
I remember when I was 12/13….I didn’t listen to my parents, I ignored my siblings…but the opinion of my mates meant everything to me, esp if they were older then me.
Kids aged 12-15 are incredibly influential…Sheikh Abdul Qadr Jillani (ra) said that at this age kids are like sponges, easily influenced and remember for life what they are exposed to…
I think that those of us who take Islam seriously should all take a young person under their wing…
What do you guys think?
Wasalaam
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heyyy, what about minhaj ul quran??
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Med don’t debate piety points with her. Let her call the police on you!
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Im not interested in anything you say LilSis - open yr eyes I havnt mentioned nething abt minhaj.
Deaf dumb and blind woman.
[quote="(*_Shazan"]Med don’t debate piety points with her. Let her call the police on you![/quote]
LOL - bechari probably end up getting done for wasting police time. hahahaha.
I dnt get it though - why do some people do these things to masaajid and madaaris? Dont they know they lose their iman by such actions?
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keep ur mouth shut u child beating scum
and shaz-why the hell wud i waste my time in calling the police on him-i'm sure it wont be long before someone else does it anyway
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[quote="(*_Shazan"]Med don’t debate piety points with her. Let her call the police on you![/quote]
Actually that would be a bad idea...
Physical chastisement is banned in the UK. You gotta follow the law.
Besides the chastisement allowed in Islam should not really hurt. People forget the rules of physical chastisement. If enough power is use so that it can bruise it is banned. (and no, that does not mean hit them where they will bruise less...)
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[quote="*_Noor_*"]heyyy, what about minhaj ul quran??[/quote]
its a pathetic dig-
i cuss bin liner ladin-Minhaj gets brought up
we're talking about mosques where kids get beaten up-minhaj gets brought up
its not unsual on this forum-it means nuttin to me though
i have no links with any group/teacher-except revival
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[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]keep ur mouth shut u child beating scum
and shaz-why the hell wud i waste my time in calling the police on him-i'm sure it wont be long before someone else does it anyway[/quote]
Discipline is important, Med didn’t say he beats children into a pope, simply being firm with them, clearly you was denied this and that’s why we have village feminist moaning day and night..........
Stop your continuous witch-hunting it's ruining your life
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med says he "hits kids"
i aint gonna sit here analysing "how much he hits them"
its not surprising that he has to use force to get his point across
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[quote="(*_Shazan"]
Discipline is important, Med didn’t say he beats children into a pope, simply being firm with them, clearly you was denied this and that’s why we have village feminist moaning day and night..........
Stop your continuous witch-hunting it's ruining your life[/quote]
LOL May ALLAH make you laff in the highest paradise bruv - u joker 😛 .
LilSis what are you talking abt? Where have I mentioned Minhaj? **confused** try looking at who write what before accusing people.
Admin writes abt minhaj and lilsis pretends its me. loooooool
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[quote="*_Noor_*"]heyyy, what about minhaj ul quran??[/quote]
Read my post and that's what it's about!
The only person who makes malicious digs is her!
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[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="*_Noor_*"]heyyy, what about minhaj ul quran??[/quote]
Read my post and that's what it's about!
The only person who makes malicious digs is her![/quote]
u no what, cant be botherd, ppl grow up!
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[quote="Med Mian"]
Admin writes abt minhaj and lilsis pretends its me. loooooool[/quote]
actaully it was the "bitter paki hater-Shaz" who brought it up-not Admin
u need to read posts properly too
my mistake-it wasnt u this time
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[quote="Med Mian"]Admin writes abt minhaj and lilsis pretends its me. loooooool[/quote]
oiiiii!
Hold your tongue!
(I just wanted to say that! :twisted: )
You need to pay more attention to who is the author of the post.
And shazan - LilSis and Med will always be at each others throats. I think both find it entertaining. Its best if you just watch from the sidelines. Or try to calm things down. Do not try to escalate it as you are atm.
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[quote="(*_Shazan"][quote="MuslimSisLilSis"][quote="Med"]Alhamdulillah the masjid o madrassah has never had problems with police.[/quote]
well keep on preaching/practsing the "traditional islamic" way to beat kids and i doubt that'd last[/quote]
The banner appealing for aid for Kashmir has been removed above the entrance of MinHaj, shouldn’t there be one for Lebanon![/quote]
Minhaj has it's own welfare foundation in which it gives money so yeah it would have a fund for lebanon, basically anywhere it is needed.
Shazan by bringin MQ into the convo to make a point is useless as lilsis said she aint even part of MQ :roll:
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i think we shud have a thread dedicated to lilsis and med..
what does every1 say..?
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my mistake - point is I didnt bring it up.
Neways so who would consider adopting/fostering?
Im not so sure about fostering/adopting cos of the whole issue abt purdah - if its a girl it wud require keeping myself and sons away from her, if its a boy would require keeping daughters and wives away from him.
The only way I can see is to have the child before he/she is 2 years old and make him a foster child by suckling cos then all the issues of purdah are sorted.
Having said that I would definitely consider something like setting up a yateemkhana in pakistan and going there yearly and making sure all the kids are well looked after.
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[quote="*_Noor_*"]i think we shud have a thread dedicated to lilsis and med..
what does every1 say..?[/quote]
Hey you're from Minhaj!
I post there sometimes as Dave...
*and this conversation is hilarious!
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What you called on ther???
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[quote="*_Noor_*"]i think we shud have a thread dedicated to lilsis and med..
what does every1 say..?[/quote]
They would rather do that every topic.
Med thanks for going back on topic.
I would say I am too young and also too immature to even think about such subjects.
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[quote="Angel"][
Shazan by bringin MQ into the convo to make a point is useless as lilsis said she aint even part of MQ :roll:[/quote]
The point being is Miss tantrum is allowed to insult Med’S local Masjid and if he did insult MinHaj or whatever place she worships at, then he would be vilified...... that was the point
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[quote="Admin"][quote="*_Noor_*"]i think we shud have a thread dedicated to lilsis and med..
what does every1 say..?[/quote]
They would rather do that every topic.
Med thanks for going back on topic.
I would say I am too young and also too immature to even think about such subjects.[/quote]
lol - I wasnt talking abt right now. I can hardly feed myself at moment - but in the future?
Its definitely something to consider innit.
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[quote="*_Noor_*"]What you called on ther???[/quote]
lol "Dave" ... haven't posted in a while...
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[quote="Odysseus"][quote="*_Noor_*"]What you called on ther???[/quote]
lol "Dave" ... haven't posted in a while...[/quote]
yeah u havnt...
its a bit dead on ther...
needs livening up like the revival! 😃
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[quote="MuslimSisLilSis"]
actaully it was the "bitter paki hater-Shaz" who brought it up-not Admin
u need to read posts properly too
my mistake-it wasnt u this time[/quote]
Who is bitter, it’s off-putting to read your daily rot on this forum. And thanks for given me the label of being a racist,- you’ve run out of arguments and result to girly insults. Lol
Little sister your more concerned about on what Med is perceived to be or not doing, what about the welfare of these young students, have some compassion for them and make a hasten complaint at Forest Gate Police station and get this “wicked” person locked up.
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stick to topic folks :evil:
(and since when is shazan a paki-hater? Im a paki - he doesnt hate me ( i think 😛 )) why is is being allowed that shazan is maligned like this?
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[quote="Med Mian"]stick to topic folks :evil:
(and since when is shazan a paki-hater? Im a paki - he doesnt hate me ( i think 😛 )) why is is being allowed that shazan is maligned like this?[/quote]
Goes back to 1971 debate I first had.
Our littlesister is the starter of conflict but she doesn’t finish them. Silly jezebel
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[quote="Med Mian"]stick to topic folks :evil:
(and since when is shazan a paki-hater? Im a paki - he doesnt hate me ( i think 😛 )) why is is being allowed that shazan is maligned like this?[/quote]
Long story we don't have the time for. Shaz doesn't hate pakis...
as much as me :twisted:
lol seriously though let's not toss around insults and dig up ancient history
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[quote="Odysseus"][quote="Med Mian"]stick to topic folks :evil:
(and since when is shazan a paki-hater? Im a paki - he doesnt hate me ( i think 😛 )) why is is being allowed that shazan is maligned like this?[/quote]
Long story we don't have the time for. Shaz doesn't hate pakis...
as much as me :twisted:
lol seriously though let's not toss around insults and dig up ancient history[/quote]
Yeah it's very tough, remeber that time when i had to prove you were a snob, boy i passed with fly colours, i am the best 😛
BACK TO TOPIC - Adopting kids....
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[quote="Odysseus"][quote="Med Mian"]stick to topic folks :evil:
(and since when is shazan a paki-hater? Im a paki - he doesnt hate me ( i think 😛 )) why is is being allowed that shazan is maligned like this?[/quote]
lol seriously though let's not toss around insults and dig up ancient history[/quote]
Remind her that naseeha should be given in private :roll:
[quote="Med Mian"] and it has been our tradition that physical discipline has been used when required - .[/quote]
[quote="Med Mian"] I dont hit that much but sometimes I do and thats how it should be - :[/quote]
the boy preachs/practices hitting kids-i have an issue with that
HOW THE HELL IS THAT SUSPICION-THE BOY OPENLY ADMITS HIS DEMENETED ACTIONS
police in the past have closed down mosques/deported imams and sacked them for that
and Med and u can say what u wants about minhaj-i aint a minhaji-so it means nothing to me-
if u have a bone to pick with them-u speaking to the wrong person